The Art of Love With Lucia

If you're trying to get your ex back and doing no contact, you will probably slip up at least once. That's because dealing with a breakup is very similar to a drug addict trying to get off drugs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's important that you stick to no contact and what to do when you break it.

If you've been trying to get back with your ex but it still hasn't happened, you may be wondering whether you should just move on.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this isn't the question you should be asking yourself and what you really mean when you ask that question.

There's a certain phenomenon that often happens when you're in no contact and hoping to hear from your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you are most likely to hear from you ex, other than 6-8 weeks after the point of last contact.

When your ex broke up with you, they felt they had a good reason, even if you don't agree.  It was based on something(s) you said/didn't say or did/didn't do. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how putting yourself in your ex's shoes and seeing things from their point of view will be helpful in getting them back.

In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a guy who met a woman online. Things got hot and heavy quickly, but within a week she was pulling away. Lucia explains what he did wrong and what he should have done to keep the fire burning.

What is a text stalker? What makes someone continue to send texts when the other person isn't responding? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a woman who continues to text her ex, even though he told her it's over and he's not returning her texts.

Spring cleaning, spring break, spring fever and sadly, peak breakup season is coming up. Besides the 2 weeks before Christmas, spring is the other time of the year when a breakup is likely to occur. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to avoid and prepare for a possible breakup.

Your ex has finally contacted you after you did no contact!  You text/chat for a few days and then they go cold.  What's going on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the next move to make when your ex ghosts you after reaching out.

If you're trying to get your ex back and decide to break no contact, you need to at least have a good reason for contacting them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why most people go wrong when they contact an ex and what to say to increase your chances of getting a response.

The #1 question that everyone who wants their ex back asks is, "Will my ex come back?" The answer to this depends on many things, including your ex's interest level when they broke up with you. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the most important factor in whether your ex comes back is how YOU behave after the break up.

People trying to get an ex back often break the "no contact" rule without knowing it. Once you break it, you have to start "the count" all over again and go back to zero. In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the small ways in which you may be breaking no contact.

What should you do if your partner tells you they want to meet up with their ex?  Should you forbid them, break up with them or have a fight?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what to say in this situation so that no matter what happens, you'll remain a high-value partner.

What should you do when your ex starts to like or comment on your social media posts?  Should you acknowledge it or ignore it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals that responding to your ex's sudden appearance actually breaks the "no contact" rule and makes it less likely for them to text/call you.

Is it possible to find love on Tinder or is it just for hookups? In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a woman who listened and implemented Lucia's dating strategies. She's now in a happy, loving relationship with a man she met on Tinder.

One of the most asked questions when someone wants to get their ex back is if their ex will forget about them if they don't contact them after the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually your ex who is going to be wondering if you've forgotten about them!

Is there a way to make someone fall for you so completely that they wouldn't ever dream of letting you go?  Yes, there is! In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why we need only look at Vegas to understand how to get someone "addicted" to you.

Happy New Year!  If you're like most single people, one of your resolutions is to find someone to share your life with.  If you're tired of "swiping apps", it's time to try something new! Happn is a dating app that's strictly location based.  With more than 40 million users,  you can find the people you've crossed paths with IN REAL LIFE.  When you cross paths with someone, their profile will appe...

A fake breakup is when someone breaks up with their partner in order to get his/her attention, but they don't really want to end things.  However, sometimes your ex will call your bluff and agree to the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you have to do in order for a fake breakup to work.

If you want to get your ex back, should you re-establish contact by texting them?  What should you say?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about why she's against most "advice" which tells you to text your ex.

Did you know that the 2 weeks before Christmas is the time of year when couples are most likely to end their relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this is and what you should do if you're thinking of breaking up with someone before Christmas or if you're the one who is broken up with.

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in your life, but it's essential if you want the best chance at getting back together.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through real comments and emails from people who have broken the "no contact" rule unsuccessfully.

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is difficult at best and impossible at worst.  In this inspirational podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads several more comments and emails from people who maintained "no contact" and ended up hearing back from their ex.

Is there a way to know if someone - be it a romantic interest, friend, colleague or family member - really likes you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals an easy and foolproof way to know how someone feels about you.

Whether you end the relationship or your partner breaks up with you, it's always painful.  What can you do to make this emotionally intense time more bearable?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses 5 ways to get over a breakup - #5 is unheard of and pushes the envelope.

What is the "law of attraction"?  Can you use it to get an ex back?  What's the most effective way to use the LOA?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, while it's possible to get an ex back with LOA, most people won't be able to do it.