The Alexis Perspective

Starting over is messy, scary, and sometimes the last thing we want to do—but it’s also where the magic happens. In this episode, I share my perspective on what it really means to start fresh, the hard emotions that come with it, and why letting go can be one of the most powerful things we ever do. From the fears and doubts to the unexpected freedom of new beginnings, we’re diving into the reality...

This week’s  Alexis After Hours  is pure chaos in the best way. I kick things off with a tarot pull, spiral a little (because… hello, 29 crisis), and get into what it feels like not knowing what the hell I’m doing. Then I lighten it up with some Hinge talk — including the pick-up lines I’ve been using on a cute boy 👀. Oh, and yes… there was a chicken parm break mid-episode. It’s a ride, but that’...

We are nearly 30, and we are spiraling. Welcome to The Alexis Perspective. IG: @thealexis_perpsective

This week I’m diving into one of the hardest but most necessary things we all face. Letting go. Whether it’s a person, an expectation, or just the version of life you thought you’d have, letting go is never simple. I talk about why it feels so impossible, what science says about why we hold on, and why choosing to release can actually free us in ways we don’t realize. I also share some thoughts on...

This week’s  Alexis After Hours  is all over the place in the best way — a little catch up, some thoughts on Labubus, and of course my latest random obsessions. It’s chill, chatty, and very “come hang out with me after dark” vibes. ✨ Follow along on Instagram  @thealexis_perspective  for more!

This week on  Ask Alexis , we’re covering it all — from messy boy drama and workplace friendships, to the struggles of balancing confidence with insecurity. I also dive into how to deal with flaky friends and share my take on dating someone with different values. It’s a mix of advice, perspective, and a little bit of real talk you didn’t know you needed. ✨ Don’t forget to follow along on Instagra...

This week on  The Alexis Perspective , I’m unpacking what it feels like to get “cancelled” — and how PMDD played a much bigger role in my story than I even realized at first. I open up about losing my job, the fallout of feeling like people were trying to ruin my life, and how living with PMDD shapes the way I think, act, and process everything around me. If you’ve ever felt like two different ver...

The sky turns red tonight under a powerful Blood Moon. In this bonus episode, I explore the spiritual and astrological meaning of this eclipse, how it connects to my personal journey, and how scripture has unexpectedly woven into my reflections. I’ll also share what I’m doing to honor the full moon energy—and invite you to craft your own ritual for release and renewal.

This week’s After Hours is raw and heavy — I’m unpacking the final piece of the puzzle about getting fired and the shocking betrayal that came with it. I share what I’ve learned, how it hit me, and the messy emotions that come with realizing just how deep it all went. Of course, in true me fashion, I veer off into a few side rants here and there, but mostly it’s me being real about where I’m at an...

This week’s episode is a little different, Cherry Crew. Instead of “Ask Alexis,” I’m giving you a real-time life update — I’ve been fired from my job. I open up about what happened, how I’m processing it, and the whirlwind of emotions that come with sudden change. I also pull up my birth chart to see if the stars can offer me any clarity or perspective on why everything feels so chaotic right now....

In this episode, I’m sharing my own story of betrayal and how it shaped the way I see trust, boundaries, and relationships. I talk about the red flags I ignored, the difference between betrayal and simple misunderstandings, and the emotional stages you go through when someone you care about hurts you. I also get into whether trust can ever be rebuilt and the lessons I’ve learned about self-respect...

We’re back for Part 2 of my  First Date Disasters  story — and if you thought Part 1 was bad, buckle up. In this After Hours edition, I’m spilling the rest of the chaos from one of the worst dates I’ve ever been on. From awkward moments to the final straw that had me questioning everything, this story proves that sometimes the best thing you can get out of a bad date is a funny story to tell later...

This week’s Midweek Crisis kicks off a brand-new series:  First Date Disasters.  And trust me, my story is one for the books. What I thought would be a simple first date quickly turned into a chaotic, drawn-out disaster — so much so that I had to split it into two parts. In Part 1, I’m breaking down the beginning of this wild ride, from the first red flags to the moments that had me wondering why...

