The Alexis Perspective

After an unexpected week off (thanks to being sick), I’m back — barely, but back! This episode is less of a hot take and more of a catch-up. I’m filling you in on how I’ve been feeling, trying to bounce back into my routine, and what it’s been like juggling recovery and work life. It’s a little messy, a little tired, but very real. If you’ve ever felt behind and out of rhythm, this one’s for you.

It’s a birthday  After Hours  — and I’m feeling all the feelings. I just turned 29, and in true Alexis fashion, I’m processing it all out loud: the pressure, the reflection, the growth, and a little bit of chaos too. I also spill some tea on work life at the country club, my recent promotion (!), and what it’s like stepping into new roles while still trying to keep it cute and collected. This one’...

This week on  Ask Alexis , we're getting into some real ones. From friendships getting weird after a promotion, to boyfriends telling little white lies, to the ghost who just won't stay gone — I'm unpacking it all. I also weigh in on the casual guy who's still tangled up with his ex (yikes) and chat about that all-too-relatable feeling of not having “your people” in your late 20s....

This week, I’m talking about something that’s been sitting heavy for a lot of us — adult loneliness. From fading friendships to feeling disconnected in a crowded room, I’m breaking down what it really feels like to be grown and still lonely sometimes. I’m sharing my own thoughts, some personal stories, and even a few facts that prove you’re not the only one feeling this way (even if it feels like...

It’s Friday, it’s late(ish), and I’m just here talking — truly no outline, no plan, just vibes. This week’s Alexis After Hours includes some work updates, a new friendship in the making, and honestly... whatever else my mouth decided to run with. If you’re looking for something chill, real, and slightly unhinged — you’re in the right place. Make sure you’re following the show on Instagram  @theale...

Another week, another inbox full of drama… and you already know I’m diving headfirst into it. From finding flirty Venmo payments to navigating sister-ex betrayals, post-grad job regrets, invisible girlfriend syndrome, and messy friend-hookups gone sideways — this week’s Ask Alexis is a full buffet of real-life chaos. I’m giving my unsolicited (but always honest) advice, so grab a snack, press play...

In this week’s episode of  The Alexis Perspective , I’m unpacking a recent situation at work and sharing my take on why staying out of the drama is always the move — even when it’s hard. We’re talking boundaries, maturity, and why you’ll never catch me stirring the pot in the break room. Plus, I take a little detour into my current relationship with nicotine (oops), and as always, we kick things o...

It’s the night before the 4th, I’m running on fumes, short on time, and trying to make dreams happen — literally and figuratively. In this slightly chaotic, not-my-best-but-we’re-here episode of  Alexis After Hours , I talk about vivid dreams returning after cutting back on Mary Jane, being stretched thin with work, and still showing up to get an episode out. Sometimes showing up is the win — and...

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for another round of  Ask Alexis  — the segment where I give unsolicited advice to very real listener dilemmas. This week we’re covering everything from awkward dating overlaps to friendship fallouts, questionable bridesmaid drama, and more. Tune in as I try to solve your problems with absolutely zero qualifications — just vibes and big opinions. Don’t forget...

I’m tired, y’all. In this episode, I’m giving you the raw, unfiltered truth about working in the service industry—from the country club chaos to the guests who forgot how to act right. I’m sharing a few quick story times, a much-needed Hot Tip on why you should  always  be kind to your server or bartender, and reflecting on what it really feels like to deal with entitled energy on the clock. Short...

It’s Friday, which means it’s time to kick back and let it rip on  Alexis After Hours . This week, I’m ranting, raving, and rambling through some workplace drama, a few too-real country club moments, and whatever else decided to pop into my brain. If you’re here for the unfiltered chaos and the stories I probably  shouldn’t  be telling—this one’s for you. Rate, share, and send to a friend who love...

This week on  Ask Alexis , we’re diving into all the mess: exes who won’t log off, shady coworkers, situationships that should’ve expired months ago, and friends with  questionable  fiancés. I’m giving you my honest take on how to handle weird vibes, backhanded moves, and full-on red flags. As always, if you’ve got a question, a dilemma, or just need someone to say what you’re already thinking—sub...

