The Deposition with Objeckshun

I feel like a lot of the time, I speak on connection: how I connect, how we connect to each other, different ways in which we stay connected in a digital space. BUT, why shouldn't I disconnect...or why shouldn't we disconnect? Why does letting go of certain things make me feel guilty? And do you feel the same way? I feel like I've touched on this before, but I wanted to chat about it a...

Lately I have been thinking about how I tend to use an offer of assistance as an introduction. Hell, in one of my most active communities, the first thing I ever said was a "backseat gaming" comment and now that creator and I are wonderful friends. That said, it is hard to read when I am trying to be helpful and whether or not it is working, or even warranted or wanted. So, I decided I w...

Today's episode is kind of a dive into the wor 'impress' and why for a long time I was obsessed with it. The reality is that impressing can create the implication that if you are not being impressive then you are not doing enough, which depending on the circumstances, is just flat out wrong. I often find myself saying: "what did I do to (this person) to make them feel (this emotio...

Today's episode was admittedly a bit demure. But I wanted to share it because it was a bit of an authentic ramble. I like to call myself a 'creator', but sometimes I doubt if I am. This isn't something that is designed to inspire sympathy or empathy, rather something to create a thought: How am I connecting in a digital space? Do I REALLY understand others? Am I seeking to understa...

A recent Sunday, I caught myself avoiding interactions with everyone I could. I thought I was stepping back from them, but I realize now that I was pushing away, because I didn't want to interact with anyone. And so today, I chose to vocalize those thoughts and explore some examples of the 'why' behind interactions being draining, and to try and create a healthy approach for myself to...

Side note: I actually recorded this last week, then swapped out for last weeks ep. Today I wanted to talk about our friends versus our fans, and some of the confusion that surrounds the two, especially when misinformation, miscommunication, and expectations get involved. I hope this is a good listen.

Today with the rush of tax day among a host of other things, I am actually seeking help. How do we slow down and enjoy the moment? How do we spend more time doing the things that we love? Like I am honestly wondering...if you listen and you have any feedback, please come find me and let me know!

I feel that our world so desperately needs more tolerance...however...I also feel that specific types of tolerance...the tolerance that we do so that we are more well liked, is dangerous. So let's talk about it a little bit, and look at it analytically. Let's ask ourselves the question: why am I putting up with this?

For me personally, my favorite white noise is no noise. I know that in some cases the quiet can make the mean voices louder, however I am someone who is able to find immense comfort in essentially nothing. I have even caught myself lately driving with no music, walking in silence, etc. But how about you? What is a comfortable place for you, and how do you maximize it?

Today I kinda wanted to ramble about how some percieved disrespects have affected me, especially from having respect instilled in me at such a young age. However I didn't really learn self respect until much later in life. This one got a little feelsy also. I didn't mention anything specifically triggering, but I was definitely triggered by some things going on in our world. Please enjoy t...

Today's ep was tough to record and even tougher to share. I really appreciate everyone for being on this ride with me, but it would be unfair to create the expectation of permanence if I am a toxic portion of your life. That said, let's talk about it for a bit. Why do we hang on to things that we know we need to let go of. HMU on socials to continue the conversation.

There is a dangerous stigma around the term "Parasocial Relationship", be it a percieved friendship, co-workers, celebrities and their fans...etc. And with Awards season closing out, and admittedly, some very interesting interactions I have both been a part of and have observed externally, I kinda wanted to dive in and chit chat about it...and I would REALLY love your feedback. Find me on my socia...

Today I wanted to talk about the balance in comfort. Think about Goldilocks and the Three Bears, and how she was constantly seeking balance for what was "just right". In comfort terms, think about sleeping with a comforter, but leaving one leg outside of it....the perfect balance of hot and cold. Anywho, I hope this is an enjoyable, thought provoking listen, and we can always chat about it. Check...

Hey gang...today's might be a bit of a tough listen, but I can assure you it will all be ok. This week, I wanted to talk about seeking closure, versus gaining personal closure via acceptance. I threw some interesting examples in there too. Side note: I am still tweaking my audio, and this was another automotive recording, but the message is still there, it should sound better though. I really hope...

Today I want to talk about certain climates, and what we can do as individuals to kind of control how the climate effects us. I have always said regarding actual temperature that in cool, you can always layer up, but in the heat, there is only so many layers that can be removed. In this case I think that looking at how we hold ourselves and the ones we hold dear accountable, we can manage a bit be...

Firstly, I apologize for the audio issues, I am working on new and different ways of recording, and the first draft of this was a bit rough, so I took the show on the road. My beliefe is that everyone is a creator. Not even to an extent, it's just a fact. Where it gets tricky is navigating the creator crusher known as burnout. Let me know what you think.

I was asked recently how I got started in streaming, and it brought me to a place where I realized that I had been encouraged positively by a lot of people that I've met doing this. Which got me thinking about faith and hope, and I wanted to talk about it a little bit.

I am someone who has an inherent fear of my words losing their meaning, and while chatting about it, I realized that I have an even bigger fear of my actions losing their meaning as well. Have you ever given this any thought?

I recorded this tired, purposefully, because this Podcast is a priority of mine. It has become something of a journal for my thoughts, and what I believe to be a very strong conversation starter. But priorities...we prioritize things and we don't even realize it, and yet when we notice that priorities are different or don't line up externally it causes issues. Anyone else feel this way?

Personally I think there is a HUGE difference between medicating versus treating. Not that one is more important than the other, but one is certainly more permanent than the other, at least IMHO. Note: I am not a medical professional, and this is not medical advice. This is just my thoughts around GLOBALLY medicating issues versus treating them.

This was wild...while recording this I actually had 3 separate instances that put my in a place where I was forced to look not only at situations, but how I react to challenging situations while discussing how I react to challenging situations. This one had some real layers to it, and I really hope you enjoy the listen. 

Just a brief introduction to me, my obsession with integrity, and learning the difference between something being OK versus being OK with something.