The Baddest Bitch in the Building

We're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant & constantly seeking social approval. The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want f...

We tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need...

Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization. One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing ot...

As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love." I'll discuss what's really happening to our brai...

This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping. We'll discuss: Why we can't simply ask for things outright The mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission &amp...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a w...

Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on 🌹seduction🌹 If you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy. We disc...

WE HIT LAW 2️⃣0️⃣!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, I’ve prepared a 2-part series for you on 🌹seduction🌹 If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you ❤️  In this episode, I’m going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you w...

I'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into: What morality even is How she's related to her evil, ugly step sisters (guilt, shame, and fear) Why morality a tool used to control women and convince us that we need to be good girls What to replace morality with Sabrina Carpenter and Sexyy Red (the duo no one asked for) as examples of w...

We've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! In this episode, we discuss: Why suppressing our demons actually makes us easy to manipulate How most women are...

I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like.  🍒 Follow Abigail on TikTok and Instagram , and check out her upcoming merch line here PS remember to take your birth control!! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define. In this episode, we discuss: How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves & try to conform An example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career) Why "I just want to be myself" and "I don't want to play gam...

I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you. We discuss: How to put your foot down and say "no" Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be reciprocated How to pla...

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💌 SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠THE BADDIE BRIEF,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays The difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser. In t...

Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode,Talia & I discuss: The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!) Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app) How these apps take women out of their feminine energ...

A big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because there’s so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play. But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahbla...

I'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President & CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of Langton PR - a public relations & creative agency in Toronto, Canada. Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and ev...

Some guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss: How being underestimated puts you in a position of power, which I guess is good because as women we're often underestimated The behaviours we need to unlearn so we can be more effective at contr...

I sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder & CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is. This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Reg...

We live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, let’s flip the script and work backwards. Let’s decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, we’re in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants. In this episode we’ll discuss: Why looks hold power & how being the centre of attent...

You asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. I’m answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories 💓 2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date? 2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated? 5:23 - The guy I’ve been casually seein...

If your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably.... As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business." In this episode, we'll discuss: Why we're conditioned to give aimlessly The dumbest currency society as told us we have to pay with...

Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, Why Men Love Bitches . The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me. The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Ak...

In order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc. I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE 💕 In this episode, we'l...