DeborahKat

The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations

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Sit down with Tantra teacher and professional Dominatrix Deborah Kat as she interviews experts in sex, intimacy and relationship. These rich and dynamic conversations share each guest's wisdom, caution and encouragement to support you to have the Better Sex you crave!

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DeborahKat

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Health

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deborahkat.com

Latest episode

Jul 3, 2026

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Episodes

Tools to Make Sex Talks Easy with Dr. Evelin Dacker 10.04.2025

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Sexologist and Educator Dr. Evelin Molina Dacker about the power of open conversations around sexual health at every stage of life. She gets real about her own journey—breaking free from societal expectations and redefining what pleasure looks like, especially through menopause. During this conversation, Dr. Eveline shares her simple but power...

Fantasies, Secrets & Good Sex with Dr. Toni Bear 28.03.2025

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with sexologist and intimacy expert Dr. Toni Baer. We dive into sexual identity, fantasies, and the power of secrets in relationships. Dr. Toni shares how her personal journey—from high school teacher to sexologist—was shaped by a deeply personal family tragedy that ignited her passion for helping others embrace their desires and navigate sexual id...

Unpacking Jealousy & Pleasure with Ken Blackman 19.02.2025

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with international Sex and Intimacy Educator and Relationship Coach, Ken Blackman. In this conversation, we dive deep into the nuance of jealousy and how it appears in relationships, exploring the different types of jealousy that can uniquely affect intimate connections. We also touch upon the transformative power of identifying different relations...

Flirting and the Feminine with Coco Williams 30.01.2025

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Certified Bondassage Trainer, Entrepreneur & Coach, Coco Williams who dives deep with us into the power of feminine energy, the art of flirting, and the journey of personal growth and healing. We talk about how subtle shifts in communication can significantly affect our interactions and relationships and the ways flirting can elevate your mood...

Navigating Sexual Communication with Tallulah Sulis 15.01.2025

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast , I chat with Sex Educator, Somatic Sex Therapist and Female Ejaculation Expert, Tallulah Sulis about empowering female sexuality, fostering better communication, and enhancing intimacy in relationships. As we talk, Tallulah shares a bit of her journey into somatic coaching as she learned the deep importance of nervous system regulation and discovered the...

The Neuroscience of Pleasure & Happiness with Dr. Nan Wise 03.01.2025

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I speak with the brilliant Neuroscientist, Best-Selling Author, Sex Therapist, & Licensed Psychotherapist Dr. Nan Wise.  During this conversation, we dive into the fascinating and transformative topic of "The Neuroscience of Pleasure and Happiness," uncovering how our brains are beautifully designed for connection, joy, and emotional well-being. Along the...

From Conservative Roots to Liberated Lifestyle with Ayce Kypton 19.12.2024

In this episode, I sit down with Certified Erotic Blueprints Coach and Somatic Sexological Bodyworker Ayce Kypton. Ayce shares his inspiring journey from growing up as a conservative, Republican Christian kid to living an erotically liberated lifestyle as a trans-masculine individual. Together, we explore his passion for somatic embodiment and reclaiming pleasure. Along the way, we dive into the i...

What is Relationship Anarchy? A conversation with Annie Boheler 05.12.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with holistic mental health pioneer, Annie Boheler. Annie introduces us to the concept of relationship anarchy– a uniquely refreshing approach to relationships that balances chaos and order, recognizing the full range of connections equally. Hear about the influence of  drawing from her extensive background in biology, environmental sciences, traum...

"Love's Not Colorblind" & Polyamorous Communities with Kevin Patterson 05.11.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Author & Polyamory Educator Kevin Patterson exploring the world of non-monogamy. During this conversation, we delve into the nuances of polyamory, debunking stereotypes, and discussing the importance of clear communication and respect in non-monogamous relationships. Kevin's personal experiences, from navigating long-term relationships to bala...

Living a BDSM Life with Alesandra Madison 30.10.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with BDSM educator and creator of Dom Sub Living, Alesandra Madison. We delve into the dynamic world of Dom/Sub relationships, exploring how BDSM can be both healing and beneficial for partnership.   Alesandra shares a bit of her journey into BDSM as a lifestyle, giving us some invaluable insights into the importance of open communication, mutual r...

Back to Women's Pleasure with Pamela Madsen 16.10.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with Pamela Madsen, a true pioneer in women's sexual wellness and founder of the "Back to the Body Method." We dive deep into the transformative power of self-confidence, self-love, and how women can reclaim their erotic energy for more than just sexual expression—as a vital force in all areas of life.   Along the way, Pamela shares her journey...

Voicing Desire with Alexis Ware 01.10.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast , I sit down with acupuncturist, theta healer, and sex relationship coach Alexis Ware, for a deep dive into voicing our desires. We explore the fascinating connection between the throat and the clitoris, and how speaking our truth is vital for intimacy and connection in relationships. Along the way, Alexis shares powerful insights on the importance of feel...

