Teen Talk: Growing Together - Family Edition

Why do teenagers love taking risks — and is it always a bad thing? In this episode of Teen Talk: Navigating Teen Challenging Behaviour , I talked about what’s really happening inside the teenage brain and why risky behaviour is a natural part of growing up. If you’re dealing with difficult teens , wondering how to handle teenage defiance , or trying to rebuild connection after constant conflict, t...

“Teen Sexual Health, Porn & The Conversation No One Wants to Have” In this episode, Anna and I dive into the story that shocked so many parents and the public — a father (Ore Oduba) admitting he’d been addicted to porn since he was nine years old … and speaking up now so that he can speak to his own children about this. We explore the questions every parent quietly wonders: • How young is “too...

Ever feel like no matter what you say, your teen just shuts you out? You try to guide them, protect them, connect with them—but all you get in return is eye rolls, attitude, or complete silence. Why does this happen? And more importantly— how do you break through the wall and get them to actually hear you? In this episode, we go deep into: 🔹 The REAL reason your teen ignores you (hint: it’s not w...

Teen anger can feel explosive, unpredictable, and exhausting to deal with. One moment, they’re fine; the next, they’re lashing out—yelling, slamming doors, or shutting down completely. But here’s the truth: their aggression isn’t just ‘bad behaviour’—it’s a sign of something deeper. In this episode, we break down: ✔ The real reason your teen’s anger feels out of control ✔ The hidden emotions behin...

How do your cultural roots and childhood experiences shape the way you parent? In this episode, Pei-I introduces Eloho, a mother of teenage twins, radio host, and entrepreneur, as the new co-host for Season 2. Together, we explore the powerful impact of culture, faith, and upbringing on parenting styles, revealing how their unique journeys as a Taiwanese Systemic Family psychotherapist and a Niger...

This week on the podcast, we had a really interesting conversation about teens' motivation. We challenged some of our usual assumptions about motivation and explored the topic from some unexpected angles. It was a thought-provoking discussion that left me and Belle with a lot to ponder, and I think you'll find it sparks some interesting conversations within your own family too. Have a listen! ----...

Welcome to this episode where we'll delve into the frustrating world of teenage communication, or rather, the lack thereof. You have probably been there: asking a simple question, only to be met with a grunt or a one-word answer. Today, we'll explore this very topic. Tune in ------------------------------------------------------------------ If you are struggling and feel that you are stuck in the...

In this episode, Belle and I talked about "How I went from working with families for years to changing their teen’s behaviour in 90 days without years of therapy". Tune in and find out how this can help your family too.   -------------------------------------------------------------- If you are struggling and feel that you are stuck in the disconnected family cycle, book a Heal Family First 5 Day...

hmmm... What could possibly shock teenagers and parents? Tune in to this episode to find out what Belle and I thought about this very topic that probably doesn't get spoken about very often.... -------------------------------------------------------------- If you are struggling and feel that you are stuck in the disconnected family cycle, book a Heal Family First 5 Day Taster ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠t⁠...

In Today's episode, I had a special guest - Rachel Vecht who is all about practical and realistic support, drawing on almost 30 years experience as a mother of 4, former school teacher and parent educator to 10's of 1000's of working parents across global organisations. Rachel and I talked about all things about parenting teenagers, from her own experiences of being a mum to supporting other paren...

As you all know that my name is Pei-I, and throughout my professional life, I have been working really hard to find the most effective and impactful way to help parents help their troubled teens who get stuck in patterns of challenging behaviour with ease and success. I found this important element in my name PEI-I. I even trademarked PEII Blueprint . It is a framework that incorporates some famil...

In this episode, I had the privilege to have the Marriage Counsellor Theresa Pong joined me to talk about all things related to couple relationships whilst raising teenagers. When 2 people come together to to have a family, everything changes, and they start to move through different stage and life cycle as a family, including raising teenagers for some families. How do you navigate this? We spoke...

