The Art of Love With Lucia

A breakup is a breakup - whether it's with a lover, business relationship or your cable provider.  It always follows the same pattern.  Find out about dating/relationship expert Lucia's recent "breakup" and how it applies to the end of all relationships.

What should you do if you forgot your partner's birthday or they forgot yours?  Does it mean they don't care about you?  Should you break up with them over this?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do in this touchy situation.

This week's email is from a young man who is dating his aunt.  He claims they're in love and he's wondering how to handle the situation.  Dating/expert Lucia explains that this happens more often than you'd think and lets him know exactly what he needs to do.

What should a woman do if she begins to date a man and he tells her he's not interested in a relationship but is looking for "adut play".  Should she go along with it, hoping it will turn into something else?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets the record straight as to exactly how to handle this common situation.

This week's podcast is about a guy who has been in an on-again/off-again relationship for 4 years!  He says he treated his girlfriend like a queen and doesn't know why she keeps ending things.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the causes of this type of relationship and how to fix it.

This week's email is from a woman who is dating a man who said he is not dating anyone else.  However, she thinks he's seeing at least 2 other women.  Should she confront him with this information?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets her straight as to how to handle this situation.

What should you do if you're insecure, maybe even paranoid, that your partner is going to cheat?  Should you spy on them?  Should you confess your feelings?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to deal with this fear when it shows up in your love life.

What should you do when you want to date your personal trainer?  He's friendly and has long conversations with you at the gym and online, but isn't interested in dating you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this common situation.

This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to be unfaithful to her husband because although she's "happily married", she's not happy with their sex life.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia's  answer to this problem is one that will totally surprise you.

This week's email is from a woman whose boyfriend broke up with her and they are now in a FWB situation.  She wants to know how to make him "fall for her", since he is also sleeping with other women.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains that there is only one way to turn this around.

What does it mean when a woman you're dating tells you to "slow down"?  Is she playing hard to get or does it mean something else?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to make sure this is something you never hear again.

Should I ask him out?   Why would he show interest and then ghost me?  Why won't he date me if he likes me?  Should you tell your bf you cheated? How can you spot a player?  These are some of the 11 questions dating/relationship expert Lucia answers in less than 10 minutes.

What should you do if the guy you're into doesn't show any signs of being interested in you or they've already told you they're not interested?  Should you give up or is there anything you can do?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises 2 different women on what they need to do when it seems "he's just not that into you".

This week's email is from a woman who realized she did all the things dating/expert Lucia advised NOT to do when your partner leaves you.  Her husband has filed for divorce and she'd like to know if Lucia's advice on how to get an ex back will help her.  Find out what Lucia advises her to do if she wants her husband back.

What should you do if you've been dating a woman for 5 months but she still won't have sex with you?  Is she playing games, not interested or is something else going on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sheds light on the situation along with giving the solution.

This week's email is from a woman who's been dating a guy for 4 months and things seem to have changed.  Did she do something wrong or has he lost interest?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what is going on and what she can do about it.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a listener who wonders if her former boyfriend is a narcissist.  He wanted her to spend money on him but was unwilling to do the same.  Lucia explains what is going on and what the listener needs to do, now that she's pregnant with his baby.

Is it ever appropriate to beg your partner when they are breaking up with you?  As a follow up to last week's podcast, "How to Easily Get Your Ex Back" , dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never do it and what to do instead.

What should you do if someone breaks up with you?  Should you agree or beg them to stay?  What about the 30 day "no contact" rule?  Does that work?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get your ex back in 1 easy step.

Why did your ex break up with you?  Is it possible to find out the truth?  Can you move on without getting "closure"?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you don't need closure.

If you're having issues with your love life, should you see a psychiatrist, psychologist or a dating coach?  What can private coaching do for you?  Does it really help?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the value of using a dating coach.

Most women prefer alpha males but many people are confused as to what his traits really are. Is he the jerk who is rude and tries to control women?  What if you're a beta male?  Can you still attract high quality women?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia illustrates the differences between alpha and beta males and reveals what to do if you're a beta male.

What should a woman do when she has been dating and sleeping with a guy for 3 months without a title because he wants to take things "slow"?  Should she hang in there or walk away?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to resolve this very common situation.

How long should you wait to have sex with a new guy?  Is it okay to wait 3 months or should you do it sooner rather than later?  Dating/relationship Lucia explains exactly what you need to do if your goal is to have a committed relationship.

According to the FBI, an estimated 1 in 10 online, dating profiles are fake.  How can you spot a fake profile?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia points out what to look for to make sure you don't get your hopes up for someone you'll never meet.