The Art of Love With Lucia

If you've been doing no contact and you feel that you're at the breaking point and you want to reach out to your ex, listen to this video first. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story from someone who didn't believe they would hear from their ex but eventually their ex called.

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back and still haven't heard from them, you're probably wondering if it's working. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 5 ways to know that you're not wasting your time and no contact is working.

No Contact is very effective when someone has broken up with you and you want them back. But will it work in other situations? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a woman who wonders if no contact will work in her situation.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you already know that it's difficult to maintain. However, there are 3 situations when it will be more difficult than normal. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what those 3 times are and how to deal with them.

When someone breaks up with you, you rightly assume they want nothing more to do with you. That's why it's so confusing when you see that they're still viewing your snaps or IG stories. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what this REALLY means and why you shouldn't assume your ex wants to get back together.

If you begged and pleaded when your ex broke up with you, will no contact still work for you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's never too late to start no contact.

A woman who finally got closure almost 35 years after a guy ghosted her, shares her inspiring story of how the break up probably led to her becoming a millionaire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you can't always blame yourself when someone breaks up with you without giving you a reason.

Did your ex contact you and then pull away when you responded? What's going on? Are they playing games or regretting their decision? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's happening with your ex when they send mixed signals by being hot and cold and how to handle this frustrating situation.

A dating "expert" is telling men that no contact doesn't work on women. Once they're gone, you can't get them back with no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether no contact works on women and reveals the truth.

If you're doing no contact to get an ex back, at some point you'll start to worry that if you don't reach out to your ex, they will move on with someone else. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why reaching out is a bad idea and what to do instead.

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you may be wondering if your situation is the exception and if you should break it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 exceptions to the no contact rule and when you should break it.

When someone breaks up with us, our first instinct is usually to try to talk them out of it using logic, but this rarely, if ever works. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you can't talk someone out of breaking up with you and what to do instead.

If you're doing no contact in order to get your ex back, there's a good chance your ex may try to get you to break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 6 tricks your ex may use to get you to reach out first.

One of the most asked questions when someone has been broken up with is, "When will my ex contact me?" Believe it or not, the answer to that question usually depends on you and what you do after the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through the factors that determine if and when you'll hear back from your ex.

If you are doing "no contact" in order to get your ex back, you may think you're doing it correctly if you're not calling or texting your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 3 ways you may unknowingly be breaking no contact and hurting your chances of getting your ex back.

If you're trying to get your ex back and you're doing no contact, your ex may get an attitude when they see that you're not responding to their texts/calls.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you can't let your ex push you around if you're trying to get them back.

If you've been trying to get your ex back with flowers and gifts, save your money.  It won't work!  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why bribing your ex won't work and what to do instead.

One question that everyone who has been dumped asks is, "What is my ex thinking?"  However, no one except your ex can every really know what they are thinking.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this isn't what you should be focusing on during no contact and what to focus on instead.

What should you do if you're in no contact and your ex calls but you miss the call and they didn't leave a message? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you should not answer the phone if an ex you want to get back with, calls you.

Do you love your ex?  Do you want them back?  In this cutting edge podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't really love your ex if you want to get back with them.

If you're trying to get your ex back, but they insist on trying to be friends with you while you're trying to do no contact, what should you do?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to comments from 2 guys who are letting their ex's push them around and explains why this will only drive the ex's away even more.

What are the signs that someone is pulling away? Are you about to get dumped? Find out 10 signs to look for. You're not going to like #10! Dating/relationship expert Lucia also reveals the 5 options you have to stop someone from dumping you. You probably won't want to do #5!

Trying to get reassurance from your partner that they'll always love you and never leave you is not attractive and lowers interest level.  Being needy and insecure often leads to your partner breaking up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get the security you crave in a relationship and stop obsessing over your ex.

If you want to get your ex back and you've been doing "no contact", there's a very good chance that you'll hear from your ex sooner or later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you probably shouldn't respond to the first message and what to do instead.

What should you do if your ex is dating someone new and you want them back?  Should you accept that they've moved on and move on yourself?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't have to worry if your ex is dating someone new and how to deal with the situation.