The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

Most of us know how important it is to let go of our past and its pain. If we hold on to the past, we live with suspicion, projection, and worst of all, repetition (if we don't learn from the past, we're destined to repeat it).   Most of us want to release our baggage and experience the inner freedom it brings, but the problem is no one ever tells us how to do that!!!   Until now.   In this episod...

If you are interested in changing the trajectory of your love life—and after listening to the previous episode, how could you not be!—you are probably considering working directly with Roy. But because it's a big decision, you might be interested in hearing from someone who's "been there, done that."   Well, ask and you shall receive.   In this special episode, Roy interviews Lyla , a former clien...

This is probably the most important podcast Roy has ever recorded. Yes, on the surface it looks like he's simply promoting his coaching practice, but in reality, something much, much deeper takes place.   Roy is offering the solution to your disappointing love life. In fact, three major themes are addressed: (1) You want a great relationship with all of your heart, and you know it's possible; (2)...

Perhaps you've heard the phrase, "You just can't make this stuff up!" It speaks to how reality is often stranger than fiction. That is certainly true in our world today—have you been paying attention to politics in the U.S.?—but it's often equally true of our personal lives.   How do we respond (or how can we respond) when life is not unfolding the way we'd prefer? How do we handle reality, when r...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the last episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares the overarching com...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the sixth episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares the most powerful...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the fifth episode of a 7-part series, Roy reminds us that a beautif...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the fourth episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the third episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another great way...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the second episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another way to ru...

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants, or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the first episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the...

While it certainly isn't politically correct to speak of toxic femininity, it needs to be addressed because it's a real thing. Yes, feminine people are rarely toxic physically, especially when compared to masculine people, but they can, and often are, emotionally, psychologically, and verbally toxic.   So, building off the previous episode, Roy points out four counterfeit and toxic versions of the...

We are obsessed with superheroes. Whether it's Batman , Spider-Man, The Hulk , Thor , Captain America, or Iron Man , it seems we've always been fascinated by the Masculine superhero archetype.   But if there is a quintessential icon of masculinity, it's definitely Superman . For men, there's something about ripping open our shirts at the first sign of trouble and revealing a big red "S" on our che...

This series on spiritual awakening has been conceptual in nature so far, and rightly so. We need to understand what awakening is (and isn't).  We need to know what starts us on a true spiritual journey (and what doesn't), and we need a map that shows us how to get there. Those are some of the things that have been covered so far in this series.   But now that the conceptual foundation has been lai...

The path of awakening is a lot like following a trail to the summit of a mountain. First, we must decide if we want to climb "Mount Enlightenment" in the first place. If we do, we then need to find the trail head because that's when the fun begins. The trail is long, however, with many switchbacks and cliffs, so we need an experienced guide to show us the way to the top.   In this episode, Roy, ou...

Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, but it actually leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a life where the past is powerless, loneliness disappears, and drama ends.   In the third episode of this 5-part series, you'll not only learn that we all are suffering from a severe case of spiritual amnesia, but you'll also be taken through a simple process—a...

"Pain is a portal to profound spiritual growth," says our host, Roy Biancalana. He shares that there is a moment in every person's life, a dark-night-of-the-soul type moment, where we realize that the well from which we've been drinking is dry.   It's at this crucial moment that our spiritual journey CAN begin. We can recognize that our strategies for happiness haven't worked (and will never work)...

Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, one of abstaining and renunciation. They fear it means never having any fun and sitting on a cushion all day saying goofy words like, "Om" and "namaste".   But in this 5-part series, you'll learn that the opposite is true. In fact, our host, Roy Biancalana, says enlightenment leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a...

Roy is back with another epic rant! The first time Roy unloaded (episode #136), he ranted about things that drive a conscious relationship like himself insane.   In this episode, which might feel like someone waking you up out of a deep sleep by dumping a bucket of cold water on your head, Roy rants about 4 things that surprise and confuse him, things that just don't make sense. People say they wa...

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that's what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find "the middle way," or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren't.   So, in this episode, Roy discuss...

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that's what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find "the middle way," or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren't.   So, in this episode, Roy discuss...

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that's what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find "the middle way," or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren't.   So, in this episode, Roy discuss...

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that's what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find "the middle way," or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren't.   So, in this episode, Roy discuss...

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that's what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find "the middle way," or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren't.   So, in this episode, Roy discuss...

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that's what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find "the middle way," or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren't.   So, in this episode, Roy discuss...