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📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here , shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file . Free preview available here . Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but it’s time we discu...

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📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Tomorrow is my 28th birthday & I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging. __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifet...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfi...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Have you ever wondered why every Abrahamic religion treats menstruating women as dirty and spiritually contaminated? That’s because religion took creation – something that’s uniquely feminine – and attributed it to a male god. And bec...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Have you ever wondered why someone ghosted you? I bet you felt pretty crappy afterward, and spent days thinking of something you said or did that pushed the person away. You probably replayed your interactions over and over again to s...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Society tells us the major “accomplishments” in a woman’s life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of what’s celebrated in women is about distracting us f...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Fun fact: Feminism is a response to patriarchy. Baddies welcome to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, How to Hack the Patriarchy. This one's from the introduction. Class is in sess...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Every time you tell yourself you're "hoping for the best" or you're "gonna see what happens," you're doing what the patriarchy wants you to do. You're relinquishing control and leaving your fate to what's out there. And let me remind...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . I'm sure you want people to do more for you, especially your partner. Maybe even your coworkers. Unfortunately, because most women are conditioned to perform constant emotional labour, there's a specific behaviour you need to stop if...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Your tendency to be realistic is robbing you of the future you deserve. From girlhood, most of us have been discouraged from being "too" ambitious because it violates the traditional trajectory of a woman's life: go to school, get a j...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Spoiled girls get whatever they want, while low maintenance girls get what they're given. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being spoiled — a spoiled woman is simply someone with a high sense of worth, who knows what she wants, an...

Patriarchy’s biggest fear: women’s choice. In episode 5 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover why choice is the real revolution—the one thing power can’t monetize. From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, it’s all a fight over the world’s most valuable resource: women. These syst...

Freedom looks different when you have to buy it. In episode 4 of my 5-part series on  patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership , we uncover how  capitalism rebranded servitude as female empowerment . From the post-Reagan era to the rise of influencer feminism, the system sold women “freedom” that still serves profit. While men have to make money to prove their worth, women are taugh...

Patriarchy wasn’t built to serve women — but it was never built to serve most men either. In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. That’s how they received their patriarchal dividends. When s...

The nuclear family wasn’t built for love – it was built for labour. In the second episode of my 5-part series on  patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership , we break down how the nuclear family became an economic machine  that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of  private property  to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was eng...

Patriarchy wasn’t born – it was built. In the first episode of my 5-part series on  patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership , we break down how  power, property, and control over women’s labor  built the world’s oldest system of domination – one that still shapes our lives today. This is the  blueprint of male power, the origin story patriarchy doesn’t want you to know. I...

📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me . Free preview available here . Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespe...

You're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect. In this episode, we discuss why the term "high value woman" is not only icky, but counterproductive. Like most things in this world, we can't do what men do and expect the same result. This also goes for labels men use to try and prove their worth. About the podcast: Pa...

We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss: The most valuable form of giving (that you're probably doing too much of) Why we've been condi...

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Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally. Lately, there’s been a wave of online “divine femininity” content that looks empowering at first… but it’s really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be “in our feminine” we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead,...

"People never do something just once" - Robert Greene There's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cult...

People pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in mental poverty , which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...