The Christian Dating Coach

Send us Fan Mail It's Caleb's birthday today, and in this special episode, he's joining Michelle to share his unfiltered journey—what it was like being single, using dating apps, and wondering if the right woman was even out there.  He reveals what caught his attention when he saw Michelle’s profile, why saving sex for marriage impressed him, and that moment in Michigan when he real...

Send us Fan Mail Dating apps are brutally visual — and low-quality photos are the #1 reason amazing women are being overlooked online. In this episode, Michelle unpacks why photos matter more than your bio, what rules to follow if you want to attract a high-quality man, and how her clients transform their results when they upgrade their photos strategically. You’ll hear: The quick “six-month test”...

Send us Fan Mail Every woman wonders: what do men really think about beauty? In this episode, Michelle reveals the secret to feeling beautiful—not by chasing perfection, but by aligning with God’s definition of beauty and your own.  You’ll hear surprising insights from Christian men on attraction, discover why confidence is more magnetic than looks, and learn the simple shift that changes how the...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful episode, Michelle Joiner reveals The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster —truths no one ever told you about why you’re still single and how to break free from the cycle of delay. With raw honesty, biblical wisdom, and real client success stories, Michelle dismantles the lies that keep women stuck and shows you the proven roadmap out of delay. If you’re re...

Send us Fan Mail The godly, marriage-minded man you’re praying for? He speaks a certain language. A King’s Language. If you don’t know how to speak it, you’ll get stuck in friend-zone conversations that go nowhere. In this episode, I’ll show you the three things every man needs to hear and how to use your words to unlock his heart. This isn’t about chasing or striving. It’s about carrying yourself...

Send us Fan Mail It’s one thing to attract a man. It’s another to captivate him. But God’s design is bigger than attraction — His vision is Kingdom Marriage . In this final episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, we turn to Sarah, covenant partner of Abraham and example of unfading beauty. Her story points us to the marriage you’ve been longing for: one built on honor, tenderness, respect, and sacrif...

Send us Fan Mail The Shulammite woman’s romance with King Solomon is one of the most passionate love stories in Scripture — filled with desire 🔥, longing, and covenant promise 🙏. Her story reveals a mystery: passion and purity aren’t opposites. They’re meant to go together. In this episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, discover how to unlock the mystery to Passion 🔥 + Purity 🙏 in your own love...

Send us Fan Mail Esther didn’t win her crown by chance. She carried wisdom, guidance, and a secret that set her apart — a secret that captivated the most powerful man in her world. In this episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, discover Esther’s secret to favor and why the men you dream of — godly, high-caliber, marriage-minded men — still exist today. More importantly, learn how to unlock the same...

Send us Fan Mail Ruth didn’t stumble into her love story—she was guided, positioned, and bold enough to move when others stayed behind. In this episode, discover the hidden reason many women never meet their Boaz, and how mentorship and decisive action can shift everything in your love life. 👉 Apply for Kingdom Bride Unlocked and step into the strategy that leads to your Boaz: Click Here to Book...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve been praying, showing up, and believing for love—yet another season is ending without the relationship you hoped for—you’re not alone.  In this episode, Michelle offers heartfelt biblical encouragement for the woman who feels tired of waiting, drawing on the stories of Hannah, Ruth, and God’s promises to remind you that His timing is perfect and His love story for you is...

Send us Fan Mail The wrong relationship can cost you years, confidence, and even your sense of identity—and it’s almost never worth the price.  In this episode, Michelle shows you how to use biblical discernment to recognize a man’s true character, so you stop confusing chemistry for compatibility.  You’ll learn how to stay open and curious while dating, but crystal-clear and uncompromising when i...

Send us Fan Mail If your dates keep feeling more like interviews than romance, you’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re “bad at conversation.”  There’s one subtle habit that’s quietly killing your chemistry, and you may not even know you’re doing it.  In this episode, Michelle reveals the small but powerful shift that can turn surface-level Q&A into real, magnetic connection—fast.  Don’t w...

