The Black Girl Bravado

Friendships are the cornerstones of our lives, but navigating them can be tricky! In this episode, we explore the world of female friendships with Danielle Bayard Jackson, a friendship coach and national speaker. Danielle, speaks about her new book "Fighting for Our Friendships," and shares her expertise on the science of female platonic connections. If you’re ready to equip yourself with...

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Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions, but not quite sure why? Feeling lost about what truly matters to you? This episode is all about uncovering your Core Desired Feelings (CDFs) - the emotional states YOU crave most in life. These are unique and special to you, not a one-size-fits-all list. In this episode we discuss:  What are Core Desired Feelings and why are they importan...

Do you ever feel like you're not good enough unless...You achieve that next promotion? You hit a certain number on the scale? Someone finally "likes" your latest post? We all have those nagging voices that whisper limitations. In this episode we’re exploring the concept of conditions of worth - those invisible rules set for ourselves that dictate our self-esteem. If you’re ready to bre...

Ever feel like you "need" that new gadget everyone seems to have? Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling through social media, bombarded by friends' perfect vacations and ideal lives? You might be experiencing mimetic desire, the powerful urge to want what others want. In this episode we unpack the psychology of mimetic desire, its impact on our choices, and most importantly, how to...

Are you in a cycle of starting and stopping too many things? Frustrated that progress feels slow and motivation fades? What if the secret to achieving your goals wasn't about grand gestures, but about tiny, consistent actions? In this episode we’re exploring the often-underestimated power of consistency. If you’re ready to stay on track and finally achieve your goals, this episode is for you!...

Have you ever made a decision you still regret to this day? Do you constantly worry about making the "wrong" choice? Don’t worry, you're not alone. In this episode, we’re discussing regret aversion: why we fear making the wrong choice and how it impacts our decisions. If you’re ready to overcome regret, make decisions with confidence and live more boldly, this episode is for you! In th...

Feeling constantly pulled towards notifications, social media scrolling endlessly, or maybe that afternoon sugar crash just won't quit? These could all be signs of a dopamine overload. In this episode, we'll explore the science behind dopamine, the brain's feel-good chemical, and how excessive stimulation can disrupt our focus, happiness, and overall well-being. In this episode we disc...

Have you ever felt stuck in a loop? Maybe a negative thought pattern keeps replaying, or an old habit keeps rearing its head?  Well, guess what? The answer might lie in the subconscious mind, a powerful force shaping our lives often without our awareness. Whether you want to boost your confidence, conquer a fear, or simply attract more positivity, this episode is for you.  In this episode we discu...

How often do you find yourself second-guessing your actions based on what others might think? Do you silence your voice or hold back from pursuing your passions due to the fear of being judged? Is the constant pressure to present a perfect image taking a toll on your mental well-being? If you answered yes, you're not alone. Today we’re exploring the fear of being perceived - a common struggle...

Feeling stuck in autopilot? Do you ever wonder if you're truly making the choices that will lead you to a fulfilling life? In this episode, we explore the incredible power of choice and equip you with practical tools to make decisions with confidence and clarity. Whether you're looking to improve your career path, navigate personal relationships, or simply feel more in control of your life...

Have you ever received praise for your work but convinced yourself it was just a fluke? Ever felt like a fraud, even though you were achieving success? Or maybe you constantly compare yourself to others, feeling like they're somehow more qualified than you? These are just a few signs of imposter syndrome , a psychological phenomenon that can affect anyone, regardless of their accomplishments....

In this episode we unpack the complexities of "Eldest Daughter Syndrome" and explore the unique challenges and expectations placed on the firstborn daughters.  Discover the signs and symptoms, from perfectionism to struggles with expressing emotions, tied to the birth order theory proposed by Alfred Adler. The episode offers practical coping strategies, emphasizing self-care, identifying s...

