The Divorce Devil Podcast

Welcome to the "Divorce Devil Podcast," where hosts Rachel and David delve into the complex world of post-divorce recovery for individuals over 40. In this episode, they tackle the often-taboo subject of the "hoe phase," a time when newly single individuals explore their sexual freedom and redefine their identities after a major life change. Rachel and David share personal anecdotes, insights, and...

In Episode 210 of the Divorce Devil Podcast , Rachel and David dive into the concept of the "Ghosts of Divorce"—the lingering emotional baggage, fears, and unresolved issues that often haunt us post-divorce. These "ghosts" can manifest in new relationships, friendships, and even in our self-perception. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with these ghosts, from fears of loneliness to feel...

In this transformative episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast , Rachel and David dive deep into the challenges and triumphs of rebuilding life after divorce. With humor, insight, and raw vulnerability, they explore the impact of self-sabotage, the importance of mindset, and the power of setting realistic goals during recovery. This episode provides a roadmap for listeners to identify personal barrie...

In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast , Rachel and David welcome back guest Kyle for what they humorously call "Kyle 2.0." The episode dives into the raw and emotional terrain of post-divorce life, focusing on personal recovery, self-awareness, and the importance of authentic communication. The conversation begins with Kyle discussing his recovery process, how his sleep has been so much bet...

In episode 207 of "Divorce Devil," David and Rachel discuss the complexities of Valentine's Day, especially for those navigating divorce or separation. They acknowledge the emotional challenges this holiday can bring, particularly for those in the middle of or recovering from a divorce. The conversation highlights how societal expectations around Valentine’s Day often exacerbate feelings of loneli...

Ten Key Takeaways: Prioritize Self-Care : Focus on your own well-being rather than external distractions. Establish Boundaries : Saying "no" is a complete sentence, and boundaries are vital for protecting energy. Healing Takes Time : Divorce recovery is non-linear, and progress may not always be visible. Control What You Can : Don’t waste energy worrying about uncontrollable factors, like external...

In Episode 205 of the Divorce Devil Podcast , Rachel and David dive into the concept of "The Divorce Wall"—the emotional and mental obstacle many face during divorce recovery, especially when triggered by memories, songs, or life events. They share personal anecdotes about their struggles, the raw emotions that arise in recovery, and the tools they’ve both used to heal. Whether it's hearing a wedd...

In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast , hosts David and Rachel welcome back guest Elizabeth to dive into the complexities of post-divorce life, dating, and personal growth. The conversation is a candid exploration of the emotional, mental, and relational challenges that arise after divorce, with Elizabeth sharing her personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and navigating new relationsh...

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, Episode 203! In this insightful and heartfelt episode, your hosts David and Rachel sit down with guest Kyle to dive deep into the journey of healing after divorce. Kyle, a friend of the podcast, courageously shares his personal story of heartbreak, growth, and self-discovery. Together, they explore the emotional and practical challenges of moving forward after a m...

In episode 202 of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel are joined by Elizabeth, who shares her personal journey of navigating divorce, co-parenting, and relationships after separation. The conversation delves into the complexities of divorce recovery, particularly for individuals over 40, with a focus on the emotional and logistical challenges involved. Elizabeth candidly discusses how comm...

The podcast focuses on guiding people over 40 through the challenging process of divorce recovery, emphasizing self-awareness, intentionality, and personal growth. A key theme is the importance of being present in one’s life and recovery journey. The hosts stress that self-care is essential, not selfish, and encourage listeners to prioritize their well-being. They discuss breaking free from stagna...

Celebrating 200 Episodes of Divorce Recovery Insights: A Journey in Healing and Humor Hey everyone, David and Rachel here, welcoming you to a special blog post where we're diving into the highlights of our 200th episode of the "Divorce Table" podcast. It's been a journey filled with laughter, lessons, and a lot of growth. Today, we're reflecting on some of the profound insights and humorous escapa...