Understanding Control in Relationship with Dr. Tom Murray 18.09.2024

Is there such a thing as 'ethical porn'? In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sex Therapist Dr. Tom Murray to explore this question as well as pornography trends, erotophobia and different control dynamics as they play out within relationships .  Along the way, hear more of Dr. Tom's story of becoming a sex therapist including time spent with pornography distribution giving him a...

Unpacking Sexual Freedom with Mandy Salley 02.09.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Licensed Social Worker and Sexual Freedom Advocate, Mandy Salley of the Woodhall Freedom Foundation. In this conversation, we chat about some of the limitations of sexual freedom in the United States, touching on laws against activities like cunnilingus or interracial sex and how outdated these laws have become. We delve into the Comstock Act...

Sinking into the Art of Seduction with Marla Renee Stewart 14.08.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with sexologist, author, and sexual strategist Marla Renee Stewart who shares her extensive experience studying human sexuality and running workshops worldwide through her sexuality education company, Velvet Lips and as co-founder of the groundbreaking Sex Down South Conference. Marla shares her own journey, including her move from California to th...

Sex and the Subconscious with Kate Shelor 17.07.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Hypnotherapist, Subconscious Reprogramming Expert and Relationship Coach,  Kate Shelor who takes us into the complexities behind the differences between how men and women perceive and communicate love and intimacy. Kate shares some of her personal journey using hypnotherapy to overcome her personal challenges with orgasms.  This led her to dev...

Liberating Erotic Shadows with Adam Chacksfield 02.07.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Spiritual Teacher, Adam Chacksfield who takes us on a journey through spiritual healing and transformation of Erotic Shadows through his unique work combining non-duality and somatic practices.  Adam discusses how shadow work can empower individuals to embrace their desires, set boundaries, and break free from shame stories, particularly with...

The Spiritual and Creative Power of Sexual Energy with Lisa Rizzoli 20.06.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with certified Tantra educator and level two teacher trainer, Lisa Rizzoli. Lisa shares profound insights into the integration of sexual energy with life force energy, and how it can be harnessed to manifest the life we desire. We delve into her journey into Tantra, starting at a transformative retreat at Esalen, and how her experiences shaped her...

Expanding the definition of orgasm with Susan Bratton 06.06.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Intimacy Expert to millions and best-selling Author Susan Bratton who brings her personal stories of receiving adoration to our discussion of expanding the definition of orgasm. During this fun and insightful conversation, we delve into the importance of knowledge, vulnerability, and meticulous scheduling to navigate different kinds of complex...

Tech Innovation and Enhancing Erectile Performance with Dr. Elliot Justin 21.05.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with CEO of Firmtech, Dr. Elliot Justin. Dr. Justin brings his extensive knowledge in medical technology and personal experience to share his innovations towards improved male sexual health and performance.   Beyond the technology available, we talk about the importance of non-rushed, pleasurable sexual experiences, prioritizing regular lovemaking...

Exploring the Wisdom of Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia de Vine 08.05.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sexual Fantasy Expert, Artemisia de Vine. Artemisia shares her personal story from her restrictive upbringing through her discovery of sexual fantasies and expanded consciousness to becoming a professional dominatrix.  During this conversation, we dive into the exploration of desires rather than suppression of them in forming a healthy relatio...

Unlocking the Power of the Love Goddess with Maya Kova 16.04.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sensuality and Love Coach Maya Kova. Maya's journey began as young woman fascinated by love, propelling her on a path to conquer her own relationship anxiety. Her journey and expertise offer a treasure trove of enlightenment that has the potential to revolutionize your experience with love and desire. With her partner, Maya has navigated the c...

Reframing Porn with Joseph Kramer 30.03.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with pioneering erotic bodywork educator Joseph Kramer, PhD. Joseph shares his transformative journey from academia to becoming a leading teacher of erotic massage and sexual embodiment. In this conversation, we delve into how pornography– which is often seen as 'bad'-- can be used as a tool to learn the art of touch in your relationship.  Along th...

Confessions of a Tantric Lawyer with Kim Mukti Nirjhara 20.03.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Tantric Lawyer,  Kim Mukti Nirjhara.  Kim blends the worlds of deep spiritual practice and the legal field, using tantric principles to navigate personal evolution through conflict resolution. Kim shares her transformative journey to discovering tantric therapy, the revitalization of her yoni, and how she came to bring together the intertwinin...

Prostate Pleasure From The Man Who Wrote The Book with Charlie Glickman 06.03.2024

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with PhD, Sex and Relationship Coach, Sexuality Educator, and Sexological Bodyworker Charlie Glickman. Charlie shares his extensive experience and wisdom from over three decades of working in the field of sexuality education. We talk about his book,  "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure" providing listeners with an in-depth look at the pleasure...

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