The Dating Counselor

What happens when a blind date turns into an entire week together ? In this episode of The Dating Counselor Podcast , I share a deeply personal dating story that still shapes how I approach modern dating today via a week-long blind date that taught me powerful lessons about chemistry, attachment, pacing, and discernment . Joining me for this conversation is my husband, Mark Harmon , as we reflect...

Welcome back, listeners, to another episode all about ENERGY ! After loving what Jhill shared last week, I invited her back for round two. This time, she joins Elsa and Mallory—two of the amazing women on my team—to share their personal experiences with energy work. Jhill also offers practical tips and tricks on how to bring energy healing into your daily routine. I can’t wait for you to listen! P...

Welcome back, beautiful listeners! I'm so glad you're here 😊 Today’s episode is packed with high vibes, thanks to my amazing guest and dear friend, Jhill Seraphina . She brought the ENERGY —and we dove deep into all things feminine and masculine energy, how they show up in dating, and what it means to find balance in your relationships. You don’t want to miss this empowering conversation!...

✨ FLASHBACK FRIDAY ✨ If you’ve been with me since the beginning, you might remember this gem—if you’re new here, welcome! You’re definitely going to want to give this one a listen. As summer rolls in, it’s easy to get caught up in appearances or play the “cool and casual” game. But real connection comes from showing up authentically. ⚠️ BeReal ⚠️ and build the kind of relationships that matter....

Welcome back, friends—I’m so glad you’re here! Today’s episode features a truly inspiring guest: entrepreneur and author Anjilee Ferguson . She opens up about her powerful journey through divorce, rediscovering herself, and finding love again. Her honesty, wisdom, and vulnerability are truly a gift, and she hopes her story will offer support and hope to anyone walking a similar path. Trust me—you’...

Welcome back, friends! This week, I’m joined by my favorite guest—my sweet husband, Mark! 💕 Together, we’re diving deep into some of your most pressing (and juicy!) anonymous dating questions submitted on Instagram. I answer your questions every Sunday on @thedatingcounselor, but sometimes they deserve more than a quick reply. Tune in to hear Mark’s take and our candid conversation about the real...

✨ FLASHBACK FRIDAY ✨ If you’ve been with me since 2020, you might remember this powerful episode—and if you’re new here, welcome! We’re revisiting one of the most talked-about topics: Relationship OCD (ROCD). It’s still just as relevant today as it was when we first aired it, and I continue to see it show up in the dating journeys of so many people. That’s why I’m bringing this episode back—to h...

I'm so glad you're here! This week, I sat down with my dear friend Hayley Jensen as she opened up about her dating journey, how she met her husband, and the real-life challenges they’ve faced along the way. Her story is honest, relatable, and full of insight—and she shares some heartfelt advice you won’t want to miss. Tune in for a refreshing reminder that love stories don’t have to be per...

Have you ever wondered what your personality types are? Well Melissa joined me on the podcast today to teach us about the 4 personality types. Knowing these will not only help YOU be your ✨authentic✨ self, but it will help you understand the people you are dating. So make sure to give this episode a listen! For more information on what Melissa does day-to-day, make sure to follow her on Instagra...

I’m so excited for you to hear this one! I’ve known Austin for years, and in this episode, I finally get to sit down with him and his beautiful fiancée, Victoria Covey. These two share the heartwarming journey of how their relationship grew into something truly special—from friendship to forever. 💕 Want to see more of their love story? Follow them on Instagram @austin_simkins and @covey_lovey. Ch...

Let’s be honest—being single during the holidays isn’t always magical. But it’s not all bad, either. In this festive and honest episode, my amazing team joins me for a special Singles Tell All holiday edition. We get real about the highs, lows, and surprisingly meaningful moments that come with navigating the holidays solo. Whether you're feeling cheerful or a little bit "Grinchy," t...

Do you know how to avoid the friend zone? Struggling to find quality partners—or to stay authentic while dating? You're not alone! Every week on Instagram, I answer your anonymous dating questions, but this week, I’m diving deeper with the help of my sweet husband. Together, we tackle some of your most pressing questions with honesty, humor, and real-life insight. Don’t miss this special episo...