In this episode of  The Alexis Perspective , I’m diving into the world of workplace romance. From my own personal stories of dating a coworker to the pros and cons of mixing business with pleasure, I’m breaking down what happens when the office becomes more than just work. I also get into the difference between dating versus just hooking up with someone you work with, and share my perspective on w...

It’s another late-night, unfiltered  Alexis After Hours ! Tonight I’m spiraling a little about getting blown off, opening up about what it’s really like being single and wanting a boyfriend, and sharing some random bits about work and life in between. It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s exactly what After Hours is all about. Follow along on Instagram:  @thealexis_perspective  ✨

✨ It’s time for another  Ask Alexis ! This week I’m weighing in on whether going 50/50 on a first date is a red flag or totally fine, sharing my thoughts on living with roommates versus living alone, and diving into some zodiac sign talk (you know I had to!). A fun mix of real talk and a little astrology sprinkled in. Follow along on Instagram:  @thealexis_perspective  ✨

Today’s episode is late (because life), but it’s here and it’s a hot mess. I dive into the drama at work, spiral a little too hard about my part in it, and then somehow land on talking about a new show I’ve been watching. Chaotic, unfiltered, and very much me. Follow along on Instagram  @thealexis_perspective  for more updates and behind-the-scenes.

It’s one of  those  nights on  Alexis After Hours  — a little work talk, a random chiropractic update, a mysterious book from a lady at yoga (yes, I read page 1 on air), and the passing thought of starting a storytime series. No clear direction, just pure late-night rambling energy. Follow along on Instagram  @thealexis_perspective  for more behind-the-scenes and updates.

This week on  Ask Alexis , I’m tackling a little bit of everything — from the coworker who just  has  to one-up you, to my ride-or-die meal choice for life, to navigating love when your friends aren’t feeling your partner. I get into my own run-ins with social anxiety, plus my best tips for making friends in a brand-new city. It’s equal parts advice, personal stories, and the usual tangents you’ve...

This week’s episode is a whirlwind of  unpopular opinions  — and plenty of side tangents I didn’t see coming. I share my hot takes on coffee tasting bad, why 7 AM is the perfect time to wake up, how everyone looks better with a little tan, and why we all desperately need a “rot day” every now and then. Of course, I wander into a few unexpected rants along the way (because when do I not?). It’s cha...

This week on Alexis After Hours,  we’re going  everywhere  and nowhere all at once. I’m talking about my chaotic week: from a messed-up paycheck to Ben having the runs (love him tho), to GoPuff snack hauls, existential spirals, and random thoughts. It’s unhinged. It’s honest. It’s me in real time, trying to make sense of life, work, and why being in your 20s feels like a never-ending fever dream....

This week on Ask Alexis,  we’re mixing it up with a little beauty, a little vulnerability, and a whole lot of honesty. I’m sharing my top 3 skincare faves (aka what’s keeping my face attached), walking you through my real morning routine — not the Pinterest version — and answering your burning questions about crushes, confidence, and the chaos that is your late 20s. As always, I’m giving you the u...

In this short and spicy After Hours episode, Alexis is spiraling (just a little) about the absolute madness that is  having a crush in your 20s . From building imaginary relationships to refreshing IG stories like it's your job, she unpacks the high highs, the delulu lows, and why crush culture is actually  so embarrassing  — but also kind of addictive? Oh, and she may or may not have recorded...

This week on Alexis After Hours... it’s unhinged in the most Alexis way possible.  I recorded while eating dinner (because, life), talked about work updates and filing an incident report, gave you some chaotic country club tea, spilled about a few crushes, and spiraled a little about how hard your 20s can be. It’s messy, it’s honest, it’s probably all over the place—but that’s kind of the point, r...

This week on Ask Alexis, we're back—and it's a bit of a hot mess (in the best way).  I answer your questions about situationships at work, how to stay confident when everyone around you seems ahead, and setting boundaries with family. Halfway through I start smoking (yes, mid-episode) and go on a few chaotic little rants… as one does. It's real, it's raw, it's unedited, and hon...