The Divorce Devil Podcast

Divorce after 40 is wild, weird, and often full of really bad advice. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel spill the tea on the WORST tips they ever received during divorce—and why you should take most “helpful” suggestions with a huge grain of salt! 🧂 From “just get under someone to get over someone” (yikes!) to revenge plots, oversharing with friends, and wild da...

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🏆 In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into the messy, hilarious, and totally real world of forgiveness after divorce—especially for those of us over 40 . Is forgiveness still about waiting for an apology, or has it evolved into something deeply personal (and way less dramatic)? 🤔 Forget everything you learned about old-school forgiveness—you know, th...

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! Today, David and Rachel sit down with Kyle for a raw, real, and relatable conversation about divorce recovery after 40. 💬 Have you ever felt lost after a breakup, not just losing a spouse but friends, family, and even your sense of self? Kyle’s story is a powerful example of how hitting rock bottom can be the start of something new. In this episode, we open u...

Are you over 40 and feeling stuck in the messy middle of divorce recovery? 💔 You’re not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel get real about the heartache, unpredictable triggers, and emotional rollercoaster that come after the initial shock of separation—but before true healing begins. We dive into the bell curve of pain, from rock bottom moments (hello, sud...

Are you a person over 40 wondering when (or if) the pain of divorce ever goes away? You’re not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the real, raw journey of healing after divorce—from emotional pain and betrayal to rediscovering joy, even when you least expect it. We get honest about: The different types of pain (emotional, financial, social) men fee...

Are you are over 40 struggling to find your footing after divorce? You’re not alone—and this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast is for you. Join hosts David and Rachel as they get brutally honest about the raw, messy, and totally normal emotions people face during and after divorce. Divorce is like a tidal wave, especially when it happens later in life. In this episode, we open up about everythi...

Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you’re really ready to dive back into the dating world? 🥴 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast , your hosts David and Rachel get real about the ups, downs, and downright weird moments of dating after divorce. We cover it all—from the anxiety of dating “too soon” to the pitfalls of waiting “too long.” Should you date while y...

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ Hosted by us, David and Rachel, we dive deep into the real challenges people over 40 face after divorce, and why true healing is the only way forward. Are you struggling to move on after divorce? You’re not alone. Today, we tackle a crucial topic: What happens if you never recover from your divorce? If you’re stuck, numb, or wondering why life keeps throwin...

Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast – the raw, unfiltered safe space for men over 40 (and anyone else who loves a little real talk during tough times)! Hosted by David, this episode dives into the emotional chaos, hard-won wisdom, and dark humor that comes with divorce recovery in midlife. 🎙️💥 If you're fresh off a breakup, knee-deep in divorce papers, or just feeling lost on the other sid...

Welcome to another unfiltered episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ Whether you’re just starting your divorce recovery journey or you’re deep in the trenches of co-parenting after 40, you’re in the right place. In this episode, David and co-host Rachel are joined by Jerry—Rachel’s ex and a living, breathing example of what happens when two adults put their kids first, even when it’s messy. Ever...

Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 😈 If you’re divorced over 40 struggling with co-parenting, you're not alone. I'm David, with Rachel and we're diving into the messy, complicated world of co-parenting. We're tired of sugar-coating it. This is real life, real challenges, and real solutions. In this episode, we're talking about our top 5 co-parenting tips – both from my "non-cordial shit s...

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we’re here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present. 🧳✨ Why Do Old Memories Hit So Hard...

Hey everyone, and welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 👋 If you'reover 40 navigating the wild world of divorce recovery, you're in the right place. I'm David, and with me as always is my amazing co-host, Rachel, and today we are diving deep into something super important that no one talks about: The nonlinear effects of divorce recovery. The truth that comes with bumps, valleys and dips! Fo...

