The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers

What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Listen in as Dr. Debi Silber the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, holistic psychologist, author, and health, mindset and personal development expert joins the show to explain. She shares the 5 stages we'll go through in order to fully heal from betrayal. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE...

Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging experiences, often leaving individuals grappling with feelings of loneliness and uncertainty about the future. However, amidst the pain and emotional turmoil, there lies an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. In this episode, we'll explore ten practical ways to combat loneliness and rebuild yourself during a divorce Jo...

Hear an inspiring message from Shawn Reinsel who shares his divorce experience and how through it he was able to find a new way of relating to God that's rooted and grounded in His abundant, life-giving grace. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com...

Jude joins Kirk and Jason on The Mad Men of Masculinity Show and discusses fathering through divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate...

Are you a nice guy? If so, you are probably codependent. In this episode Jude defines codependency, gives examples, and shares tips for how to stop being codependent. Alicia Munoz's Article - How Do You Overcome Codependency? A Therapist's Guide - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3104353333#success No More Mr. Nice Guy - Dr. Robert Glover - https://tinyurl.com/5995594v Join The Divorce Dadvocat...

Going through a divorce is undoubtedly one of life's toughest challenges, and for dads navigating this difficult terrain, the importance of community cannot be overstated. Instead of self-isolating during divorce, it's crucial for divorced or divorcing dads to surround themselves with a supportive community. In this episode, we'll explore 10 reasons why building and maintaining conn...

As the clock strikes midnight and we bid farewell to the old year, it's time for divorced dads to embrace a new chapter in their lives. The journey post-divorce can be challenging, but the start of a new year offers a perfect opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. Here are 10 empowering New Year's resolutions tailored for divorced dads, aimed at fostering a positive and ful...

The holidays can be a beautiful time of the year, but they can also be challenging when boundaries are being overstepped by friends and family members. Listen in and learn some tips for setting healthy boundaries with friends and family during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups &am...

In this episode, we'll explore practical ways divorced or divorcing dads can discipline their children authoritatively using the principles of Love and Logic. This approach emphasizes setting clear boundaries with empathy and love, allowing children to learn from their mistakes, in stark contrast to the harsh and rigid authoritarian style. Let's delve into how Love and Logic can be a gam...

The end of a marriage is a profound life event that ripples through various aspects of one's existence, not sparing even the social fabric woven through friendships. Unfortunately, these connections are not impervious to the seismic shifts brought about by divorce. In the wake of this transformative experience, friendships may encounter strain, and in some instances, reach a point of dissolut...

Fathers, often unsung heroes in the narrative of child development, play a pivotal role in shaping the health and well-being of their offspring. Scientific studies provide robust evidence that highlights the profound impact fathers have on the journey to healthy adulthood. Let's explore 10 reasons, each rooted in concrete statistics from reputable studies, that underscore the crucial role dad...

Divorce is a roller coaster ride that nobody really wants a ticket for, but life happens, and here you are, a dad on the wild journey of splitting assets and emotions. While it might seem like a never-ending tunnel of paperwork and negotiations, there's room for humor along the way. So, buckle up, fellow dads, as we explore the hilarious milestones you'll encounter on this bumpy ride thr...

Preparing for divorce mediation is important. Listen in to hear the ultimate list of steps you need to take to prepare for divorce mediation. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in thi...

As you successfully adjust to the crisis of divorce you will feel better about yourself. Jude discusses that you were born with 50% of your self-worth and the other 50% you learned growing up. Tune in to learn 11 steps to an improved self-worth. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - h...

A narcissistic smear campaign is a narcissistic manipulation tactic used to harm a person’s reputation and isolate them from their support network. This is a common behavior for those with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) when they realize they have lost control over a person and often happens at the conclusion of a relationship. Listen in and learn their tactics and how to deal with them....

Love and Logic is a process by which children grow through their mistakes and learn from the consequences of their choices. Listen in and learn the 2 basic rules and 8 skills of Love and Logic parenting. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership...

While I understand discussing the end of a marriage is awkward for some people, there’s a right and wrong way to address the situation. In my experience, here are some questions that should never come out of your mouth when talking to a newly separated or divorced dad. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussio...

The success of a co-parenting arrangement hinges on the ability of parents to exhibit mutual respect with one another. Children “learn what they live,” and if they witness both parents collaborating in healthy ways, even while living apart, this can have a lasting influence on their ability to manage their own relationships. Listen in to learn the benefits and how to set healthy co-parenting bound...

When parents cannot agree on the terms of child custody or how decisions will be made regarding the parties’ children, hiring a parenting coordinator may be a good idea. However, there are pros and cons to a parenting coordinator. Listen in as Jude shares the benefits and potential drawbacks of hiring or appointing a parenting coordinator. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Epi...

Boys and men today are facing a crisis of masculinity. To solve this crisis, positive examples are needed. Listen in as Jude shares how you can be this positive example even while you are experiencing the challenge of divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorcedd...

Divorce is stressful. Stress can lead to anxiety and sadness or depression. It is critical that you are able to manage this during your divorce so that you are capable of making smart decisions that will impact you and your children's lives for years to come. Listen in to learn 7 ways to manage sadness & anxiety during your divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL E...

Listen in as Jude is joined by spiritual therapist and author Wendy Watson who shares details about her book Verbal Turbulence: The 70/20/10 Rule and how to identify the messages we are supposed to be in tune with and what to do with them. Wendy's website - http://TBRSpiritualHealth.com Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Cour...

The Stoic philosophy finds its origins in the ancient wisdom of Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius. The philosophy offers a path to which one can always return to overcome the challenges of life like divorce. Listen as Jude shares this philosophy to developing perseverance, build your mental strength and discover your purpose. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - L...

Dr. Eric Goodman joins the show to share the BANK system for transformational change in understanding and conducting relationships. Listen in as he shares the program that will help strengthen your relationships and communication with your children and others. Dr. Goodman's Links: Claim Your Complimentary Personality Report ($99 value) In Less Than 90 Seconds: https://crackmycode.com/communic...

Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Works...