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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Mob) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths! Don’t be shy baby, tell us some...

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www.brandonkylegoodman.com

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

How Facing Mortality Inspires Better Art w/ Abbi Jacobson 02.10.2025

In this delightfully messy episode of Tell Me Something Messy , Brandon and Abbi Jacobson —actor, writer, producer, and co-creator of Broad City and A League of Their Own —(yes, that Abbi) tumble into the Messy Living Room to talk about art, impermanence, and why chasing a single “masterpiece” is overrated. Abbi confesses that not every work has to be your magnum opus, and...

Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer 26.09.2025

Season Two of Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman is here. Every Tuesday, Brandon invites you into bold, hilarious, and vulnerable conversations that celebrate imperfection and honesty. From Emmy winners to everyday changemakers, guests open up about the messy truths behind identity, relationships, family, career, and self-discovery. With new video episodes and bonus minis every Mond...

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3 14.08.2025

Brandon is joined by Dr. Matthew Brinkley and Dr. Emily Nagoski as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-to Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6W...

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2 07.08.2025

Brandon is joined by Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. Vanessa Marin as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-to Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg S...

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 1 07.08.2025

Brandon shares the story of an event that happened to them last September. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-to Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy infor...

Heauxperlatives: A Season Retrospective 17.07.2025

Brandon takes a look back at this season's episodes for some top highlights from guests, Messy Mail, and lessons learned. Look out for Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 (with video) coming this fall!  Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY MOM BONUS: Friendship w/ Devere Rogers 14.07.2025

Brandon is back with more fun and friendship that didn't make it into last week's episode! Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779   Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube....

It's About The Tone w/ Patrik-Ian Polk & Devere Rogers 10.07.2025

Acclaimed 'Noah's Arc' creator Patrik-Ian Polk and Brandon's bestie join to talk about life-long friendship, legacy and representation. Plus, Brandon and Devere dive into Love Island and The Ultimatum before sharing their friendship origin story.  Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informa...

Silence Shouldn't Be Currency w/ ​Corey O’Brien 03.07.2025

Comedian, LGBTQ+ advocate and social media creator, Corey O’Brien, joins Brandon for some truly messy discussion on everything from sucking d*ck to being called a slur during sex. They dive into Messy Mail about leaving a relationship and trusting your gut, then discuss Corey's upcoming LGBTQ+ comedy tour in Republican states.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bran...

MESSY MOM BONUS: Die With A Smile 30.06.2025

Baby, y’all really lit Brandon up about that Grindr profile name and guess what? They’re back with more thoughts. In this first-ever bonus drop, Brandon is giving unsolicited but absolutely correct advice on what your Grindr name should (and should not) be. Spoiler:  Die With a Smile ain’t it. But they love you anyway. Let’s get messy. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on...

How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells 26.06.2025

The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father.      Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informat...

You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela 19.06.2025

After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex.    Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy...

"What You Don't See On My OnlyFans" w/ Taylor Stilson 12.06.2025

Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That. BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but...

Your Healing Is Not Dependent On Their Response w/ Lena Waithe 05.06.2025

Famed actor and screenwriter Lena Waithe joins Brandon to talk about a sensitive subject for them both: Being brought up in households that don't support who you are. Lena has some amazing insight into what it means for parents to be curious and in community with their children. And it all stemmed from a game of This or That.  Mother Hunger: https://bookshop.org/p/books/mother-hunger-how...

You Can Grieve Correct Decisions Too w/ Dr. Raquel Martin 29.05.2025

Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: http...

Reconfiguring What Happiness Looks Like w/ Trace Lysette 22.05.2025

Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy st...

Are You Being Loved Well? w/ Traci Thomas 15.05.2025

Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'He...

Do Vers Tops Really Exist?! w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle 08.05.2025

Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman...

Conversations Are Like Baking Bread w/ John-Michael Bond 01.05.2025

Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents.  Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener f...

Ask Messy Mom 24.04.2025

In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(6...

I'm Star Bottom w/ Willam 17.04.2025

Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your...

Leave Feeling Joy w/ Joel Kim Booster 10.04.2025

Actor, writer and comedian Joel Kim Booster discusses his triple name and shares a PLETHORA of messy stories. Plus, Brandon and Joel Kim Booster dig into messy mail which leads to discussion on some funny findings on monogamy.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy stor...

A Little Revenge w/ Clark Moore 03.04.2025

Writer, director and actor, Clark Moore, shares a mysterious messy story filled with twists, turns, and a little potential revenge. Then, Clark and Brandon discuss the stigma against sides, living life "out of order" and the idea of queer temporality, all before coming full circle and solving the mystery.  Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8A...

Sacred Sex w/ Liz Goldwyn 27.03.2025

Filmmaker, author and podcaster Liz Goldwyn dives right into the deep stuff with Brandon as they talk ex's, healing from being hurt, and of course, a healthy dose of revenge. Plus, some of the wildest submissions of Messy Mail yet! Starf*cker Substack: https://starfcker.substack.com/ https://starfcker.substack.com/p/revenge-is-a-dish-best-served-cold   Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www...

Bestie Break Ups w/ Liza Treyger 20.03.2025

Actress and comedienne Liza Treyger joins Brandon to do a deep dive into Messy Mail focused around getting into trouble and the complicated nature of friendship. Plus, some much-needed Real Housewives talk and a game of F*ck, Marry, Block.  Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your o...

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