The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley

In this episode, I dive into understanding the Centers of Intelligence and how this is key to understanding oneself and others. These centers, including the gut or instinctual center, the heart or feeling center, and the head or thinking center, house the nine Enneagram types. Depending on an individual's core Enneagram type, they default to a specific center of intelligence. Recognizing which cen...

In this episode, my guest is Katherine Horrigan (SP Enneagram 9). Katherine is Founder/CEO of the Dance Academy of Virginia, based in the DC metro area, which in its 2 yrs has grown to a student body of over 900. Katherine is a mother, business leader, mentor, teacher, choreographer and former professional dancer. You can find her on Instagram @kathorrigan @danceacademyvaOr check our her website h...

In this episode, we explore the three centers of intelligence in the Enneagram: thinking, feeling, and instinctual. These centers group together different Enneagram types based on their primary drivers and motivations. The thinking center encompasses types five, six, and seven. These types are primarily driven by their thoughts and have a strong desire for knowledge, understanding, and intellectua...

In this episode, I have my friend Brandi Gilstrap (SP Enneagram 6) as a guest. Brandi has had a lifetime of experience dealing with chaos, pain, hurt, and hiding behind it all. Her mission in this life is to help free people from the behaviors and habits that have kept them stuck and unfulfilled, to teach new behaviors of caring for yourself and to watch you grow into all you were born to be. Bran...

In this episode, we are unlocking the Hexad in the Enneagram which represents the law of one and emphasizes the interconnectedness of all individuals. The Hexad and the Law of Seven are concepts within the Enneagram that offer a unique perspective on the non-linear nature of life and help individuals embrace the twists and turns they encounter. Represented by a six-pointed line in the Enneagram di...

In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I am speaking with the amazing Kacia Ghetmiri. Kacia is the host of the popular podcast "Empower Her." More than a podcaster or event host, you can think of Kacia as your go-to hype woman who is always there to encourage you and share experiences with you. She pulls back the curtain on what it means to redefine success and build a fulfilling life. From b...

In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the significance of the triangle within the framework and diagram of the Enneagram. Enneagram 101 episodes feature powerful conversations, live typing sessions, and solo episodes that break down the dynamics of the Enneagram and their impact on life, career, and relationships. Understanding the interconnectedness of the different triangles wi...

In this episode of Lead With The Enneagram, I am getting super vulnerable as I share the importance of being the MVP in your own life rather than constantly seeking validation from others. I share a personal story from the mastermind event I attended and the value of freely giving your gifts without expecting anything in return. I also dive into the significance of understanding your motives and d...

In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the spiritual meaning of the Enneagram's circular shape. The circular shape symbolizes wholeness, unity, and interconnectedness. Each of the nine Enneagram types has a unique expression and perspective, but together they create a diverse and compassionate understanding of the world. Tune in to discover the spiritual dimensions of the Enneagra...

In this episode, we dive into integrating and leveraging your Enneagram type to become a powerful leader in your life. Our guest, Surbhi Dedhia, an Enneagram 7, shares her insights as an entrepreneur, mom, and fellow podcaster. Serby is the founder of Digital Genie, a boutique marketing consulting company, as well as jotmybio.com, a personal bio writing service. Surbhi hosts The Making of a Though...

In this episode I am talking about the Enneagram being the holy grail of personal development tools. Understanding the "why" behind our actions and the actions of others is crucial for true understanding and transformation. The Enneagram goes beyond surface-level behaviors and delves into the underlying motivations, defense mechanisms, and fears that drive our thoughts, feelings, and actions. By c...

In this episode, I reflect on a recent workshop I did for a mastermind group. This workshop reflected to me all over again the power of bringing people together to learn about themselves and others, and how the Enneagram can create a sense of being seen and understood. It’s not enough just to know about the Enneagram, that’s not where the magic happens, the magic is in the integration. True transf...

