Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC
Success is Subjective: Real People. Raw Stories. Embracing a Non-Linear Life!
Interviews of people who took a break from life at one point or another to get help, grow up, or just to reassess their life direction. Some guests struggled with depression, anxiety, substance abuse, a death in the family, or just decided college was not the place for them. These stories are all-to-real, and yet we don't talk enough about how common it is for those who took a gap year to defer college, went to college and took a break, or those who struggled launching into the workforce post-college graduation. This goes out to all the young adults and parents of young adults who are struggli...
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Jun 23, 2026
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Episodes
Episode 303 - Rewriting the Script: From Grief to Healing with Maya Kruger 29.07.2025 25:35
In this episode of Success Is Subjective , drama therapist and trauma specialist Maya Kruger invites us into a story shaped by creativity, resilience, and a life-altering turning point. Raised in Israel by academic parents, Maya felt caught between expectations and her love for theater—until an unexpected event in her final year of high school changed everything. What followed was a journey throug...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 302: Women’s Recovery with Holly Wilson 22.07.2025 32:56
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she invites former participants to recount their personal journey. Today’s former participant is Holly Wilson. Raised in the tight-knit mountain town of Crested Butte, Colorado, the constant visibility of small-town life motivated Holly to stay on top of her game. A self-proc...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 301: The Pendulum of Sobriety with Phil Nutt 22.07.2025 37:37
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants who feel comfortable sharing their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Phil Nutt. Phil grew up in Jackson, Mississippi, where by most standards, he had a relatively normal upbringing and was a fairly normal bo...
Episode 300 - Impact Parents: Parent Coaching with Effective Strategies for Neurodiverse Kids with Elaine Taylor-Klaus 14.07.2025 28:19
Growing up in the 70s, Elaine was given mixed messaging regarding her expected future role as a woman. As an adult, it didn’t take long before she was in full pursuit of trying to change the world, one person at a time. After becoming a mom, Elaine found herself needing to step aside from political activism to focus more on her children, whom she realized struggled more than she expected. With a f...
Episode 299 - Helping Daughters Connect the Dots of Their Calling with Dr. Tim Jordan 08.07.2025 24:23
Today’s Success is Subjective guest is Dr. Tim Jordan. Dr. Jordan is a Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrician with over 30 years of experience helping girls ages 5–25 navigate the challenges of growing up. Inspired by his five younger sisters, he developed a unique ability to connect with girls and went on to train under renowned pediatrician Dr. T. Berry Brazelton at Harvard. He’s the founder...
Episode 298 - The Parents Launch Code with Dr. Jack Stoltzfus 01.07.2025 20:54
Dr. Jack Stoltzfus is today’s S uccess is Subjective guest. Dr. Stoltzfus is a psychologist, author, and expert in helping young adults make a healthy transition into independence. With a warm and practical approach, he works with both parents and teens to navigate the often tricky process of “leaving the nest.” Drawing from years of experience and research, Dr. Stoltzfus helps families understand...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 297: My Life as a Raging, Addicted Teen and How I Turned it All Around with Kelly Wu 24.06.2025 27:43
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants to share their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Kelly Wu. Kelly shares how as a raging teen with pent up emotion, her outward circumstances and outcomes began to reflect her inner turmoil. Her first attempt...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 296: Better Late than Never: Obtaining Sobriety and Helping Others do the Same with Ryan McGinty 24.06.2025 29:02
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants to share their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Ryan McGinty. Ryan holds a masters degree in clinical mental health counseling and has a successful career as a leader in the therapeutic treatment field. He’...
Episode 295 - The Refining Process of Becoming Who I Was Meant to Be with Cam Sherman 17.06.2025 30:11
Working 5 part-time jobs, while married and in school full-time was the straw that broke the camel's back. That is, the back of today’s Success is Subjective guest, Cam Sherman. While Cam is now a certified mental health counselor and the executive director of NeuroDev, he had to overcome tremendous mental hurdles of self-doubt and acceptance in order to get to this point. He shares with list...
Episode 294 - Transitioning From High School to College: Now What? With Cindy Palmer 10.06.2025 26:08
As you listeners know, Success is Subjective is all about the winding road many people take—going from teen to adult, to an adult who’s unsure about their direction, to someone who tries out different paths… and eventually, kind of figures things out. As is the case for today’s guest, Cindy Palmer. While her family messaging instilled “college or bust”, Cindy’s path through college and beyond was...
Episode 293 - Taking Ownership of My Life with Chelsea Reeves 03.06.2025 25:48
Growing up in a figurative fish bowl in a small town in Texas, Chelsea Reeves had no idea what the world had in store for her beyond a bubble-wrapped life of what she describes as privilege. By the time she got to college, it didn’t take long before Chelsea realized the world she grew up in was much different than what her peers and others around her had experienced. With undiagnosed learning disa...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 292: Hard Earned Recovery - Cultivating Self-Awareness and Grace for the Ups and Downs Along the Way with Fred Palmer 27.05.2025 31:19
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for the former participants who feel comfortable, to share their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Fred Palmer. Fred is a licensed alcohol and drug counselor and certified recovery coach, who also works as a career educator at Colo...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 291: Addiction Recovery and Self-Acceptance - The Good, the Bad and the Ugly of Bryan Fikes’ Story 27.05.2025 28:43
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants who feel comfortable sharing their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Bryan Fikes. His start to life was what most would consider an American “ideal” upbringing. Attending a private school and having healthy...