Ever been stuck on a dating app prompt and wondered what it really means? How do you decide if you want to know someone who says, “Dating me is like dating your dad…” or “I’m not the husband type”? This week, I break down some of the best—and worst—Hinge prompts and share smarter, more authentic ways to respond. Tune in to sharpen your dating app game and spot the real potential behind the words!...

Dating isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s also a journey of personal growth. In this special episode, I chat with the amazing ladies from my Masters Class about everything dating, vulnerability, and self-discovery. Dating often pushes us into moments that reveal more about who we are. Instead of turning inward, it’s important to embrace those opportunities to learn and grow. Tune in fo...

What’s the biggest misconception about why you—and so many others—are still single? It’s not you; it’s the era. In this week’s episode of The Dating Counselor , we unpack the myths around why singles remain single and reveal the real challenges holding you back. Dive deep into the complexities of dating today, the obstacles the modern era creates, and the tools you can use to build confidence and...

Every relationship needs compatibility—but how do you know if you really have it? This week, I break down the five essential types of compatibility: Recreational, Intellectual, Spiritual, Emotional, and Sexual. Understanding these can make all the difference in your dating journey. Grab a pen, take notes, and share this with someone who needs it! #TheDatingCounselor #DatingAdvice #Compatibility #E...

Feeling stuck in the friend zone and unsure how to move forward? Wondering if a guy is truly interested—or thinking about trying dating apps but losing motivation altogether? Every week on my Instagram, I answer your anonymous dating questions, but sometimes a quick reply just isn’t enough. In this episode, I dive deeper into some of your most pressing questions to give you real, actionable advice...

Trust me—you’ll want to grab a pen and paper for this one! In this episode, I debunk some of the most common dating myths that have been holding you back for years. What if your partner isn’t perfect? What if there’s no instant spark? Does a slow-moving relationship mean it’s doomed? Tune in to get real answers that will change the way you view love and relationships. #TheDatingCounselor #DatingMy...

“Nobody in our friend group is dating. Why not? What if we’re already meant to love each other but just don’t realize it yet? Maybe smelling some t-shirts could open our minds!” We’ve all swiped on dating apps—but have you ever been to a pheromones party? Join me as I chat with Tiana and Bethany about their unique experience trying this unconventional way to find “the one.” They also dive into the...

Are you afraid to fully commit? Does the uncertainty in your relationship make you question your partner and yourself? This week, I dive into what fear of commitment really looks like, why it happens, and how it can hold you back. Tune in to learn practical strategies to overcome your anxiety and find the courage to build a brave, lasting relationship. #TheDatingCounselor #FearOfCommitment #Dating...

Meet Casdon and Savvy—a star-studded couple from UVU with a love story full of heart, resilience, and growth. Casdon, from Twin Falls, Idaho, and Savvy, from Aurora, Utah, both shined in college—she as a collegiate cheerleader and he on the UVU basketball team. Though they came from small towns, their connection was anything but small. Their relationship blossomed when the timing was right, leadin...

In this uplifting episode, guests Hayley Atwood and Jenni Griffin share the inspiring story of their grandmother, who encouraged her family to “Smile at the People!” We explore how your facial expressions can either build or break new connections, the power of choosing to love your partner, and the challenges of dating after divorce. Discover how Grandma Griffin’s legacy lives on through their non...

Executive Producer Jill from Utah’s favorite morning show, ABC’s Good Things Utah , wraps up her three-part dating experiment during cuffing season. Has she found her match? Tune in to hear Jill’s honest reflections and discover the outcome of her journey. Plus, enjoy a special BONUS featuring behind-the-scenes insights from Jill’s supportive coworkers who stood by her side throughout the process....

Executive Producer Jill from Utah’s favorite morning show Good Things Utah is back on the fast track into the Utah dating scene after a long break. Having just had her first date, what happens next? Tune in as Jill shares her candid and entertaining story of meeting Ted... and Bill in episode 2 of her most excellent dating adventure. Big thanks to Good Things Utah and hosts Deena Manzanares (@deen...

Meet Jill—an executive producer for ABC’s Good Things Utah and a beautiful, single woman ready to dive back into dating after a long pause. In this unique dating experiment, Jill’s colleagues created a dating profile and set her up on dates throughout Fall and Winter 2022/2023. As her Dating Coach, I join Jill on this journey to navigate the Utah dating scene and the anxiety that comes with it. Wh...