The Art of Love With Lucia

We're all entitled to try to find a relationship that really works for us, and if you haven't found it yet, is it because you're too picky or maybe not picky enough?  Dating/relationship expert discusses what it means to be too picky and how to find the right person for you.

This week's podcast is from a man whose fiancee has left him twice and cheated on him 3 times, yet he wants her back.  Most people would advise him to move on, but dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this couple is a perfect match and what the issue is.

What should you do after an argument?  Should you contact your partner the next day to patch things up or wait for them to contact you?  What if you're always the one to extend the olive branch?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you absolutely must NOT do after a fight.

When does a woman know whether or not she'll have sex with a man?  How long does it take for her to make up her mind?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how soon a woman knows and what the exceptions are.

Do men have issues with women who make more money than they do?  What should you do if you're more financially successful than your partner and it's causing friction in your relationship.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses this issue that will become more common as women become more successful.

Everyone was shocked to learn that Angelina Jolie had filed for divorce from Brad Pitt.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what supposedly happened and what we can all learn from their relationship.

What does it mean when someone says they're "not sure what they want"?  Are they confused or is it an excuse to back away from you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what that often used phrase means and what you should do when you hear it.

Should you ever have "the talk" when you start dating someone?  If so, when is the right time to discuss exclusivity?  As usual, dating/relationship expert Lucia has a unique approach to this age old question that not everyone will agree with.

This week's podcast is about a woman who broke up with her boyfriend, but the break up could have been avoided if the woman had waited to do what she did until she was engaged.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what to do instead!

If you're not doing THIS in your relationship, you're at risk of a breakup.  You may think you're not doing anything wrong, but it's the kiss of death in a long term relationship.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what THIS is by using Vegas as the perfect example.

There is something that most women do which men wish they didn't do!  Are you guilty of this?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what to do instead so that men will find you more attractive.

In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a recent date to reveal the incompatibilities (also known as yellow flags and orange flags) that most people miss when they're on their first date.  Find out what some of the things you should be on the lookout for are.

What does it take to be successful with women online?  Is there an opening line that most women will respond to?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you need to know when you're approaching women online.

What should you do if your partner or the person you're dating starts to ignore you when you're together?  Should you tell them they're being rude?  Should you ignore them too?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals an easy and effective way to handle this situation and turn it around.

How do you know if what you're feeling is love or infatuation?  What are the signs that you're infatuated?  How do you know if it's real love?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the difference between these 2 polar opposite feelings.

Is it possible to know if the person you're dating is going to cheat?  Is there a foolproof way to know beforehand?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether there is and what you can do about it.

Is there ever a time when someone who is an otherwise a "good catch", someone that you should temporarily avoid?  If so, how long should you wait to date them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle the situation when you meet someone who is temporarily undateable.

Is it possible to know if someone is a player?  Is there something that all players do or say that reveals that they're not who you think they are?  Dating/expert Lucia reveals the #1 way to easily know if you're dealing with a player.

How does a woman get a man to commit?  What are the mistakes that women make in relationships that cause men to not want to commit?  Find out in this podcast where dating/relationship expert Lucia is intervewed by dating/relationship coach Alicia Ashley.

This week's podcast is about a guy who wants to get back with his ex, even though he broke up with her 3 times in the past!  Should he try or just give up and move on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, in this case, it's best to just move on.

In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia tells the story of how her cat Boo Boo helped her break up with someone first as a girlfriend and then as a friend.  Find out how your pets can help you decide who to date and why you shouldn't date someone you wouldn't trust to look after your furry friend.

What does it mean when someone breaks up with you and says, "it's not you, it's me"?  Is it true or does it mean something else?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the answer while responding to an email from a woman whose boyfriend has broken up with her.

Do you worry that if you say "No" to the people you're dating, that they won't like you anymore or that they'll leave?  Do you constantly put others' needs before yours?  You may be a "people pleaser".  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains where this personality trait comes from and how to start putting yourself first.

How do you keep the sex exciting in a long term relationship?  What are some common misconceptions people have about sex?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions and more in this upbeat interview with dating coach Devan Brown.

Is it ever a good idea to remain friends with an ex?  If so, under what circumstances?  A recent study shows that staying friends with an ex says something about your personality - and it's not flattering!  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, most of the time, you should not remain friends with an ex.