The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.   In this, the last episode of the series, Roy talks about how to improve your people skills. Be...

We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.   In this, the fourth episode of the series, you will learn how to make decisions you won't regr...

We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.   In this, the third episode of the series, Roy invites you to make a big, bold statement toward...

We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.   In this, the second episode of the series, Roy challenges you to make the Enneagram of Persona...

We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.   In this, the first episode of the series, Roy share what it means to live life from your "zone...

Most of us approach a new year wanting it to be the best year of our lives. And while there may be many positive actions we can take to make that happen, the truth is most of us are holding ourselves back in some way.   In this episode, our host, Roy Biancalana, presents 10 questions that can help you identify what might be holding you back and keeping you from fully coming alive in '25.   Don't m...

You are probably familiar with Rudolph and his story.   Well, just imagine it's late afternoon on Christmas Eve and you're the Grinch, sitting at the North Pole Pub, having a cold one when a funny looking reindeer walks in and sits down next to you. You can tell he's dealing with something, and so against your better judgment, you ask the red-nosed freak, "What's going on? You seem like something...

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it's actually a crazy way to live and love.   Even though mindful wisdom delivers better results, you need to know what you're getting into if you're seeking a conscious relationship. So, this series explores 5 reasons you might want to reject the conscious perspective...

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it's actually a crazy way to live and love.   Even though mindful wisdom delivers better results, you need to know what you're getting into if you're seeking a conscious relationship. So, this series explores 5 reasons you might want to reject the conscious perspective...

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it's actually a crazy way to live and love.   Even though mindful wisdom delivers better results, you need to know what you're getting into if you're seeking a conscious relationship. So, this series explores 5 reasons you might want to reject the conscious perspective...

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it's actually a crazy way to live and love.   Even though mindful wisdom delivers better results, you need to know what you're getting into if you're seeking a conscious relationship. So, this series explores 5 reasons you might want to reject the conscious perspective...

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it's actually a crazy way to live and love.   Even though mindful wisdom delivers better results, you need to know what you're getting into if you're seeking a conscious relationship. So, this series explores 5 reasons you might want to reject the conscious perspective...

In this current podcast series, I've been using the analogy that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car.   There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There's the purchase phase, the maintenance phase and the selling phase. If you want a good experience with a car, you need to know how to navigate each of those phases, right?   It's the same with a relationship. There's the "purchase...

In this current podcast series, I've been using the analogy that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car.   There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There's the purchase phase, the maintenance phase and the selling phase. If you want a good experience with a car, you need to know how to navigate each of those phases, right?   It's the same with a relationship. There's the "purchase...

I got to thinking the other day—probably because I have too much time on my hands—that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car.   There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There's the purchase phase, the maintenance phase and the selling phase. If you want a good experience with a car, you need to know how to navigate each of those phases, right?   It's the same with a relationship....

The issue of "Trauma" brings up some very important questions, the first of which is, how do you know if you have Trauma (with a capital "T") or just basic baggage/pain from the past and its corresponding neurosis? The second question that comes up is, how do I deal with them? What processes, strategies or support do I need to find freedom from Trauma or basic baggage? These and other questions ar...

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, but in this, the final episode of the series, there's a big twist.   Instead of addressing another frequently asked question, as was the case in the previous four episodes, Roy addresses a question that single people should be asking, but usually don't.   In the final episode of the series, Roy put...

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I. is all the rage, a...

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I. is all the rage, a...

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the second question.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I. is all the rage,...

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, the most frequently asked question is addressed.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I....

Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple's therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. If any of those are occurring between two people, he's found that the relationship won't last.   And that makes sense, right? They are sort of obvious red flags.   But in this episode, Roy identifie...

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you've probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they will never get it from either Woman or World, and likewise, although feminine people crave love at their core, they too will never get it from either Man or World.   Because that is such an outrageous tr...

The host shares, quite candidly, that he's been struggling in his personal life. He talks about being in an angry, dark, whiney place and it hasn't been pretty, to put it mildly.   He explains that as he's paid attention to how shitty he's felt and why, it's become clear to him that he's been lied to. There is something no one's ever told him about the reality of life and relationships, and it's l...

This is part 2 of a 2-part series where Roy, the host, offers very practical, down-to-earth wisdom on how to let go of the past.   In the previous episode (#179), Roy discussed the first two steps to letting go. In this episode, he discusses the final 3 steps.   In this episode, you will learn… …the three most devasting results of not letting go; …the inner attitude that keeps the past alive and m...