The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

In this episode, Natalie questions whether we can really blame someone's inability to commit on whether they're just not that into us. Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl http://bit.ly/mrfbg In the second segment, where each week Natalie helps listeners to better understand their emotional baggage and grow in self-awareness, she explores our relationship with time, namely why some of us have a ha...

In this episode, Natalie explains the key reasons for the breakdown of a relationship and how bottom line, they're all the same reason—incompatibility. Understanding Why Some Relationships Don't Work Out http://bit.ly/18WdqFx In the second segment where each week Natalie helps listeners to better understand their emotional baggage and grow in self-awareness, she explains some of the reasons why we...

In this episode, Natalie offers up some suggestions for dating as a single parent, explores the difference between help and support, and explains The Debit and Credit Trust System. This week's listener wants to know how to cope with turning 30 when everyone else has gotten married etc, plus Natalie shares what she learned this week. In the first segment I mentioned Episode 1, you can find it on iT...

In this episode, Natalie delves into the tricky subject of name-calling and swearing at someone in an argument and whether this is really 'OK', plus she shares three key admissions - admitting where you've made a mistake, admitting what you don't know, and admitting what you're pretending not to know - that keep us human and humble, and she explains some of the benefits of affirmations including s...

In this episode, Natalie talks about why we get stressed out by Valentine's Day and includes suggestions for putting things back into context plus she talks about why trying to get someone else to change won't fix the problem, as well has how to keep a gossiping in check . This week's listener question is about letting go after realising that even though a few years have gone by, you're not over y...

In this episode, Natalie explains why you shouldn't write off the year if it hasn't started out as you envisioned, why some of us struggle with decision-making and what we need to make healthy decisions as well as why the early stages of dating is guesswork. This week's listener question is about how to recover from being told by two exes that they're not sexually attracted to her, plus Natalie sh...

In this episode, Natalie questions whether a couple would really get divorced over leaving a glass out after reading a blog on the subject (http://bit.ly/MustBeThisTall), as well as explaining the 8 types of inner critic and their individual motivations and irrational fears, plus she offers up 6 magic words for that certain someone that wants to dump their responsibility on you. This week's listen...

In this episode, Natalie explains why someone else's partner isn't the person for you, why change and happiness isn't going to come from following rules that you've made based on guilt and fear, and why you can't keep talking about intentions or how someone can't help something, when they keep doing the same thing and they control themselves with others. This week's listener question is from someo...

In this episode, Natalie explains why sarcasm backfires sometimes and why you need to be mindful of using it on dates, as well as talking about how to let go of 'woundedness', and why consistent actions of self-esteem will reap more rewards than sporadic efforts. This week's listener question is about how to strive for an equal relationship after a divorce from unhealthy marriage plus Natalie shar...

In this new year special, Natalie takes you through her 2015, sharing the lessons she learned from her bumpy but also joyful ride. In the second part of the show she talks about new year's resolutions and why they need to matter in some way if they're going to have any chance of sticking, and in the third and final part, she closes out with some final words about the year and looking ahead. Instag...

In this episode, Natalie explains why people who treat others as a means to an end have a booty call mentality, talks through regret and why it's connected to our inner critic, and explains Show Pony Parenting. This week's listener question is about what to do when it appears that a friendship has fizzled out after a bust-up, plus, Natalie shares how faffing about what to do over Christmas has bee...

In this episode, Natalie explains how indecision over our boundary lines can cause us to accept the unacceptable, why we don't need to keep overspending to prove our worth, and explains the connection between a short-term mentality and commitment issues. This week's listener question is about what to do when you've been on a date or few and are not that interested, plus, Natalie shares why she's O...

In this episode, Natalie talks why some people find long-distance relationships attractive because it allows them to limit their vulnerability, why broaching a conversation with a parent where you paint a picture of what you went through in the past can be a springboard seeing and hearing each other more clearly and shares tips for dealing with a bullying coworker. This week's listener question is...

In this episode, Natalie talks why it's a bad idea to be an emotional airbag, the factors that influence how long it will take for you to get over a breakup, how the core theme from challenges can become a personal mantra for success. This week's listener question is about what to do when you diverge on a core value in a good relationship plus, Natalie shares how her recent trip to San Francisco h...

In this episode, Natalie talks about the 12 weeks of self-esteem torment which runs from mid-November until just after Valentine's day, why having a type causes you to have a blind spot, and a key reason why some people struggle to reply to texts immediately. This week's listener question is about whether it's ever OK to fake it in bed plus, Natalie shares how standing up for herself and resigning...

In this episode, Natalie talks about the difference between confronting issues and confrontation, why we sometimes need to get mad before we can feel grateful and recognise the lessons, and why it's OK to feel protective of your space and not quite ready to date, when you first start getting to know and like you. This week's listener question is about helping a listener understand if the differenc...

In this episode, Natalie talks about when somebody fakes a future with you and whether they're doing it deliberately, why we close off our options when we encounter issues with a family member, and what to do when somebody keeps asking you for favours. This week's listener question is about understanding jealousy plus Natalie shares what she's learned from helping her daughters to not feel so stre...

In this episode, Natalie asks, Why do we want to be break up 'nicely'?, talks about why we don't listen to our inner voices and digs into the topic of figuring out the "right" time to be exclusive. This week's listener question is about what "being yourself" means and Natalie shares how this week she's learned that she's more of a creature of habit than she'd realised. You can find out more about...

In this episode, Natalie talks about those inappropriate and insensitive comments and questions that singles contend with, whether we 'get over' abandonment and abuse that we experienced in childhood, and how we sometimes use claiming to feel guilty as a substitute for actually doing something about the situation. This week's listener question is about what to do when one when a close friend is co...

In this episode, Natalie talks about why keeping score isn't good for our relationships, why we need self-care practices and even a routine in order to survive and thrive, and how we often get annoyed and frustrated with others about stuff we ourselves are guilty of. She also tackles this week's listener question about whether men and women can be friends (this is after one made unwanted advances...

In this episode, Natalie talks about why asking for help is good for our relationships, why too much worry impacts our well-being, and why it's important not to judge you or your friend when they go quiet due to going through a struggle. She also tackles this week's listener question about dating someone who is too busy to actually date and shares how she's learned that she needs to not be so scar...

In this episode, Natalie delves into the pitfalls of trying to be liked by everyone and includes suggestions for detangling you from the habit. She also talks about why we get so stressed out by tricky co-workers and how to get some balance and tackles the minefield of who pays on the first few dates, plus she answers her weekly listener question and shares the lesson she learned this week. Email:...

In this episode, Natalie asks why we take Facebook so seriously and explains some of the ways that the social network has impacted on our psyche as well as the way that we engage with each other. She also covers the self-care practice of keeping a Feelings Diary, The Pretty Woman Complex aka the can I turn a booty call into a relationship fairy tale, and answers her weekly listener question plus s...

In this episode, Natalie discusses the role of the very critical parent and how it significantly influences our relationship with criticism and why boredom can be code for fear of having to spend time with our own thoughts and feelings. Here is the handy link to my post about dealing with criticism and conflict. http://bit.ly/18WVhY2 Email: podcast@baggagereclaim.com Instagram  |  Break The Cycle...

In this episode, Natalie explains what's behind the baffling behaviour of somebody who tells you that they're not interested yet they keep seeking attention from you, plus she talks about why "You complete me" grates on her and the importance of self-acceptance, what to do if you bump into your ex when you're No Contact, as well as sharing what she's learned this week. **Note** In the "You complet...