Send us Fan Mail You’ve built the career, the income, and the life others admire — but somewhere along the way, success quietly stole your love life.  In this episode, I reveal the two surprising reasons high-achieving women are the least likely to get help in love… and the exact steps to take it back. 💙 Special for podcast listeners: Be one of the first 10 women to join my Kingdom Bride Unlocked...

Send us Fan Mail She got the degrees. She got the corner office. She built the life everyone applauded—but success still left her empty. In this raw and prophetic episode, Michelle exposes the hidden emotional and spiritual cost of success for high-achieving Christian women—and why the love you were meant to experience keeps getting delayed. She tells the story of her own “golden touch” career…and...

Send us Fan Mail There’s a reason some women turn heads without even trying. They don’t chase. They don’t compete. They just are. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what makes a woman unforgettable—not in a flashy or fake way, but in a quiet, magnetic, Spirit-led way that changes everything. If you’ve ever wondered how to go from overlooked to undeniable, this one’s for you. 💌 Wa...

Send us Fan Mail 🎁 SPECIAL EPISODE: The Confidence Call You Didn’t Know You Needed This week, I’m gifting you something special—straight from my heart. You’ll be listening in on a live coaching call I hosted called “Single, Christian, and Confident.” It’s unfiltered, faith-filled, and packed with truth bombs that will shift how you see yourself today. 💙 Inside, I walk you through the five pillar...

Send us Fan Mail Want to know what’s actually keeping you single? This special edition episode is pulled straight from Michelle’s powerful webinar Five Mistakes Keeping Christian Women Single.  If you’ve been praying, waiting, and doing “all the right things” but still find yourself stuck, this episode will show you exactly why—and what needs to shift if you want to meet the love of your life and...

Send us Fan Mail In this deeply personal birthday episode, Michelle pulls back the curtain on her journey from climbing ladders to creating legacy. She opens up about her high-achieving 20s, the drive to succeed, and the secret ache that degrees and promotions couldn’t quiet. From getting into the top engineering schools in the country to crying alone in the shower, Michelle shares the pivotal mom...

Send us Fan Mail You don’t need to delete the apps—you need a strategy.  Dating app purgatory. You know the feeling. Endless messages. Constant profile tweaks. Flat conversations that go nowhere — when all you want is a godly man who initiates, engages, and actually follows through. Here’s what no one tells you:   90% of Michelle’s clients meet their husbands online. They just stop doing what does...

Send us Fan Mail Today, Michelle breaks down the real transformation required to attract a godly, emotionally available, high-quality man. You’ll learn the four core shifts you need to make—and why “window shopping” the process is what’s quietly delaying your breakthrough for high-value love. 💡 If you're hoping for once-in-a-lifetime, high-level love, stop making low-level moves. That’s like...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful episode, Michelle breaks down the four truths her clients live by—truths that radically shifted their mindset, their strategy, and their results. These are the women who met their husbands in months… and it wasn’t by accident. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still stuck in dating purgatory, you need to hear this. It’s not just about...

Send us Fan Mail There’s a lie keeping far too many high-value Christian women single:   “It’s just a numbers game.” But piling up mediocre dates with mediocre men and having mediocre conversations doesn’t get you any closer to the godly, high-caliber marriage you’ve been praying for. In this episode, I’m breaking that lie wide open—and showing you why dating is not about trying harder, but about...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage didn’t just teach Michelle how to love her husband — it taught her how to love better. Period. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or already married, this episode will open your eyes to the one word that transforms every stage of relationship: grace . Real love isn’t built on perfection. It’s built on patience, forgiveness, understanding, and humility — the kind of g...

Send us Fan Mail What if you’re not single because there are no good men — but because you keep passing by the right ones for the wrong reasons? In this episode, Michelle shares the honest truth about why so many women miss out on truly great, godly men.  If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start seeing clearly, this is your invitation to slow down, check your heart, and give love a chance to...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever said, “There are no good men out there,” this episode will lovingly shake that belief — and show you exactly where the high-value, godly men actually are. Michelle reveals the three types of spaces where Christian men consistently show up — and how you can start putting yourself in those rooms with strategy, joy, and boldness (not desperation). You’ll walk away seei...