Tea time with Vic(TORI)a

Johnny said he had tea. We turned explicit mode on. That’s it. That’s the intro. After the chaos, we’re talking Valentine’s vs Anti-Valentine’s. Grand gestures or consistency? Romantic or overrated? Cute or cringe? And why does this one holiday expose everyone’s true colors? If you’ve ever loved Valentine’s… hated it… or spiraled over it… this one’s for you. Tea was spilled. Feelings were unpacked...

Tonight’s episode gets uncomfortable. We talk about self-improvement, discipline, and the hard truth that sometimes “self-care” isn’t healing… it’s avoidance. With Johnny joining the conversation, we unpack where rest actually helps, where it turns into procrastination, and why growth doesn’t always feel soft or aesthetic. This one’s for anyone who’s been calling it healing while secretly staying...

Mixed signals aren’t mysterious. They’re exhausting. In this episode, I talk about what it actually feels like to sit in uncertainty, trying to decode energy, tone, effort, and silence. We get into why mixed signals aren’t a communication style, they’re a choice, how confusion creates emotional imbalance, and why clarity is the bare minimum, not an unrealistic expectation. Quick heads up: there ar...

This mini episode is about timing, life happening, and giving myself permission to adjust. I open up about why this week’s episode couldn’t be recorded and what that means for the future of the podcast. Consistency matters, but so does sustainability. This is me choosing alignment over guilt.

Today I sit down with Aviana to talk about what it’s like to actually heal versus what social media has showed us. My recording editing app has been giving me some problems so I apologize if the audio is cut or parts are combined I tried my best and I’m still learning

From moving across state lines to navigating dating scenes and social pressure, Jay and I talk through what transition really looks like. We get into the realities of alcohol culture, alcoholism, and making intentional choices in a world that doesn’t always make that easy. Raw, thoughtful, and marked explicit for minor language.

Life be lifin. The episode is recorded, but my phone is now not working. And my laptop is not working as well. We will have to skip another week.😩😩 but we shall be back soon!!

In today’s episode, Amanda and I sat down to talk about “Mr. Almost” my ex fiancé This one turned into a mix of honesty, vulnerability, conviction, laughter, and the kind of conversations you only have with someone who really gets you. We talk healing, being humbled, frustration, faith, and the little moments that remind you God is still working even when you’re spiraling. Note: This episode is ma...

The episode we tried to record earlier? Yeah… that one said ‘nope.’ So Scott and I regrouped, kept it clean, and played Tea or Therapy instead. Short, sweet, and absolutely on brand for the chaos of my life. Enjoy this mini reset with us

It’s giving chaotic good. In this episode, Victoria and Amanda sit down for some tea — and some therapy. Expect laughter, language, and plenty of “wait, what were we saying again?” moments. We’re winging it, learning as we go, and totally fine with it. ⚠️ Volume warning: there are some loud laughs, squeals, and pure chaos in a few parts (we swear it’s joy, not your headphones breaking). Oh, and ye...

Surprise!!!!! Are we shocked?? I wasn’t planning to drop this episode early, but when life falls apart, sometimes you’ve just got to hit record anyway (even if it’s in the car, wind in the background. Apologies for the different noises!) In this unplanned (but perfectly honest) episode, I talk about how things didn’t go as expected — my guest bailed, Aunt Flow showed up with attitude, and I had to...