The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

Let's face it: relationships can be a source of great frustration. People do and say things that trigger intense reactions within us, and all too often, because we don't know how to handle those feelings, we react in ways that make it worse. We've all been there.   In this episode, Roy shares a talk given by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael Singer. In his down-to-earth, practical style, Mic...

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to "attract lasting love," yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you'll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, wh...

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to "attract lasting love," yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you'll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, wh...

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to "attract lasting love," yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you'll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, wh...

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to "attract lasting love," yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you'll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, wh...

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to "attract lasting love," yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you'll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, wh...

There are at least six issues that impact our ability to "attract lasting love," yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you'll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, whic...

We all say, "Happy New Year!" and we mean it. We truly want that. And truth be told, one of the things that would truly make it a happy new year is if we found our life partner this year. Well, that's what this podcast (and the six that follow) are all about.   Roy, our host, is going to offer the most practical, down-to-earth advice as is humanly possible. In fact, he's going to address topics he...

Who wants to have a lousy new year? Anyone? I didn't think so. And who wants to attract a new, healthy relationship in the new year? You do, right? I thought so.   Well, did you know that there is one single thing we must have (and it's hardly ever talked about) if we want a "happy new year" and a happy new relationship? What is it, you ask?   A clean slate.   We need to let go of any baggage, any...

We all know that having boundaries and setting boundaries is essential if we are to have healthy, enjoyable, relationships. There needs to be a clear line between ourselves and others, where we begin and they end, otherwise our relationships become controlling, co-dependence and enmeshed.   Yet the idea of setting boundaries terrifies most of us. We fear we won't be heard or that our desires will...

Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy.   In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five "Laws of Life & Love," showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don't, if misunderstand them or go against them, our relationships will n...

Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy.   In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five "Laws of Life & Love," showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don't, if misunderstand them or go against them, our relationships will n...

Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy.   In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five "Laws of Life & Love," showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don't, if misunderstand them or go against them, our relationships will n...

Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy.   In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five "Laws of Life & Love," showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don't, if misunderstand them or go against them, our relationships will n...

Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy.   In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five "Laws of Life & Love," showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don't, if misunderstand them or go against them, our relationships will n...

It's easy to become overwhelmed by all the relationship information that is available to us these days. There are literally thousands of relationship experts in the world and all of them seem to share their philosophies and perspectives via videos, blogs, books, summits, and podcasts. How are we supposed to make sense of it all? In our pursuit of intimacy, what should be focus on, and what should...

It's easy to become overwhelmed by all the relationship information that is available to us these days. There are literally thousands of relationship experts in the world and all of them seem to share their philosophies and perspectives via videos, blogs, books, summits, and podcasts. How are we supposed to make sense of it all? In our pursuit of intimacy, what should be focus on, and what should...

It's easy to become overwhelmed by all the relationship information that is available to us these days. There are literally thousands of relationship experts in the world and all of them seem to share their philosophies and perspectives via videos, blogs, books, summits, and podcasts. How are we supposed to make sense of it all? In our pursuit of intimacy, what should be focus on, and what should...

In this fiery yet playful episode, Roy gets some things off his chest. He rants about some general relational dynamics that drive him nuts, but then he goes after men, women, dating coaches, relationship podcasts, Hollywood, online summits—and even himself! No one is safe; no one gets a pass; everyone is taken to the woodshed… all in an effort to create healthier relationships.   Buckle your seat...

In this episode, Roy brings you a recorded talk by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael (Mickey) Singer. He is the author of the best spiritual/personal growth book ever written, The Untethered Soul.   In this talk, Mickey simplifies the essential commitment that leads to a life of well-being and fulfilling relationships. It's all about the moment-to-moment choice to be open in trust and accept...

Our adult lives can (arguably) be broken down into 3 phases: "Young Life" (25-40), Mid Life (40-60) and Old Life (60 +). Each of these phases have "Crisis Points"—unique emotional, professional and relational issues that are very difficult and challenging to navigate.   Living our best lives—and helping those around us do the same—means learning about each phase's unique challenges and how to cons...

Our adult lives can (arguably) be broken down into 3 phases: "Young Life" (25-40), Mid Life (40-60) and Old Life (60 +). Each of these phases have "Crisis Points"—unique emotional, professional and relational issues that are very difficult and challenging to navigate.   Living our best lives—and helping those around us do the same—means learning about each phase's unique challenges and how to cons...

Our adult lives can (arguably) be broken down into 3 phases: "Young Life" (25-40), Mid Life (40-60) and Old Life (60 +). Each of these phases have "Crisis Points"—unique emotional, professional and relational issues that are very difficult and challenging to navigate.   Living our best lives—and helping those around us do the same—means learning about each phase's unique challenges and how to cons...

All human beings have five core "wants." These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they're universal. They aren't bad or wrong, they're human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom.   Here's the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it's not because of what's happening on the surface, meaning, it's not...

All human beings have five core "wants." These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they're universal. They aren't bad or wrong, they're human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom.   Here's the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it's not because of what's happening on the surface, meaning, it's not...