The Death of a Dream

i need you to break it down. this episode will give you actionable steps to create a new belief baseline for any goal or dream.

the attacks are coming. living your best life comes at a cost. people who benefit from you being who you have been are going to attack you. i can't prepare you enough for this.

we have a set of beliefs that we need to overcome related to chasing your dreams. in this episode, we are going to talk about intentional work to overcome those beliefs.

i mean the real dreams. the ones that make you a little sick to your stomach to think about for too long.

move in the direction that gives you life. never assume someone is receiving the love that they need. trust, there is not enough positive and love in this world. you can choose to power the positive.

when we show up as our consistent selves, people know how to interact with us. when we chase trends, we lose not only our authenticity we lose our followers trusting our consistency.

maybe other people's thought about who you are, are holding you back from who you want to be.

cut to me hearing this ten times today. this response another day in paradise or living the dream are my top two pet peeve responses. why would we settle why is the norm "living the dream." what are you doing to live the dream. STOP SAYING IT AS A NEGATIVE! you can live the life of your dreams if you aren't that is on you.

what would you change in the world if you could change one thing. that people believe in themselves.

the mentors don't have to be in you direct circle so make sure they are reflections of who you want to be. also build a tribe that loves you. the real you.

i have heard the comment more than i like to acknowledge. never satisfied. they are not wrong and i love that. people will try to stop you. your success and people's opinions of it can't be your measure. or you will never keep going.

i don't have some special sauce aligning me with this work. i just want to do it and my mentors pushed me past my own limitations.

how many relationships do you have based on energy. how many times have you stopped based on not becoming Taylor Swift overnight.

the death of your dream is tramatic. so trama filled in fact it could completely derail any success in your entire life. losing who you believe you are meant to be is trama.

and i am ok with it. because it is good to at least do something and suck knowing you will get better than do nothing at all.

and just like that you can believe again. and just like that you can not. it’s that moment the one where you stop we need more focus on.

that moment when you come down off the high. that is where self culture comes into play. you are either in control of that narrative or it happens to you but you will go back there.

start thinking of your dreams as a person. it seems crazy but seriously. things you want to develop take time. you have to start developing a culture around the dreams you have for your life.

we know we add worth and yet we keep signing it away. signing it away to other companies signing it away to impossibilities. enough. take the first step towards your dreams today. show up as that person. start.

i want you to get so aligned with your energy source that you don't need anyone's validation. when you get there you can show up authentic and actually be present. soon the world with align with who you are becoming.

you can't be what you can't see. now that we can see it. how do we build up our networks to rise up against the non-belielivers. how do we chase it down regardless of what the norm is.

how often do we want to draw the line to our dreams. our head wants it to make sense. but dreams live in your heart and so they won't always make sense in your head. keep going anyways.

stop giving away your ideas for free. why do we put so much worth behind other people's opinions of us when they don't even know us. after the last door slam i started to realize people can't add worth to your life. that is on you.

yes life will keep happening if you let it. you are in control. do you have a dream. do you want something. you control what you do in the pursuit. be authentically you on the journey of getting there.

are you looking at your life with a negative lens of not enough. or are you actively seeking out sources of possibilites. you may have to look at it different.