That Husband Podcast

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 23: MARRIAGE IDOLATRY What happens when a man decides to rewrite his story of marriage? In this raw and heartfelt episode, Justin Henry sits across the table to unpack the emotional weight of growing up in a father-absent home, idolising marriage, and healing through it. He shares how he once tried to outrun the...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 22: FRIEND-ZONE IN MARRIAGE "Marriage isn’t hard—what’s hard is pretending to love someone you don’t even like." In this episode, we unpack what it truly means for a husband to be friends with his wife. Our guest, Tebogo Mphohle opens up about how friendship in marriage isn't just a bonus, it’s a lifeline. He ref...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 21: OUR CONVICTION & FAMILY VISION In this soul-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with Pastor and friend Sihle Xulu for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like a mirror—reflecting the quiet weight many husbands carry but rarely speak of. From moving provin...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 20: BREAKING THE IN-LAW STIGMA What happens when culture, marriage, and modern masculinity collide? In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Ayanda Buthelezi to unpack the often misunderstood practice of "Ukukotiza." In this traditional Nguni custom, a new bride spends time with her in-laws to learn the...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 19: DIVINE PLOT TWIST Sitting across from Blaque Nubon is Kevin Makhubo—a husband, father, and man of God, who opens up about his journey from rejecting the idea of marriage to becoming a husband defined by love and sacrifice. His reflections are not polished soundbites but raw truths, soaked in years of wrestlin...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 18: IT’S NOT MAGIC, IT’S MAINTENANCE In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Drs. Jerry and Gugu Gule, a couple whose love story spans more than 43 years of marriage. From a chance encounter in a university book queue to decades of shared life, the Gules offer a rare glimpse into a covenant marked by fr...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 17: SHE GAVE ME FREEDOM TO FIND MY VOICE In this episode, we sit down with the incredibly thoughtful and grounded Bonko Khoza — not just as an actor, but as a husband, father, and man who continues to wrestle honestly with what it means to show up for the people he loves. This is a conversation between husbands f...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 16: HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO? In this episode, we sit down with Pastor Jacob Msipha, a man whose 20-year journey through marriage and ministry defies the odds and dismantles the myths. From building a church in a leaking shack to nurturing a vibrant home, Pastor Jacob opens up about the grace, grit, and visi...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 15: REALITY CHECK! In this raw and soul-baring episode, we sit down with Lebo—a young man, a youth leader, a soon-to-be husband—who opens up about the most sobering season of his life. From preaching on the streets, to falling in love with a woman he dreamed of marrying, Lebo takes us through a journey marked by...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 14: MARRIAGE GATEKEEPERS I sat across the table from a man who's about to get married in four months—and what followed was one of the most honest conversations I've ever had on this podcast. He didn’t come with clichés or curated answers. He came with questions. Real ones. The kind that strip the fantasy from mar...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 13: MARRIED BROKE, BUILD RICH What does it mean to be a “present man” in a world pulling you in every direction? In this heart-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Lindo (  ⁨@TheZindelas⁩  ) husband, father, and creative force—whose story is as sobering as it is inspiring. From a bachelor pa...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 12: RECOVERY HAS BROUGHT STRUCTURE TO MY LEADERSHIP In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with newlywed Codi van der Merwe—just two months into marriage but already deep in the thick of it. From garlic debates in the kitchen to learning how to simply sit and watch your...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources Read "The Success Women Want 2025 Report" by Momentum here - https://tinyurl.com/ypa5y5y9 [S2] EPISODE 10: WOMEN'S SUCCESS! In a world where the numbers tell a sobering story, how can men step up to change the stats? Only 7% of women in South Africa believe that men actively enable their success, while financial constraints (...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources    [S2] EPISODE 9: A HUSBAND'S DILEMMA In this heartfelt episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with comedian and husband, Linde Sibanda  ⁨@BallDropPodcast⁩  for a raw and insightful conversation about marriage, fatherhood, and the ever-evolving role of a man. From defining what it means to be a good husband...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 8: BATTLE TESTED In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Sifiso Pule opens up about his 15-year journey in marriage, offering invaluable insights on love, commitment, and the lessons learned through adversity. From infertility struggles to adoption, and navigating tough times with humility and grace, he h...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources Watch this episode with subtitles here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLUKgc6Nsx4&ab_channel=ThatHusbandPodcast [S2] EPISODE 7: MISGUIDED MASCULINITY & HOW TO FIX IT Growing up without a father leaves wounds that shape a man's view of himself, marriage, and fatherhood. Many men carry self-limiting beliefs rooted in a...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 6: A PARTNER, NOT AN OWNER What does it truly mean to be a husband? In this episode we sit down with Themba Tom Ntuli for an eye-opening conversation about the weight of marriage, the responsibility of leadership, and the art of drifting—how men often don't realize they’re slipping until they’ve fallen. We talk a...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 5: THE "PERFECT HUSBAND" TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who u...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 3: FEELING STUCK, FEELING LOST? In this raw and honest episode, Blaque and Lilly dive deep into the complexities of marriage and personal growth. They reflect on the emotional struggles that can lie beneath the surface of everyday issues, like domestic chores, and how these seemingly small tasks often carry large...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 2: YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO HONEST In this episode, we explore the highs and lows of navigating marriage and faith as Charlie opens up about his journey of growth and intentionality in every area of life. From the struggles to the breakthroughs, his honest reflections on marriage highlight the importance of being int...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 1: REPAIRABLE MISTAKE Have you ever looked at those couples who seem to navigate life in perfect sync and wondered, “What’s their secret?” The truth is, it’s not magic—it’s intentional living. For so many of us in South Africa, where cultural diversity and unique challenges shape our relationships, this practice...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S1] EPISODE 41: WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE In this reflective episode, we take a moment to celebrate the growth and journey we've experienced throughout this season. Looking back, we’re filled with gratitude for the incredible guests who joined us, sharing their wisdom and insights on everything from communication and vulne...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources [S1] EPISODE 40: PREMARITAL In this episode we dive deep into the importance of preparation in marriage, exploring the spiritual and practical aspects of building a strong foundation. From navigating personal growth to understanding the value of premarital counselling, Tshwari shares his personal journey and the lessons he’s...

 Visit www.thathusband.com  for merch, event tickets and other resources S1] EPISODE 39: LIVE FOR THEM NOW, DON'T BE A HERO AT THE END! In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we dive into the rich, complex world of parenting five daughters, ranging from a curious three-year-old to a blossoming sixteen-year-old. We explore the joys and challenges of raising girls with distinct personalities and na...