The Connected Wife

Send us Fan Mail By prioritizing faith as you build your business and lead your home, God provides the strength and wisdom to make them successful With that said: How would you describe a life without God's presence in it? Would you say it's successful, or would you say something is missing in a life without God's presence? I will let you answer that for yourself. If you asked me, t...

Send us Fan Mail Elevating Your Success: The Quiet Triumph of a Fulfilling Life In a world that often celebrates wealth, power, and fame as the ultimate markers of success, there exists a quieter, deeper triumph that frequently goes unnoticed: the success of a fulfilling and God-centered life.  This type of success is not about external validation or material possessions; it's about finding m...

Send us Fan Mail Fighting for your marriage is something that some people would tell you not to do. Our world today doesn't see marriage as something worth fighting for. Many will say, move on, find someone else, or it's not worth it especially if you are a high-achieving business professional who is driven by success. Many will say, don't let anything, including marriage, get in th...

Send us Fan Mail Do you feel like you're constantly pulled in two directions? You're trying to create better opportunities for yourself and your family through expansion. Perhaps, growing your business, growing yourself, working on a side hustle, but you also want to be a good husband. Failing one of these made you feel like you are not enough as a  good spouse. But, you are not alone. D...

Send us Fan Mail In today's society, the roles of husband and wife in Christian marriage have become a very controversial topic. With so many conflicting messages about what it means to be a husband and wife, it's no wonder that marriages have lost the esteem they once held in our world. But what does the Bible really say about the roles of husband and wife in Christian marriage? And how...

Send us Fan Mail A long lasting marriage is rare these days. So in response to the question on giving advice for long lasting marriage, here's what this couple had to say: “It feels good. It feels like almost no time at all. It's both forever ago and just a blink of an eye ago” ~ Josh and Jenny Elledge Have you felt the same about your marriage as this couple did 28 years later? Would yo...

Send us Fan Mail If you're a married Christian professional or are open to hearing both scientific and biblical insights, we've got something special for you. I've learned through my professional and personal experiences how to use feelings smartly to make marriages stronger and brighter. I want to show you how to do it too! Sure, marriages have their good times and tough times. But...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine waking up each day, not physically exhausted, but emotionally weighed down by the state of your marriage. It's as if you're trudging through life with a heavy heart, and this emotional fatigue is more overwhelming than any physical tiredness you've experienced. It's like lugging around a backpack filled with jagged rocks that have grown heavier with eac...

Send us Fan Mail Is your marriage one of them? It is indeed disheartening to witness the slow demise of many marriages, a phenomenon I can't help but refer to as a "slow death."  This observation is made with a heavy heart, as I have had the privilege of knowing several such couples both on a personal and professional level. In these unfortunate cases, it seems as though the vibrant...

Send us Fan Mail Healing is Possible If you've been through a hard time in your life, like a trauma or hardship, it can be hard to believe that you can heal. But it is possible! Especially if you're married, trauma can have a big impact on your relationship with your spouse and kids. It can be hard to trust and connect with your partner when you've been through something bad. But it...

Send us Fan Mail Observing and learning from the experiences of a happy and harmonious couple can be a valuable source of inspiration and guidance for those seeking to nurture a successful and joyful marriage. Do you concur with this perspective? However, when something goes wrong and that same marriage moves to separation or divorce proceedings, that takes it to another level. But there are also...

Send us Fan Mail When people get married, they often have hopes and dreams for their life together. But sometimes, their marriage ends up being unhappy and feeling unfulfilled . This can be hard to deal with, and it can be hard to know what to do. Sometimes, couples don't know why their marriage is unhappy and unfulfilled. They sometimes have a general idea or have some specific things they t...

Send us Fan Mail “Just because of what happened before doesn't mean it's automatically true now”. What do you think of that saying? Would you like to be only remembered by your past especially if it is one that you regret? Unfortunately, many people use our past to make predictions for our future and also as a way to judge our present. This is what I believe happened to Steve Harvey and...

Send us Fan Mail Did you see the video of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez? People all over the world are watching it and talking about it. I'm going to tell you what happened, and then I'll share some lessons we can learn from it. In the video, Ben Affleck opens the car door for Jennifer Lopez, but then he slams it really hard. People are talking about whether he was being rude to her, or...

Send us Fan Mail Are you ready to be inspired? In this episode, we have a special guest, Ambré Shaver, also known as Lady Hope Dealer. Her life story is a true testament to the power of overcoming adversity. From struggling with difficult experiences like abuse, abandonment, promiscuity, and drug use, Ambré has risen above it all. She has overcome past traumas and personal battles that can impact...

Send us Fan Mail No relationship is perfect. And there's a vast difference between marrying the right person and marrying the wrong person. It's pretty common to feel a bit awkward or even embarrassed about opening up about the rough patches you might hit. But here's the deal: holding back those feelings can end up putting a strain on your connection. Seriously, it's like givin...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes, people forgive their partner even if they cheated because they want to keep their family together. I think this is a good reason to forgive. As a marriage and family therapist, I have seen many couples struggle with infidelity. It is a very difficult thing to forgive, but it is possible. The decision to forgive depends on many factors, like your personal experiences, sp...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine waking up each day and feeling an instant connection with your spouse. Just a glance into their eyes and a warm smile on your face sets the tone for an incredible day ahead. As you enjoy your morning coffee together, engaging in delightful conversations and sharing laughter, you're strengthening the bond between you. These small moments of intimacy create a strong fou...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage is a special bond where wives contribute a lot and make big sacrifices. They have a unique ability to give wholeheartedly, which strengthens their connection with their husbands. Throughout the journey of marriage, wives accept their imperfections and appreciate their genuine efforts to create a happy and harmonious partnership. And let's not forget, they deserve a l...

Send us Fan Mail Trauma. PTSD. Divorce. These are just a few of the issues mentioned that can disrupt a marriage. Bumps and disagreements are indeed a normal part of any relationship, including marriages. No marriage is perfect, and it is unrealistic to expect complete harmony and agreement at all times.  However, what sets apart healthier and happier marriages is how couples handle these challeng...

Send us Fan Mail “In our journey, we believed we had all the answers about marriage, thinking that once we had the perfect model of a Christian union, everything would be smooth sailing” ~ Sarah If a couple finds themselves feeling disconnected or experiencing difficulties reminiscent of a divorced couple, it can indeed be surprising and disheartening. While it's generally expected for newly...

Send us Fan Mail In many marriages, there is a recognition of the importance of leadership within the household. While different couples may have varying ideas of what this leadership should entail, the underlying understanding is that someone needs to take on the role of leading. While both spouses may possess leadership skills and expertise in different areas, it is crucial to recognize that, at...

Send us Fan Mail “So even though I went through difficult times, in my heart, I would say, okay, we are believers of Christ, we need to make this work . This is what I believed." Having a happy relationship is important, but it's also crucial to remember our responsibilities as partners. The way we have been raised shapes how we approach and navigate challenges within our relationships....

Send us Fan Mail Marriage can be tough, especially if you grew up in a family that wasn't so great. But here's the thing: Your past doesn't have to control your future. You can learn from the patterns you've seen and make better choices for yourself. It takes work, but it's doable. And success in marriage isn't about where you came from, it's about how you'r...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever been deeply hurt by your partner? Have you said or done things that have hurt your partner? If you have ever been deeply hurt in your relationship or have been guilty of hurting your spouse, this episode is really for you. While forgiving oneself and one's partner may indeed seem difficult, challenging, or even unfair, particularly considering the severity of th...