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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Mob) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths! Don’t be shy baby, tell us some...

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www.brandonkylegoodman.com

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

What to Do If You’re Ghosted, Calling Out Abuse in a Friend’s Relationship, and Setting Healthy Boundaries w/ Nina Parker 15.01.2026

The one and only Nina Parker, Emmy-nominated TV host and fashion designer joins Brandon for some tea before getting into the real heart of the conversation.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com W...

MESSY BONUS: Dealing With The Butt & Being Fired 12.01.2026

Hosts of the Dads & Daddies podcast share their messy stories (and advice) that didn't make it into the main episode.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on You...

How to Be a Confident Dominant Partner in the Bedroom, Navigate a Friend’s Addiction, and Support Sobriety w/ Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow 08.01.2026

Hosts of the Dads & Daddies Podcast, Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow join Brandon for an intimate discussion that gets Brandon hot and bothered, before diving into a Messy Mail covering addiction and more.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.co...

MESSY BONUS: Dressing As Cartoon Characters 05.01.2026

Who isn't into a little roleplay on Date #4?  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudi...

Normalizing Intimacy Conversations w/ Jessica Stahl 18.12.2025

Cartoonist, creative director and sexual-wellness advocate, Jessica Stahl, joins Brandon with her own important acronym around pleasure communication. Then, she and Brandon dive into boundaries, self-respect and how to learn that you're worth trusting. Plus a second Messy story for the road.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comment...

MESSY BONUS: A Gay Anomaly 15.12.2025

Brandon finishes the messy story from last week by explaining the "sex accident." Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/...

Through The Storm w/ Jordan E. Cooper 11.12.2025

Jordan E. Cooper, playwright, actor, and director joins Brandon to share his experience with his new play OH HAPPY DAY! which then turns into a deep conversation on finding yourself and your place in the world. While there's no Messy Mail today, Jordan certainly brings some thoughts on some messy opinions. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 377...

MESSY BONUS: This Thanksgiving, I Was The Turkey 08.12.2025

Brandon shares a messy story that gives a new meaning to Thanksgiving stuffing. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQl...

The Journey is The Goal w/ Lío Mehiel 04.12.2025

Recently starring in the hit movie, After The Hunt, Lío Mehiel joins Brandon to share their experience in growth and feeling good in their place in the world. Messy Mail leads into a discussion of leaving toxic friendships and Lio helps finally settle the age-old debate: Is a harvest bowl the same as a salad? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 6...

MESSY BONUS: Being the Poster Child of HIV 01.12.2025

This week's conversation with Hernando Umana was so packed full of goodies, we just had to give you some more.  Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana 27.11.2025

Hernando Umana, actor, entrepreneur, activist and Brandon's close friend, joins the pod to share one of the wildest Messy stories we've ever heard. Plus, some reminiscing and lighthearted fun before diving into the heavy topic of living with HIV.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@g...

MESSY BONUS: Give Me A Minute 24.11.2025

Long-term relationships of any kind can be tricky, so Franchesca Ramsey shares her experiences in opening communication even when you can't respond right away.   Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.c...

Tell Me Something Messy Presents: HIGHKEY! 24.11.2025

Heyyy Messy Mob! Check out this trailer for HIGHKEY! ✨ RuPaul’s Drag Race winner Yvie Oddly and culture critic Ryan Mitchell host HIGHKEY! — a boldly queer LGBTQ+ podcast where pop culture, chaos, and surprisingly real conversations collide. It’s like being a fly on the wall for the most unhinged, hilarious, and heartfelt side convo at the party — with past guests like Lav...

You're A Divorcee Who Doesn't Believe In God w/ Franchesca Ramsey 20.11.2025

Franchesca Ramsey, actress, writer, comedian, and social justice advocate, joins to show to share her stories of love, loss and recovery. Her messy story is one for the record books, which leads to a fantastic conversation about being open and communicative with lovers, friends and family. And no episode is complete without some hilarious messy mail.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and g...

MESSY BONUS: Let Your Uncle Kidnap You 17.11.2025

This hilarious conversation with Jay Jurden didn't make it into the main episode, but it sure made its way into our hearts.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on Y...

Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden 13.11.2025

Comedian, writer and actor Jay Jurden joins the show to mesmerize Brandon with their humor and wit as they dive into a discission on being pan, bi or trans in today's society. Plus, Messy Mail that really brings the mess and a game you won't want to miss.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethi...

MESSY BONUS: There's A Line With Family 10.11.2025

Brandon shares a story of their first night out on this New York trip, and some bonus clips from their conversation with Durand on male intimacy.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church...

Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr 06.11.2025

Singer-songwriter Durand Bernarr joins the show to discuss what intimacy means for men, specifically between male friendships. But first, Brandon and Durand dive into some particularly spicy messy mail about sleepovers and dating.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  V...

MESSY BONUS: Reflecting On Breakdowns 03.11.2025

Brandon shares a story about a previous connection, and they and Sophia discuss the gift / curse of the times we live in. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://ar...

Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush 30.10.2025

Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions emai...

This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe 23.10.2025

World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from?  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggesti...

MESSY BONUS: Who Puts Your Heart At Ease? 20.10.2025

A life-long friendship is hard to find, but so special when you do.  Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes Love Isn’t Broken, It’s Just Not Enough w/ Devere Rogers 16.10.2025

Brandon welcomes comedian, actor and bestie Devere Rogers , who comes in hot with a messy take treading in dangerous territory: Brandy and Monica concert tickets—are we being priced out of nostalgia? The love letter to the R&B queens turns into a discussion about the way legacy, value, and accessibility intersect in pop culture. Then a listener wants to know where the line is drawn betwe...

MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like 13.10.2025

New York versus LA d*ck. Where do you all stand on the debate?    Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi 09.10.2025

Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi , writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, t...

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