Alana Carvalho

The Codependent Perfectionist

Health EN ↓ 60 episodes

The Codependent Perfectionist is a series on the dynamics of codependency and perfectionism. Alana self identifies as the Codependent Perfectionist, giving you a mix of psychoeducation and anecdotes from her own work as a therapist to understand how these issues play out in everyday life. Contact Alana: alana@alanacarvalho.com, alanacarvalho.com or following on Instagram thecodependentperfectionist for any questions or comments!

Author

Alana Carvalho

Category

Health

Podcast website

www.alanacarvalho.com

Latest episode

Oct 24, 2025

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Episodes

Parenting & Self-Care with Heather Chauvin 29.09.2021

In today's episode, we chat with Heather Chauvin, author of Dying to Be A Good Mother. We discuss issues around balance as a parent, codependency, perfectionism and Heather's journey through cancer recovery that helped her learn to take care of herself.

The Importance of Language in Recovery 03.09.2021

In this episode we'll explore how language is an essential piece to improving relationships in the recovery process.

Spirituality in the Healing Process 31.08.2021

In this episode we discuss how spirituality can play an important role in recovery from codependency and perfectionism.

Gaslighting with Children 13.08.2021

In today's episode we explore what the concept of gaslighting looks like in our interactions with children. We'll identify terminology that could lead children to feel less trust in themselves and how to change it.

Depersonalizing Other’s Behavior 20.07.2021

In this episode, we’re talking depersonalizing and learning how to separate out what’s about us vs. what’s about someone else.

Using Oracle Cards for Healing 23.04.2021

In this episode, I explain what oracle cards are, how they came about and how they can be used to strengthen one's healing journey and relationship to Spirit!

Codependency & Coping with Food with Dani Bryant 16.04.2021

In this episode, Dani Bryant and I take a look at the connection between food as a coping mechanism and codependency. We tackle the Karpman's drama triangle, what it really means to binge eat, and having compassion for ourselves in how we deal with our emotional struggles.

Prevention Parenting Strategies for Young Children with Polina Shkadron 02.04.2021

In today's episode, Polina Shkadron and I explore the importance of prevention with children and what it looks like. Polina gives some practical tools that parents can implement to help their children learn coping skills.

The Mother-Daughter Relationship Part 2 23.03.2021

In this episode, I explore how the daughter can go about healing a codependent relationship with their parent. We're talking taking risks and learning to stand in our power!

The Mother-Daughter Relationship 18.03.2021

In todays episode I explore the mother-daughter dynamic. Specifically, I tackle how codependency and perfectionism can easily creep into the relationship and what we can do to begin to move out of the dysfunction.

Codependency & Couples with Christie Kim 23.02.2021

In this episode, we're chatting with Christie Kim, LMHC on how healing can happen in a codependent relationship especially through the lens of Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Moving from Enmeshment to Empathy through Nuance Thinking 06.02.2021

Today we’re talking about how changing how we think can influence our ability to experience empathy rather than enmeshment.

Codependency & Perfectionism in the Black Community with Ariel Emmanuel & Camille Lester 30.12.2020

In this episode, we explore the cultural context of codependency and perfectionism in the Black community with mental health therapists Ariel Emmanuel & Camille Lester.

Codependency, Women & the Holidays with Johannah Bogart 24.11.2020

Today we're talking codependency and perfectionism in women, especially people pleasing with Johannah Bogart! We also dive into the holidays and gives some thoughts on how we can work on people pleasing over the holiday time.

Codependency & Relationships with Robert Sullivan 13.11.2020

Today Robert and I are discussing relationships based on codependency, how we can make changes to support ourselves and our sense of self-worth.

Perfectionism & Body Image with Dani Bryant 06.11.2020

Today we're talking all about body image with Dani Bryant! Especially it's connection with perfectionism, where this comes from and how we can work on healing it.

Codependency & Alcohol with the Discerning Drinker 12.08.2020

In this episode, Alana chats with Lindsey Pratt, the Discerning Drinker, discussing out of balance alcohol usage and it's connection with codependency.

Spirituality, Codependency, & Perfectionism 22.07.2020

Today we're talking about spirituality and it's connection to codependency & perfectionism. Codependency can be thought of as a lack of faith and perfectionism as a lack of trust. Listen to find out more about how to work through these spiritual issues!

Parenting Advice with Dr. Sarah Bren - Episode 17 27.06.2020

In this episode, Dr. Sarah Bren and I discuss attachment, the good enough parent, attending to your child's emotions, postpartum anxiety and more!

Your Relationship with Your Codependent Parent - Episode 16 16.06.2020

In this episode, we're discussing the issues with your codependent parent. What it looks like, emotions that are often present, and why it's often dysfunctional.

Codependency & Narcissism - Episode 15 08.05.2020

In this episode we have 2 special guests: Alana Barlia and Lindsey Pratt! Together, we talk about narcissism, personality disorders and codependency, especially common narcissistic traits, relationship patterns, and what to do if you're in one!

Parenting & COVID-19 - Episode 14 25.03.2020

Today I'm talking about parenting during the COVID-19 epidemic. Giving some support and tips on how to manage!

The Codependent Perfectionist Episode 13 21.02.2020

Today I interview 2 wonderful parents who have done some great work on their own codependency issues! Listen to them share their story of why they came into the support group and how they worked towards a new relationship with their children.

The Codependent Perfectionist Episode 12 17.01.2020

It's all about Karpman's drama triangle today! We're discussing and identifying the different roles codependents take on in relationships.

The Codependent Perfectionist Episode 11 08.01.2020

Today we're discussing codependency with siblings, adult and child! If you have this dynamic with any siblings or are concerned you're doing this as a parent, this episode is for you!

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