The Connected Wife

Send us Fan Mail Are you struggling to set boundaries with your in-laws? You're not alone. It can be tough to balance maintaining harmony within the family while also prioritizing your own well-being. But don't worry, we're here to help. In this podcast episode, we'll give you practical advice and insights on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries with your in-laws. By appr...

Send us Fan Mail Has work stress, financial stress, or intimacy stress taken a toll on your marriage? How did you and your partner handle it and were you satisfied with the way it was handled? While it can be uncomfortable, the pressure on your relationship can also lead to growth and transformation in both your marriage and personal lives. By facing these challenges together and implementing some...

Send us Fan Mail Attention all married couples! Are you ready to discover the key to resolving conflicts in your marriage? Get ready for an exciting podcast episode where we unpack the power of emotional intelligence and empathic communication. Picture this: imagine being able to navigate arguments with your spouse in a calm and understanding way. No more yelling or hurtful words! Instead, you&apo...

Send us Fan Mail Can marital conflicts be resolved without causing harm or hurting each other? In the intricate dance of marriage, conflicts are bound to arise, testing the strength of the bond between partners. However, it is not the presence of conflict that determines the fate of a relationship, but rather how couples navigate and resolve these challenges. Is it possible to approach marital con...

Send us Fan Mail Conflict is bound to happen in any relationship, but how we handle it can have a big impact on the future of our marriage. Timing is key when it comes to resolving conflicts and keeping our connection strong. To know when the right time is to address sensitive topics in your marriage, consider emotional readiness, the environment, and the context of the situation. While we can&apo...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever struggled with finding the right words to express how you feel to your partner? Do you avoid difficult conversations because you are worried about starting an argument? Can you think of a time when speaking up assertively improved a situation in your relationship? Don't worry, you're not alone! Communication is the key to a healthy and happy relationship, b...

Send us Fan Mail The idea of compromise often carries a negative connotation as it can be seen as giving something up. However, in a healthy relationship, compromise is essential for both partners to feel heard and valued. Here’s what I believe: Compromise is key to resolving and achieving common goals, resolving conflicts, and re-achieving common goals in your marriage. Compromise in a relationsh...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine a relationship where both you and your partner actively listen to each other – where you truly hear and understand each other's words, emotions, and needs. What would that look like? What would be different? When you are able to practice effective communication skills which includes active listening, a massive shift could take place in your marriage. Improving communi...

Send us Fan Mail Communication is the lifeline of any successful marriage. But did you know that non-verbal communication can be even more powerful in deepening your understanding and connection with your partner? Just imagine the possibilities of unlocking the hidden language of non-verbal communication - it can help you resolve conflicts, avoid misunderstandings, and ultimately create a happier...

Send us Fan Mail You know how sometimes you say you love or care about someone, but they don't believe you right away? It's frustrating, isn't it? Imagine how you'd feel if someone you loved said they cared about you, but you couldn't feel it. You'd be pretty disappointed, right? As human beings, we're wired to love and be loved and to care and be cared for. And...

Send us Fan Mail Let me ask you something: have you ever been praised for doing something that was just part of your regular responsibilities?  It feels great, right?  Well, guess what? Those positive words of appreciation can work wonders in your life! Now, let's talk about your spouse. How often do you show them appreciation? Did you know that a simple "thank you" can make your ma...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt like you were walking on eggshells around your spouse? Or like you can't express yourself freely without fear of judgment or criticism? This is a sign that your marriage might not be emotionally safe. In this episode, we'll explain why having an emotionally safe space is crucial for the health and happiness of your marriage. We'll dive into the be...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of the Happier Marriage Secrets podcast, we explore the myth that you can love someone but not be in love with them. We discuss five reasons why this is not the case and what could be the reasons why a spouse would make this claim. We made the case for love is an action - something we do, rather than a feeling.  Laying this groundwork was important to debunk the &q...

Send us Fan Mail In marriage, it’s not surprising for couples to experience challenges and problems. Personality differences are just one among many reasons for the disagreement couples are facing today. But, with a willingness to work together, face challenges, and respect and love each other, there is nothing you can't overcome, right? I know your first thought might be, what many would say...

Send us Fan Mail “Actions speak louder than words” ~ Abraham Lincoln. This quote amplifies the fact that words by itself is not enough. It's words combined with actions that make the difference and in some cases, believable. This is one of the ways to test true love ... look at the actions. One of the most memorable bible verses is John 3:16 which says, "For God so loved the world that h...

Send us Fan Mail  “Disappointments” and “Feeling Strong” are words that don't seem like they should be together. Would you agree? But, How can it be possible that despite the disappointment you can still feel or come out strong? Challenges in relationships are one of those we labeled as disappointments, right? Your goal is to have…  ... “ A Happier Marriage” even stronger one, right? So, how...

Send us Fan Mail "Unexpressed expectations lead to frustrations" ~ Kingsley Grant So many couples operate within their marriage in a manner as if their partner should know what is expected of them without even telling them ... ... and they wonder why it's not happening. Successful marriages require both partners to have realistic and clear expectations. They remove the guessing work...

Send us Fan Mail It's no surprise that many marriages which may include yours, lack the spark or excitement they once had. Are you feeling that way about your marriage? Here's what I know ... Without a foundation of more than just physical intimacy which for most is sexual, couples can feel lost and unsure how to proceed in their relationship … But it doesn't have to be this way! Th...

Send us Fan Mail Ready to Rekindle Physical Intimacy in Your Marriage? After taking the necessary steps to build a relationship that is full of physical and emotional closeness, Here is my question to you, “How do you keep it running smoothly over time?”. How do you maintain that fire since Day 1 of your togetherness? If I heard your answer, I know you would mention “It’s not an easy thing”. Truly...

Send us Fan Mail Hey there, happy listener! Are you feeling like physical intimacy in your marriage is becoming a struggle? You're not alone! But don't worry, there's hope! With the right strategies and mindset, you and your partner can reignite that spark and bring physical intimacy back into your relationship. Here's what we believe: a strong, successful relationship is built...

Send us Fan Mail Are you feeling a bit disconnected from your partner? Are you finding that this disconnect is causing your mind to go places that you really don't want to go? Do you feel like you're trying everything possible to reconnect with your partner to no avail? If you answered yes to any of the above, this episode is for you. Because, here is what I know ... ... maintaining a st...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage is like a puzzle that two people have to put together, and sometimes it's hard to decide where to fit the pieces. And at times, some of the pieces are hidden or misplaced and it makes the task even more challenging. And so it is marriage. Often times we know what to do but we simply cannot fit the pieces together to make it work or we find it hard to locate them. The...

Send us Fan Mail Are you feeling like you've lost your individuality in your marriage? You're not alone. Many couples struggle with maintaining their own identity while being in a committed relationship. But here's the thing: just because you're married, it doesn't mean you have to lose yourself. In fact, investing in yourself and taking care of yourself is crucial for a h...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we dive into the topic of "How to achieve a happier marriage by focusing on solutions instead of problems." We know that when couples come to us for counseling, they tend to focus on what's tearing them apart. But by shifting their mindset to one that is solution-focused, they can start to focus on what's keeping them together. To help couples...

Send us Fan Mail Feeling like your emotions are in charge of your life and hurting your marriage? You're not alone. We've all had moments where our emotions take over and we make choices that we sometimes regret. But the great news is that YOU and I have the power to control our emotions and create a happier marriage. In this episode, we're sharing five easy skills to help you take...