In this episode, I am talking about the importance of the Enneagram in our lives and its significance in personal transformation. The Enneagram is not just a trendy label, but a powerful tool for understanding yourself and others. I share with with you how I first resisted the Enneagram, but how it has not only had a massive impact on my life, but how it has helped shape me and better understand n...

In this episode, I am talking all about procrastination, how it affects high achievers and the importance of understanding the root cause behind procrastination and approaching it with compassion and grace. Procrastination is a common struggle for everyone and often stems from a fear of vulnerability or the anticipation of being exposed. The fear of conflict, betrayal, or violation may arise from...

In this episode I am letting you inside all that we have been working on behind the scenes for the podcast! I am developing new and valuable methods for integrating the Enneagram into your life and I want to provide you not only with knowledge about the Enneagram but also with practical strategies to apply it in both your personal and professional life. When I've interviewed people in the past or...

Welcome to Season 2 of Lead with the Enneagram - things are about to get very real. On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the concept of self-abandonment and its profound impact on our relationships and overall well-being. Self-abandonment is often done with the intention of being a better partner, friend, or family member. However, this behavior actually hinders personal growth...

Have you run across somebody with the same Enneagram type as you and thought, ‘But we’re SO different?’ That can be confusing and may even make you question the usefulness of the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth. But there is more to the Enneagram and more to YOU than just your core type. And if you understand its full framework, you can appreciate how two individuals with the same type mig...

How do you behave under stress? Do you act out in a way you’re not proud of? Maybe you do things that are out of character? Or even sabotage yourself? Before I had the framework of the Enneagram, stressful times often led me down a shame spiral. But now that I understand why I go into my stress number when I’m overwhelmed, I can use the gifts of that Enneagram type to pull myself out—without beati...

Do you regret the past? Or harbor resentment toward people who caused you pain? You may be tempted to shut the door on the past. But what if acknowledging what happened and understanding how it shaped you is the first step in transforming your life? On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I share the not-so-positive parts of my past and explain how childhood beliefs shape our actions and hold...

Can you believe it? We've reached the halfway point of 2023. As we pause to reflect on the year so far, it's natural to reassess our big goals and plans. And sometimes, things unfold differently than we imagined or desired. But even if our journey has taken an unexpected turn, there's still an opportunity to transform these experiences. Because here's the truth—you have the power to take something...

I helped four people get fired this week. That may sound savage, but the truth is, we’re not doing people any favors by keeping them in a role that isn’t a good fit. So, how do you make hard decisions around who is serving you and who isn’t? And what’s the best way to let people go in your personal or professional life? On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I discuss the consequences of keep...

Many of us are standing at life's crossroads, grappling with situations that keep us awake at night or yearning for a transformative shift forward. We crave change, yet distinguishing between genuine motivations and those driven by a desire to escape pain or discomfort can be challenging. And making decisions from a place of fear or avoidance will only lead us astray, diverting us from our true pu...

When I met Brittany Furnari Fisher at my recent in-person Enneagram retreat, I saw a fierce woman with powerful energy. But I also recognized she was in a tremendous amount of pain that she’d never felt safe enough to talk about. So, what gave this Enneagram 6 the courage to open up about her trauma? How did Brittany move through her fear of uncertainty and learn to share her vulnerability with ot...

The bottlenecks in your life can have a detrimental impact on your personal and professional life, especially your most personal relationships. You’re probably out there raising your hand and saying I am tired of this bottleneck; I'm tired of feeling stuck. I know better. Why am I not doing better? I guarantee that staying bottlenecks only creates more frustration. It's vital that you recognize th...

The core focus on an Enneagram 9 is harmony, which sounds like a really good thing. And it is. But the problem arises when an Adaptive Peacemaker chooses harmony in the moment to the detriment of their Future Self. Before attending my in-person Enneagram retreat, Alexandria Keahi experienced this exact challenge, staying quiet to avoid conflict and ignoring her own dreams to accommodate others. So...