The Art of Love With Lucia

What should you do when your ex starts to like or comment on your social media posts?  Should you acknowledge it or ignore it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals that responding to your ex's sudden appearance actually breaks the "no contact" rule and makes it less likely for them to text/call you.

Is it possible to find love on Tinder or is it just for hookups? In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a woman who listened and implemented Lucia's dating strategies. She's now in a happy, loving relationship with a man she met on Tinder.

One of the most asked questions when someone wants to get their ex back is if their ex will forget about them if they don't contact them after the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually your ex who is going to be wondering if you've forgotten about them!

Is there a way to make someone fall for you so completely that they wouldn't ever dream of letting you go?  Yes, there is! In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why we need only look at Vegas to understand how to get someone "addicted" to you.

Happy New Year!  If you're like most single people, one of your resolutions is to find someone to share your life with.  If you're tired of "swiping apps", it's time to try something new! Happn is a dating app that's strictly location based.  With more than 40 million users,  you can find the people you've crossed paths with IN REAL LIFE.  When you cross paths with someone, their profile will appe...

A fake breakup is when someone breaks up with their partner in order to get his/her attention, but they don't really want to end things.  However, sometimes your ex will call your bluff and agree to the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you have to do in order for a fake breakup to work.

If you want to get your ex back, should you re-establish contact by texting them?  What should you say?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about why she's against most "advice" which tells you to text your ex.

Did you know that the 2 weeks before Christmas is the time of year when couples are most likely to end their relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this is and what you should do if you're thinking of breaking up with someone before Christmas or if you're the one who is broken up with.

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in your life, but it's essential if you want the best chance at getting back together.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through real comments and emails from people who have broken the "no contact" rule unsuccessfully.

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is difficult at best and impossible at worst.  In this inspirational podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads several more comments and emails from people who maintained "no contact" and ended up hearing back from their ex.

Is there a way to know if someone - be it a romantic interest, friend, colleague or family member - really likes you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals an easy and foolproof way to know how someone feels about you.

Whether you end the relationship or your partner breaks up with you, it's always painful.  What can you do to make this emotionally intense time more bearable?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses 5 ways to get over a breakup - #5 is unheard of and pushes the envelope.

What is the "law of attraction"?  Can you use it to get an ex back?  What's the most effective way to use the LOA?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, while it's possible to get an ex back with LOA, most people won't be able to do it.

Should you break "no contact" to wish your ex a happy birthday or to give them a holiday greeting?  Will contacting them make them want to get back with you again?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breaking "no contact" is rarely a good idea.

This week's podcast is the story of a woman who met a very eligible bachelor who was very into her but proceeded to ruin the relationship with her insecurity and anger.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides commentary throughout the reading of the email to point out where she went wrong and how to fix it.

Will giving flowers and gifts to your ex girlfriend make her want you back?  If not, why not?  In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia explains what you HAVE to do in order to get your ex girlfrfiend back (hint:  It doesn't involve flowers!)

If you're jealous, does it mean you're in love?  What does it say to your partner when you're jealous of someone in their life or someone they're talking to?  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never show jealousy and what to do instead.

Why do lovers often act crazy and make decisions that make no sense?  Are they under some kind of spell?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's happening and what you can do to stop the crazy behavior.

Should you be friends with your ex if you want to get back with them?  Absolutely not!  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why staying friends with your ex actually helps them move on and find someone else.

Is there something you can do that will make someone you meet or date realize that you could be "the one"?  Most people aren't doing "this" but it's extremely powerful.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you MUST do to make someone fall in love with you.

Will your ex forget about you if you don't contact them?  Will "no contact " work? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these and 3 more questions most people have about "no contact".

When it comes to dating & relationships, most people fall into 1 of 2 categories.  They either hold on too tightly or too loosely.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the lyrics "Hold on loosely, but don't let go" is great advice when it comes to your love life.

What should you do if you find out your partner is flirtexting with members of the opposite sex?  What does it mean if they get defensive and only focus on the fact that you invaded their privacy?  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to deal with this situation when they won't tell you the truth.

What should you say when the person you've recently started dating tells you they're going back with their ex?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, if you'd like to have the possibility of dating them in the future, you should handle this situation with class.

What should you do when your partner unexpectedly moves out, says you're still a couple yet barely sees you or talks to you?  In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia answers an email from a woman who wonders what she should do in this situation.