The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley

How do you react when you hear the buzzword ‘culture’? If you’re tempted to roll your eyes, it’s probably because much of what we see online and in the workplace around culture is contrived. So, how do we build a genuinely strong culture in our teams—at home and at work? On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I discuss the power of building a strong culture, describing what differentiates a m...

On any personal growth journey, it’s a real challenge to use new tools when you’re in crisis. And even the best coaches in the world can’t help you if you whip out the shame stick every time things don’t go your way. So, what IS the secret to responding with grace in challenging circumstances? On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I explain why self-compassion is the key to personal growth,...

Do you know if you are accurately typed on the Enneagram? In a world where online quizzes are shockingly inaccurate 65 to 70% of the time, it's time to shed light on the complexities of mistyping and why it happens so frequently. Because if you're seeking to harness the Enneagram's transformative potential, proper typing is the vital first step, paving the way for a profound understanding of ourse...

A great responsibility comes with leadership and impact-making, whether in your personal relationships with your children or your professional relationships as an entrepreneur. But we often find that what we put out into the world isn't always received as we had hoped, leading to a breakdown in communication or, worse, people withdrawing from us. Eleven years ago, when I was learning about the Enn...

Can the Enneagram help you navigate real-life changes and facilitate understanding (and even a sense of calm) when the rubber meets the road in real-life situations? You bet it can. But how? If you've been following along, you know I'm going through a radical change in my life right now. My nest is empty as both of my children have moved out on their own. It's such an exciting time, and although w...

Enneagram 9s in the entrepreneurial space usually know they're made for more. But their quest for harmony creates an internal conflict. To be a successful entrepreneur, you have to be a little bold and polarizing. And the Adaptive Peacemaker’s instinct is to give that a hard pass. So, what can 9s do to step into their power and find peace in the disruption? Bernadette Marciniak is the creator of S...

Investing is a field that can often feel overwhelming and even intimidating, especially for women who may feel like they're entering a male-dominated space. However, on today's episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we're joined by two guests who didn't let that stop them. In fact, they have made it their mission to help others learn about investing while also positively impacting their communities...

"When you understand the dynamics of your custom framework, managing stress in the healthiest way is super possible." Stress affects each of us differently, depending on our Enneagram type. Sometimes we swing from one extreme to the other, feeling like everything is flowing beautifully one moment and everything is falling apart the next. Stress can also rob us of the beautiful parts of life or lea...

"Healing is really important on the path to success. No matter how successful we get, no matter how much money, no matter how many accolades, if we don't have a healthy relationship to ourselves, nothing ever feels enough,"- Natalia Benson My guest today struggled with cocaine addiction and was addicted to alcohol when she moved to LA, but Astrology helped her turn her life around because it spoke...

"I started to realize that I needed to repackage the message, simplify it, and frame it for people [so] that when talking about what we need to do to operate more successfully and effectively as a team, I don't mean we have to scrap it. There are small disruptive things that we can do that have a huge impact."- Lia Garvin My guest today struggled as a woman in a male-dominated field where she noti...

To lead other people effectively, you have to be able to lead yourself. And that’s why understanding your Enneagram type at a deeper level is really, really important. But next-level Enneagram integration comes from understanding the other types. So, what is the BEST way to learn about other Enneagram types and the way they see the world? On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I explain why i...

“I hit my first six figures in six months, I hit my first half a million dollars in 18 months. And I truly believe that I did that because I put my head down, I got focused, and I didn't have 1000 people telling me 1000 different things,” - Jillian Murphy Sales drive our economy. It’s what drives every business, no matter the kind of business. I’ll be honest, I’m like the queen of the “no sell, se...

Are you facing a significant life transition, such as moving to a new city or starting a new job? Maybe you're dealing with losing a loved one or a romantic partnership. Whatever the change may be, it can stir up feelings of uncertainty and vulnerability as you face the unknown. But by using the tools of the Enneagram, you can navigate these transitions with grace and emotional intelligence. At th...

“The power of the tool is only as good as the intent behind it.” Some people misunderstand or misuse the Enneagram, leading to negative perceptions of the tool. But it's vital to use ANY personal growth tool, with integrity and the right intentions—because even the Enneagram is only as powerful as the intent behind using it. In this episode of "Lead With The Enneagram," we'll explore the importanc...

"If you just have a strong IQ but a low EQ, you actually may never produce the gifts and step into who you are designed to be." Intellectual intelligence (IQ) refers to the ability to learn, understand, and apply information to skills, logic, reasoning, and other forms of thinking. On the other hand, emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to identify, assess, and control your own emotions, as...

If you’ve experienced a personal transformation, it’s natural to want to share what you’ve learned with the people close to you. That’s why I’m getting so many bookings for my Enneagram partner session . But before you try to fix your partner, teammate, friend, spouse or child, ask yourself what you’re bringing to the table. Are you taking responsibility for your part in any conflict? Are you brin...

I turned 51 yesterday. But because I was the black sheep in my family growing up, I never felt celebrated. And consequently, I still struggle with birthdays. Here’s the thing, though. I would much rather own the pain of being the black sheep than give up on my calling in order to fit in. So, how do you move through the judgement and loneliness that comes from breaking unhealthy cycles in your fami...

Are you feeling the need for a change, or do you constantly chase after new shiny objects? Perhaps you're a multi-passionate individual struggling with purpose anxiety. If so, it's crucial to take a moment and consider if you truly need to pivot or reframe your messaging. But it's essential to approach these questions with radical honesty while tempering them with self-compassion (so you don't fal...

I am fresh off a week of being poured into by my own mentor. And yes, it was uncomfortable for me. As an Enneagram 8, I resist the level of surrender and vulnerability good coaching requires. But if you want to move the needle in your life, you need a mentor or coach who sees through your bullshit and supports you in the hard work of getting to the next level of your personal and professional life...

"Whether you're trying to grow your business or live a better life, clarity of self is the foundation of all of it. Understanding how to master yourself will make all of those other tools, strategies, and everything else that you're trying to make work right now easy," - Nicole Laino Self-awareness can pave the way to greater success and fulfillment in all areas of life. Clearly understanding your...

The Enneagram isn't a labeling system; it's a powerful tool for growth that can transform your life personally and professionally. The power of the Enneagram begins when you are correctly typed—that's VITAL—but while knowing your correct Enneagram type is essential, there is so much more to explore and understand about the Enneagram. So, how do you power up your Enneagram knowledge to next level y...

Want change? Sure, we ALL do. Wanting change is a universal human experience. But when it comes to emotional and spiritual growth, desire alone is not enough. It's like taking a trip to a new place without a map or sense of direction–you might end up lost and back where you started. To create sustainable change, it's crucial to understand who you are and what drives you. Because without a solid fo...

Enneagram 7s, known as the Enthusiastic Visionaries, possess a unique ability to see endless possibilities and pursue multiple passions with fervor. However, without creating the right conditions for their ideas to flourish, their boundless energy can seem like a shower of glitter that fails to stick. While being multi-passionate can be a blessing, it can also be a curse for Enneagram 7s, who fear...

"The magic can't move in unless you have made room for it." Do you feel stuck going through the motions, not living up to your potential? Are you ready for real change but need help knowing where to start? Or maybe you've taken a leap toward your passion, but it's been more challenging than you expected. You're not alone! And turning the page and stepping into the next chapter of your life can be...

The Enneagram is a powerful psychological system that describes the unique ways people think, feel, and act in the world based on their core beliefs, fears, motivations, passions, vices, and tendencies. But there's so much more to the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth. And what I’m going to talk about on this episode might just blow your mind. It may also shed light on why the Enneagram hasn...