Episode 290 - Detour After Detour: How Many Unfavorable Paths came Together for My Benefit with Joe Fuller 20.05.2025 32:13
Having one’s identity tied to an external source or outcome such as a job or physical skill can prove to be detrimental. Joe Fuller, today’s Success is Subjective guest, knows this plight firsthand. A highly driven child, Joe had his mind made up to become a professional baseball player. Not only did he have the passion for it, he had the discipline and raw talent that may have taken him all the w...
Episode 289 - Endless Opportunities Along a Winding Road with Steve Roth 13.05.2025 28:43
Today’s episode of Success is Subjective features a conversation between Joanna and Steve Roth. Steve is a licensed clinical social worker, and the Executive Director of The Arise Society – a transition center that supports young adults with digital addictions, mental health challenges, and those who struggle with motivation. While college wasn’t optional in Steve’s family system, he personally wa...
Episode 288 - Working to be Worthy with Daryn Reiner 06.05.2025 24:52
For many people, it takes trying new things and experiencing different opportunities to discover one’s true passion. Sometimes, it’s the mini-interests that lead us to the ultimate one – the passion we will embrace for many years to come. That was the case for today’s Success is Subjective guest, Daryn Reiner. While Daryn is settled into her role in the mental health field, and as a mom to a child...
Episode 287 - In the Present & Fully Alive with Darla Beam 29.04.2025 22:57
Many high school students feel pressured by friends and relatives to attend college upon graduation. Interestingly, today’s guest had the complete opposite experience. For Darla Beam, college was overtly out of the question as it wasn’t something her parents could afford. After exploring one coast to the other, becoming a caretaker for a loved one and everything in between, Darla slowly started id...
Former Program Participant Series - Episode 286: Heavily Medicated and Trying to Survive My College Experience with Viviana 22.04.2025 24:54
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants who feel comfortable sharing their journey with others. Viviana is today’s former participant and she comes with a story of transparency. Sharing what it was like as a teen in foster care, to being in an inpatient facility f...
Episode 285 - From Stock Exchange to Sober Solutions: How My Life Did a 180 with John Morris 15.04.2025 23:26
It’s not uncommon for someone to set out on a path they really believe in, or pursue the path that grueling years of hard work earned them a degree in. It’s also not out of the ordinary for a certain eye-opening life experience to cause an individual to want to change course in pursuit of a different passion, lifestyle or outcome. That was the case for today’s Success is Subjective guest, John Mor...
Episode 284 - Redefining Education to Accommodate Neurodiverse Students with Scot Marken 08.04.2025 26:18
Today’s episode of Success is Subjective comes from the heart, lived experience and professional background of Scot Marken. Scot Marken is the founder and CEO of EdRedefined – a national educational consulting firm with the purpose of helping those with mental health struggles and disabilities to thrive in their education and pursue their dreams. Deeply involved with mental health nonprofits for o...
Episode 283 - Obtaining College, Career and Mental Health Success with Psychiatrist Dr. Bianca Busch 01.04.2025 26:53
It’s not uncommon for successful high school students to get to college and find themselves hit with the reality that their former education wasn't nearly sufficient enough to help them feel confident and equipped for the rigorous academics that lay in front of them. For others, this process of pursuing a degree can be infinitely more daunting with any undiagnosed mental health conditions, as...
Former Participant Series - Episode 281: ‘Just for Today’ and Other Things I’ve Learned on My Sobriety Journey with Jacqueline 25.03.2025 27:18
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants who feel comfortable sharing their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Jacqueline. Jacqueline sought out treatment for substance use as a 22-year-old adult. While not a teen, and certainly not forced into trea...
Former Program Participant - Episode 282: The Next Right Thing with Dan O’Gorman 25.03.2025 27:47
On this episode of Success is Subjective , Joanna brings you another story from our special former participant series where she extends the opportunity for former participants who feel comfortable sharing their journey with others. Today’s former participant is Dan O’Gorman. Dan grew up in the suburbs of Chicago and fell to addiction as a teen. While attending a handful of outpatient treatments, a...
Episode 280 - Shady Lane Cellars: Finding My Passion as a Winemaker with Maddie McCandless 11.03.2025 21:05
For many people, a core desire based on natural giftings or a childhood dream comes forth when asked what their passion is. For others, they don’t quite know what makes their heart come alive until they stumble upon that hobby, career or volunteer opportunity sometime in adulthood. Regardless of the “how” and “when,” life eventually seems to bring all of us to the path we need to be on, at some po...
Episode 279 - Many Strengths, One Outcome: Merging My Dual-Parts to Create My Future w/ Zack Shafer 04.03.2025 31:02
Have you ever felt conflicted about what to do with your life? Or maybe you have multiple strengths and talents, but you’re not exactly sure which one to utilize as you reach towards your future goals. If that resonates, today’s Success is Subjective episode might bring a heaping dose of relatability and clarity to your questioning mind. Zachary Shafer graduated with a Bachelor’s in Psychology and...
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