The Christian Dating Coach

Send us Fan Mail You’ve been told to pray.  To wait.  To be content. But no one told you what it’s costing you to stay stuck in that cycle. This episode will shake you—in the best way.  It’s not angry. It’s not rushed.  It’s truth-telling. Legacy-building. Spirit-freeing. If you’ve been feeling the quiet ache of delay...  If something in your soul knows there’s more...  You need this one. 🎧 Liste...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever left a party feeling invisible… or stayed home because your nerves got the best of you? In this episode, Michelle gets real about what social anxiety actually is — and how to overcome it with practical confidence-building tools that actually work. You’ll learn why your opinion of yourself matters more than anyone else’s, how to stop spiraling over other people’s reac...

Send us Fan Mail Bringing up sex before marriage can feel awkward, intimidating—or like a guaranteed vibe-killer. But it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, I’m walking you through the sex talk no one ever teaches you how to have —the one that honors your faith, protects your heart, and actually builds chemistry instead of killing it. You’ll learn: Exactly when to have the conversation (and when...

Send us Fan Mail He was kind. He loved the Lord. He wanted marriage. So why didn’t he pursue you? Here’s the truth no one tells you: Godly men don’t commit because you’re nice —they pursue when they feel something. In this episode, I’m teaching you how to create “I want you” energy that activates pursuit—without compromising your purity.  You’ll learn how to stir up desire in a way that honors God...

Send us Fan Mail You sent the text… and now you’re staring at your phone, wondering if he’s going to write back. Before you spiral or double text — pause. This is the moment that separates a girl who chases… from a woman who attracts. In today’s episode, I’m walking you through the power of leaning out — what it really means, how it creates desire, and why it’s one of the most feminine, faith-fill...

Send us Fan Mail She was having a pleasant conversation. It was fine. It was nice. But I saw what could be. So, I gave her a challenge: Make him crazy about you by the end of the week. She laughed. Then she did exactly that. In this episode, I’m sharing the exact shifts I coached her through—so you can do it too. No games. No pressure. No compromising your values. Just Flirt Pure confidence, godly...

Send us Fan Mail He says he’s a Christian… but is he truly walking with God? In this episode, I’m giving you 4 powerful, heart-revealing questions to ask a man early on — before the chemistry clouds your clarity. You’ll learn how to spark deep conversations without turning it into an awkward interview, so you can discern if he’s the real deal: a man after God’s own heart. This is about protecting...

Send us Fan Mail Long-distance relationships are hard — but they’re not impossible. In this episode, Michelle shares real talk from her own story of dating her now-husband across three time zones, and how they not only made it work… but made it romantic, intentional, and deeply connected. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just want to build deeper connection in your current one, th...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Michelle gets all the way real about the three silent killers that are keeping so many women stuck in extended singleness: Discouragement, Doubt, and Delay . These aren't just “bad moods” — they’re mindset traps that affect your energy, your attraction, your actions, and ultimately, your results. If you’ve ever said, “What’s the point?” , “Maybe God doesn’t w...

Send us Fan Mail Should you move cities (or even states) just to hopefully find love? In this episode, Michelle finally puts this common question to rest — and her answer might surprise you. She shares her personal story of moving across the country for love — the risk, the reward, and what made it worth it — and contrasts it with the all-too-common idea that changing your location will change you...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Michelle dives deep into a thought that plagues so many single women — “Why is it taking so long?” If you’ve ever found yourself frustrated with the timeline of your love life, this one is for you. Michelle unpacks the mindset behind the question, why it’s keeping you stuck, and how surrendering to God’s perfect timing might be the most powerful shift you can make...

Send us Fan Mail Hey hey sis—welcome back to the show. Today, I’m sharing something I’ve seen time and time again in every client who’s crossed over to the other side and gotten married. They all had one thing in common: a quiet confidence. A deep, unshakable knowing that they were called—destined—to be a wife. Even through the lonely nights, the solo weddings, the awkward dates... they carried a...