David and Rachel, hosts of Divorce Devil , reflect on their journey as they prepare for their 200th episode milestone. In this informal "episode 199.5," they candidly brainstorm ideas for the upcoming celebration and seek input from listeners. The duo admits feeling stuck in a creative rut and uses the episode to revisit the core purpose of their podcast: helping people navigate the challenges of...

In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast (Episode 199), David and Rachel focus on navigating toxic relationships during divorce recovery, particularly with friends, family, and acquaintances. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, owning your actions, and recognizing patterns of harmful behavior in relationships. David and Rachel emphasize the challenge of dealing with toxic family...

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast , Episode 197, hosted by Rachel and David. In this heartfelt Thanksgiving Sunday special, we dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many going through divorce recovery: navigating new hurt after initially finding healing. Often, after surviving the storm of divorce, you can find yourself blindsided by fresh pain from unexpected places—relationships, friendshi...

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast , Episode 197, hosted by Rachel and David. In this heartfelt Thanksgiving Sunday special, we dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many going through divorce recovery: navigating new hurt after initially finding healing. Often, after surviving the storm of divorce, you can find yourself blindsided by fresh pain from unexpected places—relationships, friendshi...

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast with our dynamic duo, David and Rachel! Where the almost 200 episodes of wisdom, humor, and the occasional snow day rant converge into the perfect storm of post-marital hilarity. Picture this: David, the voice of reason, with a penchant for turning life's lemons into a comedy sketch, and Rachel, the fierce advocate of self-love, who can find joy even in a Color...

Guest time!  Welcome Junie Moon to the show.  She is a Global Love Mentor, author, speaker and a Certified Shadow Work Coach.  Her superpower is helping people unpack their past and move onto a better future.  Discussions of the movie Ghost, unpack and heal from the past, risk manager, hopelessness, space junk and dating research.  This is not an episode to miss, men and women.  It was a fun podca...

In this episode of Divorce Devil, David and Rachel delve into the complexities of co-parenting and blended family dynamics. They discuss the challenges of introducing new partners into the parenting equation, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. The conversation highlights the need for respect and understanding among all family members, emphasizing that bo...

In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the complexities of co-parenting after divorce, sharing both positive experiences and challenges.  With concentrating on 5 negative and 5 positive things that involve co-parenting, they emphasize the importance of communication, understanding children's perspectives, and maintaining boundaries. The conversation highlights the emotional struggles parents fa...

In this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independence post-divorce, and the necessity of owning one's responsibilities. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care, healing from past tra...

Social media during divorce recovery.  Rachel says be smart and I say don’t do it - take a break.  It never turns out well, most of the time.  So many people have an opinion on social media and divorce.  I have heard of instances where social media can be used in a divorce proceeding.  So, buyer beware!  Discussions of clearing the trash, celebrity divorce posts, social media has a lot of negativi...

Well, here it is again.  The craziness of the Divorce Devil Podcast.  We take off with starting with the notion of no control in your divorce or divorce recovery to road construction.  Never a dull moment.  You’ll be hard pressed to find a more ‘unique’ divorce recovery podcast.  Topics of round-a-bouts, loss of control is like chaos, you get a pony, Tootsie Roll, and Narnia goat.  Strap in becaus...

Well, it is another interesting podcast by the two of us.  Owning your sh*t encompasses so much.  We mainly came from the way of it’s ok not to be ok.  You are going through some epic sh*t for the first time and how you react at first might not be the best reaction, but you learn over time and adjust accordingly.  Our other point is everyone is not your friend and everyone doesn’t need to remain f...

Well, it happened again.  We went off the rails again during a podcast.  We realize the initial pain of divorce is sometimes so overwhelming and intense.  Our own experiences play a part here.  All we can do is present what we went through and hopefully some of you can identify with it and realize some of your thoughts, actions and/or feelings are completely normal.  Discussions of taste the rainb...