💔 Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 224! 💔 Hosted by David and co-host Rachel , this episode dives deep into the emotional rollercoaster of divorce recovery. We’re tackling one of the toughest challenges: how to avoid becoming cynical during your healing journey and how to recognize when you’ve truly healed. 🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The 3 stages of divorce recovery : chaos, r...

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast , where hosts David and Rachel dive deep into the challenges of divorce recovery for those over 40. In this episode, we tackle one of the most common struggles after divorce: emotional baggage . Whether you're fresh out of a marriage or years into your healing journey, this episode is packed with relatable stories, actionable tips, and a sprinkle of humor to help y...

🌊 Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast,' Episode 222! 🌟 In this heartfelt episode, host David and Rachel reflect on the emotional journey of divorce recovery. . Returning to old traditions like a vacation at the beach, Rachel  shares the struggles of revisiting the past while creating new memories in the present. Are you struggling with letting go of your pre-divorce life? Do you feel stu...

Rachel is on vacation this week.  She’ll be back on the mic next week.  💔 Divorce can feel like the end of everything, but it doesn’t have to be. In this powerful episode of the “Divorce Devil Podcast,” host I sit down with Jody Bruns , founder of the Divorce Lending Association and a pioneer in divorce mortgage planning. With over 35 years of experience in finance and real estate, Jody has helpe...

🎙️ Divorce Devil  Podcast – Episode 220! Hosted by David and Rachel, this episode dives deep into the raw truths of divorce recovery for people over 40. Yesterday, Rachel  turned 51, and it made her reflect on the journey of rebuilding life after divorce. ✨ Why We Do This: This podcast is a safe space where we unpack the complexities of healing, growth, and rediscovering purpose after divorce. Wh...

Divorce recovery can feel like navigating a minefield, especially for men over 40. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast , your hosts Rachel and David dive into the 7 Deadly Sins of divorce recovery and how to avoid stalling in them. 🚧 From emotional turmoil to financial pitfalls, we explore the most common mistakes people  make post-divorce—and, most importantly, how to heal and thrive....

Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" with your hosts, David and Rachel! 🎙️ In this illuminating episode, we discuss a vital aspect of divorce recovery for men over 40: the importance of setting boundaries . 💔 Going through a divorce can leave you feeling lost in a state of "limbo," where you may not know what to do or how to move forward. One of the most powerful tools you can have during...

"🎙️ Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast' with your hosts, David and Rachel, T his episode dives deep into the concept of 'Life Buoys' 🛟 – those essential tools, habits, and people that help you stay afloat during the stormy seas of divorce recovery. For men over 40, navigating life after divorce can feel overwhelming, but you're not alone, and there is a path forward. 🛟 What You'll Learn...

Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast ! 🎙️ We’re  your hosts, David and Rachel , and today we're diving deep into the world of self-care during divorce recovery. 💔 In this episode, we explore why self-care is not just important—it's essential! When going through a divorce, it’s easy to feel like you’re drowning. 🌊 You might think that taking time for yourself is selfish, but let me tell you...

Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast ! 🎙️ Join your hosts, David and Rachel, in Episode 214, where we dive deep into the often-unspoken topic of "Limbo" in divorce recovery. Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of indecision about your marriage? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore the various stages of limbo, from questioning whether to file for divorce to grappling with the emotional a...

David and Rachel, the hilarious and insightful co-hosts of The Divorce Devil Podcast , tackle the complex issue of Imposter Syndrome in this episode. With their signature mix of humor, raw honesty, and relatable anecdotes, they explore how imposter syndrome manifests during divorce recovery and how to overcome it. Here's a quick breakdown: Key Highlights of Episode 213 🎙️ What is Imposter Syndrome...

Welcome to "Divorce Devil," a dynamic and candid podcast series hosted by David and Rachel. In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of "Gray Healing" — a phase of emotional recovery that isn’t black and white but exists in the gray areas of growth. Together, David and Rachel bring humor, raw honesty, and personal experiences to explore the complexities of post-divorce life, re...