The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers

Brett "Zach" Zachman, founder of BeMen a non-profit organization focused on male wellness, joins Jude to share parts of his 5 Pillars of Male Wellness talk coming up at the M.E.N. Summit on August 24th in Parker, CO. For more info on the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Privat...

When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. T...

In this compelling episode of "Fatherhood In The Age of Mediocrity," we dive into the challenges of modern-day fatherhood. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of Solidman.com, Ken Curry, joins Jude and explores how societal changes and evolving cultural norms impact the role of fathers today. The discussion begins by addressing the concept of mediocrity in contemporary soc...

Now that you have a clear vision and direction and you’ve done the work to strategize your actions, you should be in full swing of implementing the behaviors necessary to achieve your goal(s). However, what do you do if you don’t quite have the skills necessary to get to where you want to go? It’s time for Step 3: Upgrade Your Skills ! Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episode...

Welcome back to the Dads’ Guide to Divorce series. If you missed the first installment, “Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 1 — Clarify Your Vision,” make sure to check it out. In that article, I discussed how crucial it is to clarify your vision and direction when entering a divorce or navigating life post-divorce. Today, we're diving into Step 2: Strategize Your Actions . This step will provide y...

Welcome to the Dads’ Guide to Divorce series, where I aim to support fathers navigating the often tumultuous waters of divorce or life after it. Over the next few podcasts, I'll share a 5-step process that I’ve developed to help you identify and implement a plan for your life, ensuring that you and your children can move forward toward a brighter future. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership...

Divorce is one of life's most challenging experiences, and for fathers, it can come with unique obstacles. Ensuring your attorney effectively advocates for your interests requires clear communication, strategic planning, and a keen understanding of the complex issues at play. Here’s how you can "train" your attorney to work diligently on your behalf as you navigate the emotional and...

We all do it...we avoid that which we do not want to face or deal with. In this episode Jude describes some of the most common avoidance behaviors and shares solutions for dealing with them.. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How...

Navigating the challenges of divorce is never easy, especially for fathers who find themselves balancing new roles, responsibilities, and emotions. The past year has offered some noteworthy examples from public figures who have faced similar struggles. These high-profile stories provide valuable lessons that can help divorced dads as they go through their own journeys. Here are the five biggest ta...

Parental alienation is a distressing experience for any parent, especially when you’re a divorced dad looking forward to your parenting time. Discovering that your child has been exposed to negative comments, lies, or alienating behavior from your ex can be heartbreaking. However, it’s crucial to handle these situations with care and a strategic approach to maintain a healthy relationship with you...

Attorney, writer, entrepreneur, and host of the Law of Fojo podcast, Robert Fojo, joins Jude to speak from the perspective of an attorney on how to prepare for a custody battle. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjust...

 Dating after divorce can be a daunting prospect, especially for dads. With responsibilities towards your children and the emotional aftermath of a divorce, re-entering the dating world requires careful consideration and preparation. Drawing insights from Dr. Shawn T. Smith's book, "The Practical Guide to Women" , here are the most important aspects for dads to focus on when prepari...

Embracing God's transformative power is not just a matter of religious devotion; it is a lifeline for fathers in the midst of divorce's tumult. It is an invitation to surrender our burdens, our fears, and our uncertainties to the One who holds the universe in His hands. And in embracing this invitation, fathers find not just survival, but true and lasting flourishing, as we journey throu...

Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meeti...

Divorce is often described as one of life's most stressful events, and for fathers navigating separation, the journey can be particularly challenging. Amidst legal battles, emotional upheaval, and the complexities of co-parenting, there's an additional hurdle: therapy. In recent times, therapy has increasingly become a battleground against divorcing fathers, perpetuating stereotypes and...

As a divorced dad, navigating the aftermath of a failed marriage can feel like traversing uncharted waters. Yet, amidst the challenges and heartaches lies an invaluable opportunity for growth and self-reflection. One of the most crucial aspects of this journey is understanding your role in the relational dynamics that led to the breakdown of your marriage. By acknowledging and learning from these...

Divorce can be a tumultuous journey, especially for fathers who were once co-dependent in their marriages. The aftermath often leaves them grappling with a sense of identity, particularly if they were accustomed to being the "nice guy" who prioritized their partner's needs over their own. However, post-divorce life offers an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It's a cha...

Divorce is often a tumultuous time for families, especially when children are involved. While both parents may strive to prioritize the well-being of their children, sometimes dynamics can become strained, leading to one parent feeling alienated from their child. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for mothers to inadvertently or intentionally alienate their children from their fathers during di...

Divorce, with its seismic impact, fractures the bedrock of familial unity, leaving behind a landscape strewn with the debris of dashed dreams and shattered aspirations. For fathers, tasked with navigating these tempestuous waters, the journey through divorce can resemble a Herculean odyssey, fraught with the weight of grief, guilt, and relentless uncertainty. Yet, amidst the crucible of anguish an...

Clinical neuroscientist, inspirational speaker, best-selling author, and international coach, Dr. Ali Lankerani, affectionately known as Dr. L, The Parent Whisperer, joins Jude to talk about his mission to support, inspire, and empower as many people as possible to step into their thrive and leave a legacy. Tune in and learn his 4 steps for accomplishing this. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership...

Divorce can be tough, especially when it comes to managing finances and maintaining a sense of normalcy for your children. But just because money might be tight doesn't mean you can't create unforgettable memories with your kids. With a little creativity and planning, divorced dads can still enjoy quality time with their children through budget-friendly vacations. Here are some inexpensi...

Divorce proceedings can be emotionally and legally complex, especially when children are involved. For dads navigating the divorce process, effective communication and preparation with your attorney are crucial for achieving the best outcome. Listen in to learn some essential tips to help you prepare your attorney for trial. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Me...

Divorce can be a devastating and emotionally challenging experience for anyone involved, and for fathers, the shock of being served divorce papers can feel particularly overwhelming. Suddenly, your world may seem to be turned upside down, leaving you feeling lost and uncertain about the future. While there's no denying that this is a difficult time, there are steps you can take to mitigate th...

 In the journey of parenthood, fathers often play a pivotal but sometimes overlooked role. While the spotlight often shines on maternal care, the influence of fathers on their children's lives is equally significant. Research over the years has underscored the unique contributions fathers make to their children's well-being and development. Here are 10 reminders that highlight just how i...

Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when it comes to navigating the complex issues of asset separation, parenting arrangements, and household responsibilities. For dads going through this process, it's crucial to protect themselves and their interests while also prioritizing their well-being and maintaining a healthy environment, particularly if still living under the same roof. In t...