The Angry Therapist

The Angry Therapist Podcast

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Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me. Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.

Author

The Angry Therapist

Category

Health

Podcast website

www.theangrytherapist.com

Latest episode

Jul 8, 2026

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Episodes

It's Not Me, It's You: What's Your Most Recent Revelation? 31.01.2022

In this episode, John and Vanessa share what their most recent revelations are. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Pulling Yourself Out Of The Trenches 28.01.2022

In this episode, John gives advice on how to pull yourself out of the trenches. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapis...

Tips On Holding On When You See The Island 26.01.2022

In this episode, John gives his tips and examples on how to hold on and push through when you see the island. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docum...

It's Not Me, It's You: Navigating Growth and Differences 24.01.2022

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss ways to approach communicating your needs and desires with a partner. They also examine their still forming thoughts about balancing feminine and masculine energies through introspection, ownership and self-awareness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dad Life Series 21.01.2022

In this episode, John shares some stories and revelations around raising a child in today's world. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his jo...

Single On Purpose: Treat Your Mind Better 19.01.2022

In this episode, John pulls from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about how to treat your mind better. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docum...

These Two R's Will Change Your Life 14.01.2022

In this episode, John talks about the importance of rewiring and processing your old residue. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey...

Relationship Better 12.01.2022

In this episode, John talks about how to push yourself out of your comfort zone and be "relationships better." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's Not Me, It's You: Fantasizing About Others 10.01.2022

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss how fantasy and jealousy can present themselves in relationships, and where the line between healthy and not healthy can be drawn for both. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up? 05.01.2022

In this episode, John tackles and discusses an important question everyone is asked: what do you want to be when you grow up? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtai...

It's Not Me, It's You: Letters to Our Exes 03.01.2022

In this episode, John and Vanessa share letters that they've written to their partners of the past. They discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in their partnership today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Year in Review 31.12.2021

In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and docu...

It's Not Me, It's You: Equality in Partnerships 27.12.2021

In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoice...

I Think My Partner Is Having An Emotional Affair 24.12.2021

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on a listeners question: what do I do when I think my partner is having an emotional affair? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pu...

The New Generation of Crossfitters 22.12.2021

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions...

Nervous System vs Soul 17.12.2021

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back an...

I Can't Stop Thinking About My Toxic Ex 15.12.2021

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?" Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a...

It's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are a Two-Way Street 13.12.2021

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoi...

It's Not Me, It's You: Our Top 3 Relationship Killers 06.12.2021

In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don’t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I Got Into A Fight 03.12.2021

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his...

Four Ways To Stay Attracted To Your Partner 01.12.2021

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back an...

It's Not Me, It's You: Two Types of Desire 29.11.2021

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if...

My First EFT Session 26.11.2021

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his jo...

No BS With Nicholas Gonzalez 24.11.2021

In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's Not Me, It's You: Love and Money 22.11.2021

Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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