The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

Those of us who listen to podcasts (or read books) are usually interested in learning, change and growth. It's in our nature. And yet, genuine, measurable growth, the kind that is clearly recognizable to us and everyone else around us, is rare at worst and slow at best. Why? Why is change and genuine growth so difficult and rare? Well, in part one of this three part series, our host, Roy Biancalan...

Those of us who listen to podcasts (or read books) are usually interested in learning, change and growth. It's in our nature. And yet, genuine, measurable growth, the kind that is clearly recognizable to us and everyone else around us, is rare at worst and slow at best. Why? Why is change and genuine growth so difficult and rare? In this episode, our host, Roy Biancalana, shares 3 unpopular  secre...

Compatibility is a critical component of successful, sustainable relationships, but in this episode, relationship expert, Roy Biancalana, explains that in one important sense, intimacy is actually better WITHOUT compatibility. We all know that "opposites attract," and on the surface, that seems like life is playing some sick joke on us. Wouldn't it be better to be instinctively attracted to someon...

Even though all men (and women) are different, there are qualities of the feminine that all men of depth find attractive and even irresistible. In this episode, Roy Biancalana not only describes the 6 qualities of a "radiant woman", but he discusses 4 ways women darken their radiance, which keeps them from being irresistible. Ladies, if you want a man to claim your heart and be devoted to you, ple...

Even though all women (and men) are different, there are qualities of the masculine that all women of depth find attractive and even irresistible. In this episode, Roy Biancalana describes 4 "kinds of men" that women do NOT want, but then he goes into great detail about the 4 qualities women crave and find irresistible in men. Guys, if women have been yawning rather than yearning for you, please l...

Our host, Roy Biancalana, feels that Michael Singer is the best, most down-to-earth spiritual teacher in the world today. However, Michael Singer doesn't do interviews. So, in this episode, you get the next best thing—a live talk given by Michael Singer at his facility in Florida. Roy has heard Singer speak live almost 100 times, and he feels that this talk offers the most complete description of...

Most people think that chemistry is obvious: either you're attracted to someone or you're not. But often, it's not that simple. In this episode, Roy Biancalana will help you understand the difference between Persona (Unhealthy) Chemistry vs. Polarity (healthy) Chemistry. Additionally, this podcast addresses questions like, "If you don't feel attracted to someone initially, can it grow over time?"...

Are you sick and tired of disappointing relationships that end in drama, discord or divorce? If so, then you might be ready to adopt what our host, Roy Biancalana, calls "The Dating Manifesto." It's a declaration to love and live according to 10 Conscious Commitments which have proven to create healthy, sustainable, intimate relationships. If you are interested in learning what it takes to create...

Are you sick and tired of disappointing relationships that end in drama, discord or divorce? If so, then you might be ready to adopt what our host, Roy Biancalana, calls "The Dating Manifesto." It's a declaration to love and live according to 10 Conscious Commitments which have proven to create healthy, sustainable, intimate relationships. If you are interested in learning what it takes to create...

Are you sick and tired of disappointing relationships that end in drama, discord or divorce? If so, then you might be ready to adopt what our host, Roy Biancalana, calls "The Dating Manifesto." It's a declaration to love and live according to 10 Conscious Commitments which have proven to create healthy, sustainable, intimate relationships. If you are interested in learning what it takes to create...

How do you know if someone is "The One"? Is there a "soulmate signature," a specific set of signs that tell you it's safe to go "all in" and completely give yourself to a relationship—whether that's living together or getting married? Our host, Roy Biancalana, says there is. In this powerful episode, he lays out 5 specific signs that indicate that you've found your soulmate. If you've had a tenden...

At the start of a new year (when this podcast originally dropped), many people make resolutions about losing weight. But most of us have made those resolutions before, and yet, here we are wanting to lose weight again. If you want to lose a few pounds, or if you've struggled with your weight, don't miss this podcast. The host, Roy Biancalana, share the mindful or conscious approach to weight loss...

