The Alexis Perspective

This week we're keeping it light and having some fun! I'm answering a bunch of "Would You Rather?" questions, from impossible life choices to travel, dating, money, food, and completely random scenarios. Some were surprisingly easy, others had me questioning everything. 😂 As you're listening, play along and keep track of your own answers! Then come find me on Instagram and l...

Remember The Coach? Yeah... somehow the story got even worse. In today's episode I'm spilling the tea on the absolute wildest plot twist I've ever experienced while dating. Just when I thought I'd finally put this chapter behind me, I found out something that made my jaw hit the floor. We're talking red flags, lies, fake accounts, and the kind of story that sounds made up—but u...

🍒 Welcome back to The Alexis Perspective 🍒 This week's Ask Alexis covers everything from mixed signals and situationships to the difference between intuition and anxiety. We're talking about why we tend to romanticize people who never fully choose us, how long is too long to wait for someone, and what happens when your heart and your logic are arguing with each other. Grab your coffee, t...

✨ Welcome back to another episode of  The Alexis Perspective . In this episode, we're diving into the science behind heartbreak and why breakups impact so much more than just your emotions. From nervous system dysregulation and attachment bonds to dopamine withdrawal and physical symptoms, we're exploring what's actually happening in your brain and body when you lose someone you love....

WELCOME BACK CHERRY CREW!

the title says it all.

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , I’m catching you up on a few recent life moments that spiraled way more than they ever should have. What started as normal, everyday plans somehow turned into stories I definitely didn’t see coming. I also sprinkle in some pop-culture thoughts and random tangents along the way. It’s real life, a little chaotic, and very much an ‘it escalated quickly’ kind of...

This episode is a little all over the place… which honestly feels very on theme lately. I’m catching you up on why last week’s episode never made it out, talking about trying (and failing) to be more organized, sharing updates on my new job, the coach situation, and the very real possibility of me becoming a yoga teacher. We also get into impulsive decisions (yes, I cut my own bangs), life transit...

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , we’re back after a three-week break — Christmas, New Year’s, and getting sick all at once really took me out. I’m catching you up on everything: the highs and lows of 2025, what I want 2026 to look like, where I’m hoping to take the podcast next, and yes… the latest update on the coach because we are  still  seeing each other. I also get into wanting to quit...

This week’s  Ask Alexis  comes with a little coach update — because of course it does — plus a mix of listener questions about dating slow movers, navigating friendships that shift when someone gets into a relationship, and what it really means to grow into a new version of yourself. It’s honest, thoughtful, and very much an Alexis-style deep dive into love, life, and everything in between.

This one’s a little messy in the best way — I get into the new Diddy documentary 50 Cent produced, some beauty products I’ve been loving/not loving, the chaos of the beauty industry, angel trees, the coach, and then about six side tangents that just happened. It’s giving  we’re on FaceTime , it’s giving  yap with me,  it’s giving  the brain is braining.

This week’s  Ask Alexis  dives into a little bit of everything — mixed signals in dating, navigating friendships when everyone else is coupled up, figuring out if chemistry can grow, and learning how to say no without guilt when your social battery crashes. It’s honest, relatable, and the advice you didn’t know you needed. Grab a drink and let’s get into it.

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , I’m catching you up on everything — from dating the coach to dealing with toxic exes who still somehow find ways to be chaotic. I get into Thanksgiving vibes, spending the holidays alone, my thoughts on  Wicked , and a whole lot of relationship ranting. It’s one of those cozy, free-balling episodes where I’m just talking through life, love, and whatever else...

This week’s  Ask Alexis  is back and we’re diving into a mix of everything — dating mixed signals, feeling left out in friendships, burnout at work, family boundaries, and those ‘what am I even doing with my life?’ growing pains. It’s honest, relatable, and the advice we all need when adulthood feels a little confusing. Grab a drink and let’s talk about it.

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , I’m giving an update on the guy I’ve been seeing — aka  the coach  — before diving into some totally random (but important) topics like lavender marriages, Christmas decor, and the chaos of the upcoming holidays. I also get into that viral TikTok story about a girl leaving her friend stranded in Jamaica because she couldn’t afford her flight… yeah, we need to...

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , we’re catching up on everything — from the guy I’ve been on two (going on three) dates with, to watching all three  Fifty Shades of Grey  movies, to my thoughts on holiday season chaos and Christmas decorations popping up everywhere. It’s a cozy, chatty episode full of dating updates, random thoughts, and classic Alexis yapping energy.

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , we’re all over the place in the best way. I talk about Labubus (obviously), some TV shows I’ve been watching, the documentary  The Perfect Neighbor , and hurricane Melissa. Then we get into a little bit of a hot take zone from mandatory donations (and why that’s kind of messed up) to the big question: would you stop being friends with someone if they cheated...

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , we’re covering a little bit of everything — from the Louvre getting robbed, to that viral DoorDash driver TikTok story that turned out to be fake, to Skims’ new  bush  underwear (yes, really). Then we round it out with some life talk about work, burnout, and giving yourself a little grace when you need it most. It’s a chaotic mix of pop culture and perspectiv...

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , we’re covering it all . Boys, relationships, and why bachelorette parties and weddings have officially gotten  out of control . I also talk about the importance of rest (especially when you’re feeling run-down), and of course, my latest TV obsession:  The Way Home . It’s a cozy, chatty episode with a little bit of everything. Grab your tea, take a breath, and...

This week’s  Ask Alexis  is a good one — we’re diving into low-effort men, drifting friendships, feeling lost in your 20s, and the emotional mess that is the situationship era. Plus, we’re talking about those weird energy waves we all go through when life feels like a mix of chaos and calm. It’s honest, relatable, and exactly the reminder you might need this week. IG: @thealexis_perspective

In this week’s  Alexis After Hours , I’m just yapping away about life, being in my 20s, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way. Think of it as a late-night chat where I share what’s on my mind, the truths I’ve picked up, and some perspective on navigating this wild stage of life. Grab a cozy drink and hang out with me for a heart-to-heart.

This week’s  Midweek Crisis  is all about low-effort dates…and the low-effort men behind them. From coffee ‘dates’ that feel more like interviews to the classic ‘you up?’ text, we’re unpacking why so many men think the bare minimum is enough—and why we shouldn’t settle for it. If you’ve ever found yourself asking,  ‘is this really all he can do?’  this one’s for you.

This week I’m joined by my friend Ally for a fun, unfiltered conversation about…well, pretty much everything. From boys to girl time, life, work, and all the little things in between, this episode feels like hanging out with your best friends on the couch. Grab a coffee (or a glass of wine) and come join the girl talk!

In this  Alexis After Hours  episode, we’re diving deep into the mystical world of the North and South Nodes — the points in your chart that reveal your soul’s past and where you’re meant to grow. 🌙 I’ll break down what the Nodes really are, why they matter, and how each axis shows the tug-of-war between your comfort zone and your soul’s destiny. Plus, we’ll talk about how the  houses  give even...

This week’s  Ask Alexis  is serving up all the vibes — we’re diving into ghosting, flaky friendships, awkward birthday dinner bills, coworkers with power trips, and even building the perfect dating app feature (because honestly, the apps need help). I’m giving you my unfiltered perspective, a little tough love, and of course, some laughs along the way. IG: @thealexis_perspective