Send us Fan Mail Sis, what if I told you the reason you’re still single isn’t because you’re too picky, too late, or too much — but because you’ve been dating without a system? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many godly women are stuck in dating hell — swiping endlessly, getting ghosted, and wondering if “your person” even exists. Spoiler alert: he does. But you...

Send us Fan Mail I’m hosting a FREE LIVE Masterclass – SWIPE. MATCH. MARRY. – on Sunday, March 23rd, 2025 to show you exactly how to date effectively, create amazing chemistry, and position your heart to receive the man God has for you. Note: This is a REAL, LIVE event—not a pre-recorded video. That shows how urgent this opportunity is.   If you’re serious about stepping into a new season of datin...

Send us Fan Mail DO NOT MISS THIS EPISODE! Hear a love story from a man's perspective. It will inspire, encourage and give you confidence on how to captivate the handsome, godly man of your dreams. Falling in love happens in an instant.  It truly does not matter how long you are single because you'll be spending the entire rest of your life - not single. Your future husband is out there....

Send us Fan Mail Falling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens in the blink of an eye. It truly does not matter how long you are single because you'll be spending the entire rest of your life - not single. Your future husband is out there. You just need to meet him... and you will.  Sis, your handsome, g...

Send us Fan Mail Falling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens in the blink of an eye. It truly does not matter how long you are single because you'll be spending the entire rest of your life - not single. Your future husband is out there. You just need to meet him... and you will.  Sis, your handsome, g...

Send us Fan Mail Falling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens in the blink of an eye. It truly does not matter how long you are single because you'll be spending the entire rest of your life - not single. Your future husband is out there. You just need to meet him... and you will.  Sis, your handsome, g...

Send us Fan Mail Falling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens in the blink of an eye. It truly does not matter how long you are single because you'll be spending the entire rest of your life - not single. Your future husband is out there. You just need to meet him... and you will.  Sis, your handsome, g...

Send us Fan Mail In this podcast, I interview 3 men of God as they share where they hung out when single, what they thought about saving sex before marriage, what they were looking for in a wife and ultimately what made them commit. Want an insider's guide to finding and captivating a godly man so you can get married sooner? Listen to this podcast. Sis, your handsome, godly man is ready right...

Send us Fan Mail So many times, I hear women say they go on all these first dates that go nowhere. If you're wondering why and how to fix it, listen to this podcast. Ready for an intimate, premium coaching experience where you have encouragement and fun in the dating process AND fall in love with your handsome, godly man?   If the answer is yes, you'll want to join me for private 1:1 men...

Send us Fan Mail Ready to meet your handsome, godly man RIGHT NOW? Apply for the Sisterhood. The Sisterhood is my small group coaching program where you learn how to have more confidence, how to flirt and create chemistry in your interactions, and how to actually find the compatible, Christian man God created just for you. Click the link below for more information and to apply.  https://www.thechr...

Send us Fan Mail Valentine's Day is right around the corner. Wouldn't you like to create a date for Valentine's especially if it becomes your Forever Valentine? Listen to this podcast where I invite you to my annual Valentine's Prep Party. Then use the link below to come live or get the replay.   www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/valentines 

Send us Fan Mail A new cohort of the Sisterhood is starting in January 2025. Ready to change your love life forever RIGHT NOW? Apply for the Sisterhood. It's my small group coaching program where you learn how to have more confidence, how to flirt and create chemistry in your interactions, and how to actually find compatible, Christian men so that you can marry your own handsome, godly man SO...

Send us Fan Mail A new cohort of the Sisterhood is starting in January. Ready to change your love life forever RIGHT NOW? Apply for the Sisterhood. It's my small group coaching program where you learn how to have more confidence, how to flirt and create chemistry in your interactions, and how to actually find compatible, Christian men so that you can marry your own handsome, godly man SOON. C...