Though the idea of open, non-monogamous relationships have been around for a long time, they are being talked about today more than ever.   In this episode, Roy Biancalana discusses everything from traditional monogamy to a variety of ethnically non-monogamous relationship types, including open relationships, polyamory, friends with benefits, swinging and one-night stands.   If you're curious abou...

Dating, especially in the digital age, can be a crazy, frustrating and confusing endeavor. Making intelligent dating decisions is not only an important part of attracting lasting love, it's critical to your sanity.   In this episode, relationship coach and #1 best-selling author, Roy Biancalana, shares insights on how to identify and deal with "red flag," "yellow flag" and "green flag" issues in t...

In this episode, Roy, the host, shares an audio clip from a live talk given by the world's leading expert on masculine/feminine dynamics, David Deida. David describes how the masculine shows up as "presence" and the feminine as "radiance," but more importantly, he shows how those expressions grow through three stages leading to healthy chemistry, long-term attraction and sexual polarity. As you pu...

Flirting is neither an art form, nor is it difficult, yet many are intimidated by the idea and feel they're not very good at it. No matter how long you've been out of the dating scene, there is no need to be confused or scared. In this episode, Roy points out that there are two ways to flirt: The Conventional Way and The Conscious Way. The first leads to short-term, game-playing connections, the l...

We all aspire to be people who help, give and show compassion to the people we care about, whether it's a friend, sibling, co-worker or an intimate partner. But sometimes it gets complicated. We can attract people who are hurting and in need of help only to find ourselves over functioning and creating co-dependence. Or we can offer compassion and help but wonder if we're actually enabling rather t...

Warning! — Your ego is going to hate this podcast, but if you want to attract lasting love, you need to listen to it. If you want to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship, there has to be "space" in your heart. No one else can be in there. Yet, it's not uncommon to have a former lover taking up space in your heart. Whether you are still in love with someone or hung up on them in so...

All relationships can be difficult, but long distance relationships present a unique type of challenge. In this episode, our host, Roy Biancalana, shares that there are a couple of crucial questions you have to ask yourself if you're in, or considering being in, a long distance relationship. Whether you live in a remote area and a long distance relationship is basically your only choice, or whethe...

Have you ever considered becoming a coach? No matter what kind of coach you may want to be (life coach, relationship coach, business coach, wellness coach, etc.) being a coach offers impact, independence and a great income.   In the episode, Roy Biancalana, the host and a certified relationship coach himself, shares all about his one-year coach training and certification program. (Yes, he coaches...

To one degree or another, we all have "baggage." Everyone has been hurt, betrayed, deceived, ghosted, gaslighted, lied to or disappointed.   That pain can cause us to build a wall around our hearts in an effort to protect us from further pain. But although those walls will keep us safe, they will also keep us single.   In this episode, the host, Roy Biancalana, shares how to let go of the past, op...

Michael Singer, the author of The Untethered Soul, is Roy's mentor from afar and his favorite spiritual teacher.   In this episode, Roy shares a recording of talk he heard Michael give in 2019 at The Temple of the Universe, Michael's home base, just outside Gainesville, Fl. It is filled with truth about "how to find love," and it's so powerful that Roy wanted you to hear it.   For info on Singer's...

In this episode, the host, Roy Biancalana, shares that people with a feminine essence seek a "soulmate," while people with a masculine essence seek a "teammate." Those are very different things.   A masculine person's priority is "his" mission, and so "he" seeks a teammate to support "his" success. And a feminine person's priority is the flow of love in "her" life, so "she" seeks a soulmate.   The...

One of the most powerful issues to explore in your love life is how your childhood and past experiences have affected and influenced your view of love, relationships and intimacy.   In this episode, relationship expert, #1 best-selling author and host, Roy Biancalana, shares how stories like, "love is pain," or "love is sacrifice," or "love is controlling," can sabotage our love lives and keep us...

If you are interested in personal development, real spirituality and great relationships, then you need to read what Roy (the host) believes are the 7 most important and powerful books ever written. He counts down from 7, sharing why each book made the list and he even reads a short excerpt from each book. It is worth noting that Roy's humility keeps him from putting any of his 3 books on the list...