The Death of a Dream

you are in control. you have so many hours in a day. what are you doing with them. seriously.

who will catch you when you fall. it doesn't have to only be yourself. set yourself up people who can take you from your low point up. it is a two-part rescue.

why in adulthood do we feel like failures...all the time. the world is not constructed how most of our life is in our youth. lets set you up to win.

the middle is made of madness. all the hate and self-doubt. i have been put on this earth to pull you out of that cycle. you can't start and expect the end game. you start at zero and you have to grant all the grace in between.

you are the x-factor you have been in search of. today we are walking through an exercise to ground yourself in the strength of your persistence.

do not i repeat do not fall victim to your own self-hate. today we are talking about the self-hate spirals we all fall victim to and how to overcome them.

that thing that holds you back. ya, that is the negative, sometimes toxic world that we live in. you can decide to change that. you can change your life and world. your opinion on how you live life is valued. you do not have to fit in what is already built around you. break the mold. stop holding yourself back from the growth.

yes this is about a fictional movie from the early 2000's and i am here for it. mostly its about all of the things we normally talk about but shout out to the best middle school movie that existed.

it can be painful but it does not have to be. this will walk you through giving and receiving feedback from a positive place.

yes sorry, you are always both. your willingness to acknowledge that you are both things is largely important. when we get to a place where we accept both we can get to a new place. and yes new places are worth going and you won't get there without this realization.

stop living in a toxic world. toxitity is the protector of the status quo people. do you want to escape to you want to change. toxic people find problems. you can't grow there.

we are talking traditions...yes we have about 1 million and one and why is this important? we have to model the behavior we wish to see. joy around the holidays isn't just the magic it is literally just that people are happy the modeling of that behavior trickles down everywhere.

ever felt like someone needed to match you exactly to be a perfect pair. well, sometimes those people are put there to balance you. they can't be exactly like you to benefit you. all of the people in your life are put there for a reason.

that thing that sets your soul on fire. what is it and what legacy do you want to leave in pursuit. time is limited.

when we start looking for things to be grateful for, we start actually validating the beleif that there are actually things in our life to be thankful for.

how do you cross over to a new space? how do you get adoption of a new idea that doesn't already exist? how do you set something new up to be successful?

it is one of the most important skill sets you can have. the ability to fail. hard. fail and learn. just get it wrong.

that is it. your life cannot unfold for you if you do not give it a general direction.

sorry not sorry today we are reviewing girl anthem's so you can up your playlist game and start powering yourself up to run the world!

your voice is important but not at the sacrifice of your value. often times we speak to speak missing the opportunity to listen.

maybe the story of how we got here is seemingly insignificant. but that is a story that needs to be told too. the "insignificant" stories are the ones that get lost.

yes it is good to follow your passion. you know the one you geek out about. the difference between someone who geeks out and succeeds and someone who geeks out and fails is the measure. be uncool in pursuit of your passion and set yourself up to win so being cool doesn't distract you from what you really want.

why should you? well, there is a chance that one encounter could set the trajectory of your life. if you depended on the last first encounter you made what was the narrative you wrote to that person and where would it take you?

it is YOUR life. no one should run it for you. set your own trajectory. what do YOU want your life to look like.

i love like fangirl over strong female leaders. even more than that strong female groups. i hear more often than i even want to think about we just need a guy all-woman can't work. it absolutely can we are just told it can't or we are leading from a place of male-driven styles and that isn't gonna work no matter how hard we try.