Ever feel like someone uses "I don't know how" as a superpower to avoid chores, responsibilities, or even basic adulting? Is there a chance they're actually wielding the secret weapon of "strategic incompetence?” Today we’re unpacking the psychology behind weaponized incompetence, and equipping you with strategies to navigate this tricky dynamic, whether it's with a family...

Have you ever found yourself wondering about the balance between compatibility and chemistry in relationships? Can you have both compatibility and chemistry, or does one take precedence over the other? Today we’re discussing the nuances of these two relationship pillars. From shared values and long-term goals to the electrifying sparks of attraction, we’re exploring how compatibility and chemistry...

What does it mean to have your own taste, distinct from the influence of trends and online pressures? How do you maintain your individuality in a sea of conformity? Today we’re discussing the complexities of preserving your uniqueness in the age of likes, shares and trending hashtags.  In this episode we:  Discuss how social media has limited individuality and created a culture of conformity  How...

What steals our childlike wonder? Why does curiosity often take a back seat in the hustle of adult life? What if the key to a more fulfilling life lies in the questions we ask and the paths we choose to explore? If you’re ready to reignite your curiosity, this episode is for you!  In this episode we:  Discuss factors that contribute to the decline of curiosity Explain how to reclaim the innate cur...

What does femininity mean to you? How do you express your feminine energy? In today’s episode we’re exploring the world of femininity and celebrating the spectrum of feminine expression using Jungian analyst and psychiatrist, Jean Shinoda Bolen’s framework for the 7 feminine archetypes.  In this episode we:  Define the 7 feminine archetypes— key traits & shadows  Share tips on how to embody di...

Have you ever contemplated what life would be like without the familiar hum of alcohol in the background? As Dry January unfolds, we’re discussing the growing sober curious movement and shedding light on the benefits that reach far beyond a hangover-free morning. From mental clarity to rediscovering your true self, we’re unpacking the potential of embracing a sober curious lifestyle. Whether you&#...

How often do you find yourself dwelling on someone else's opinion? Ever wondered why it's so challenging to brush off criticism? What if you could unlock the secret to these common questions? If you’re ready to liberate yourself from the trap of taking things personally and reclaim your inner peace, this episode is for you!  In this episode we:  Identify common signs of feeling overly affe...

What does it take to truly reinvent yourself and begin a new era of life?? As we step into the fresh canvas of 2024, the idea of entering a new era isn’t just a catchphrase; it’s a commitment to your personal evolution! If you’re ready to jumpstart your journey towards a refreshed and reimagined version of yourself, this episode is for you!  In this episode we discuss:  Reasons we seek to reinvent...

As we prepare to come back from our break we thought we’d give y’all a sneak peek of what you’re missing over at the Homegirl Hangout. Enjoy this Bravado Bonus!  Are you tired of the strong black woman narrative? Resilience Resentment is a pushback to those toxic nudges that encourage us to conquer our emotions and be unwavering under stress and difficult situations. If you’re ready to reframe how...

The girls are on break but we’re taking this time to bump a few of our favorite and most valuable episodes to the top of your feed. This one is a goodie and a must listen before the year ends!  Are you tired of making resolutions that don’t stick? What about trying to create new healthy habits to only look up and realize you’ve fallen back into your old ways? If you’re ready to commit to being 1%...

We’re taking the last few weeks of the year to revisit a few of our favorite and most impactful episodes. We invite you to ease into the new year considering what you can do to make it the best one yet; and we’re sure episodes like this one will help you do just that!   Have you ever felt like you have so many things to do and EVERYTHING is a priority? Do you find yourself saying yes to every invi...

A lot happened this year, so of course we need to chat about it! It’s time to reflect on all we’ve learned, the goals we’ve achieved (and didn’t lol), and how we’re looking forward to becoming the best versions of ourselves in 2024!  In this episode we discuss:  What we discovered about ourselves this year that was previously unknown  How the people around us contributed to our growth; why priorit...