Are you feeling frustrated with your teenage children's I know it all attitude? Teenagers seem to give the impression that they know everything, but do they though and what is it all about? Join Belle and me as we explore the experiences and perceptions of parents and teenagers. -------------------------------------------------------------- If you are struggling and feel that you are stuck in...

Why Parenting Strategies Keep Failing — and What Actually Changes the System When you’re deep in family crisis, it’s tempting to reach for the next parenting strategy and hope this one will finally work. But here’s the truth most experts won’t tell you: Parenting strategies don’t work if you don't know what are addressing. They only land when two key conditions are met first. In today’s episod...

Are you struggling to let go when your teen increasingly wants independence? You are not alone. There are a lot of feelings needing process, but guess what it doesn't have to be difficult. Join me and Belle share our thoughts on this very topic and find out how you can navigate this alongside your teenager. If you are struggling and feel that you are stuck in the disconnected family cycle, boo...

Having the right assessment of the challenges your family and teens are facing is the most important key to developing the right intervention. It's like treating the symptoms with the right medicine. You have got to know this. Join me and Belle in today's episode where I shared the second pillar of my Thriving Together Parenting Method that helps families achieve exceptional outcomes in 90...

Unlock the Missing Piece to Transform Troubled Teen Behaviour — Fast If you’ve ever wondered why the strategies you’ve tried aren’t sticking — it’s not your fault. Without understanding your unique family blueprint, no parenting strategy will create lasting change. The Family Blueprint is the first pillar of my proven TTP Method — the same method I use to help families facing school refusal, aggre...

The first step to raising a confident and resilient teenager is not about knowing what strategies to use, but what your family script is and how it influences your parenting practice. Tune in to this episode to learn more about family script which is essentially your unique family blueprint, and my top 3 advice for parents when parenting a teenager. ------------------------------------------------...

Our special guest Melanie Gareau, a teacher and an author wrote a self help book for teens " Why me What now" that helps teenage girls to navigate teenage years. Tune in to listen to her story and how this book has helped teen girls. Our discussion extended to mental health and social media, its influences and what to watch out for. If you would like to find Melanie on social media... Yo...

Today I dived into the hilarious (and sometimes frustrating) world of sibling rivalry. I explored the psychology behind sibling annoyance, shared relatable stories, and offered tips for keeping the peace (or at least finding humor in the chaos!). So, tune in and celebrate with your teenagers the bond (and occasional rage) that only siblings can understand! -----------------------------------------...

This week we have a special guest on the show sharing her experiences and views on Teen mental health. Keri Cooper is a holistic psychotherapist. She works with teens and has written two books regarding teens and mental health. She takes a holistic approach and focuses on daily habits as well as how physical health impacts mental health. What do you think teens are struggling with most these days?...

Today I am flying solo to share 3 fail-proof ways to help you strengthen your family relationship, including your teenage children!! Tune in and find out what the 3 ways are. --------------------------------------------------------------- P.S. Are you Feeling lost with your teen after you have tried everything🤔,You CAN Restore harmony & Save your Marriage and Family from Crisis to Crisis and...

Treasured Memories. How do you define them? What goes into your teenage children's treasured memories box and what goes into yours? Belle and I had another great discussion about this very subject. Tune in and it's never too late to create treasured memories with your teenage children and family ------------------------------------------------------------- P.S. I am Pei-I 🐉, I help parents naviga...

Teen "chilling" is a universal need, but how it looks depends on who you are. Family dynamics determine how chilling looks like. Culture and Gender roles might influence the type of chilling. Socioeconomic background can impact location, with wealthier teens chilling in exclusive spaces and others finding solace in public areas. Belle and I talked about chilling through different lens, and we lear...

Breakups, rejections, and unrequited crushes – they're all part of the messy, wonderful journey of being a teenager. On today's episode of Teen Talk, we're diving deep into the world of heartbreak. We'll explore how to navigate those first big feelings of loss, offer tips for coping with emotional turmoil, and remind families that even the most painful breakups can be a chance for growth and self-...