This Monday, I’m giving  The Alexis Perspective  on the ever-elusive concept of work-life balance. Is it real? Is it a scam? Or is it something we’ve just been conditioned to chase without ever actually achieving? I talk about the guilt of doing “too little,” the glorification of hustle culture, and how I’m personally trying to navigate balance while starting a brand-new job. If you’ve ever felt l...

It’s Friday, and you know what that means — it’s time for  Alexis After Hours . This week, I’m recapping my first week at the new job, spiraling a little over the Titan submersible again (because how could I not), and letting my thoughts wander wherever they want. Nothing scripted, nothing polished — just vibes. Hit play, hang out with me, and don’t forget to follow the pod on Instagram @thealexis...

This week on  Ask Alexis , we’re getting into it, from what to do when your friend is dating someone shady, to setting boundaries with a controlling sibling, and even a spicy confession from someone who can’t help but be tempted by taken men 👀 As always, I’m giving you my honest take, no fluff, no filter. Got a question? Need advice? Head over to Instagram @thealexis_perspective and send it my wa...

his week on  The Alexis Perspective , I’m sharing something a little different. Not a story, not a confession — just the quiet truth of what it feels like to hold something too heavy to share. In this episode, I talk about anxiety, survival-mode mornings, the guilt of being helped, and the ache of wanting to say more than you can. If you’re navigating something silently right now… this one’s for y...

It’s Friday, and we’re going completely off-script — as we do. In this  Alexis After Hours  episode, I’m spiraling (in the best way) through thoughts on  Ginny & Georgia , why tattletales need to be stopped, and somehow... we end up at the Great Potato Famine? This one’s messy, cozy, and definitely not your average Friday night chat. Pour yourself something, press play, and come hang out with...

We’re back with another  Ask Alexis  — your weekly advice column in podcast form. In this episode, I’m diving into your questions about flaky friends, and how to know when to walk away from a messy "situationship." I also weigh in on the girl who’s stuck between being the cool girlfriend and a doormat — spoiler: you don’t need to be either. Got a situation of your own? Slide into the DMs...

In today’s episode of  The Alexis Perspective , I’m breaking down the high cost of beauty — literally. From $130 haircuts to endless upcharges, I’m giving my unfiltered take on what’s going on in the salon industry and why I think we should be asking more questions. Is the price worth the service? Are we being upsold into oblivion? Let’s talk about the pressure to keep up, the value (or lack there...

It’s Friday, which means it’s time to unwind with a little rant, a little rave, and a whole lot of perspective. In this episode, I’m chatting about the chaos of taking a drug test, getting in the mindset for a brand new job, and yes… a little pay pig moment because why not? Tap in for a late-night dose of real talk, random thoughts, and me being exactly who I am. Follow along on IG/TikTok   @theal...

It’s time for another round of  Ask Alexis , where no question is too spicy, too awkward, or too honest. This week, I’m giving my unfiltered advice on everything from navigating messy friendships to decoding confusing guy behavior, plus a few laughs (and eye-rolls) along the way. You asked, I answered — now let’s get into it. 💬 Got something you want me to weigh in on? DM me on Instagram  @theale...

In this episode of  The Alexis Perspective , I’m giving my hot take on why I fully believe couples should have separate bedrooms — or at the very least, their own personal spaces. I’m breaking down why constant closeness isn’t always healthy, how space can actually  strengthen  a relationship, and why the idea that true love = 24/7 togetherness might be doing more harm than good. Whether you agree...

It’s Friday night and you already know the vibes — welcome back to  Alexis After Hours , where things are a little less structured and a lot more unfiltered. In this episode, I’m catching you up on the latest tea, sharing my weekly rant  and rave, and reflecting on some behind-the-scenes realness. If you’re into late-night thoughts, hot takes, and a little peek into my brain post-9PM, this one’s f...

We’re back with another Ask Alexis — your midweek advice column in podcast form. This week, I’m answering your juiciest, messiest, and most relatable questions, from dealing with friendship breakups to navigating a confusing almost-something situation. You already know I’m not holding back. Need advice or just love hearing someone else’s drama? You’re in the right place. ✨ Got a question for a fu...

This episode is a bit of a reset. I’m checking in, catching you up, and sharing a few changes coming to  The Alexis Perspective . If you’ve been tuning in, thank you — seriously. This one’s more laid-back, but still full of honesty, updates, and where I see things going next. Think of it as a little Memorial Day catch-up chat between me and you. Let me know what you think, and follow along on Inst...