Storytelling School

It's Saturday morning. I'm headed out for coffee with friends after a kickboxing class. As I get out of my car in the parking lot, my phone starts blowing up with text messages. I look down and see that they're coming from a number I don't recognize. I start reading. "You don't know me," the message says, "but you worked with my wife several years ago on her TEDx Talk. I was wondering if you had t...

I'm getting a speaker ready to hit the TEDx stage. He has a completely unique take on what it means to be of service in the hospitality industry. So I ask him: "What story are you going to tell to set up your Idea Worth Spreading?" He says that he has a story about a client… and another about a vendor… which is when I interject: "Hang on, hang on. What personal story do you have that allows us to...

"You should reach out to Joni." I'm reading a text from my step-mom and she is suggesting I contact a dear friend of hers because her focus on Musical Improv can take performances to the next level. I've met Joni and she's fantastic. The challenge is: I'm directing a big Improv show this Friday… and it's already Tuesday. So there's not much time to bring her in.  I'm thinking, "What if introducing...

It's the second round of selecting speakers for an upcoming TEDx event. I'm there with our committee on either side of me, facing a speaker standing in front of us. I ask her: "Why are you the right person to speak on this topic?" She says she's not a professional speaker. She doesn't like being on stage at all, and in fact, her knees are shaking just talking to us. And then she goes on: "This iss...

I'm in a law class at Pepperdine, studying for my MBA. In our first assignment, we're supposed to take this unbelievable amount of text and turn it into an outline using a very specific structure and methodology. I'm thinking, "Why do we need to outline? I just read all of this text and highlighted certain sections of it in detail. It's fine. Plus, It seems like a waste of time. And aren't all out...

I'm about to speak to a room full of CEOs. These CEOs know there's a guest speaker, yet the topic has not been revealed. Because I've been told that this group loves to be challenged and pushed outside their comfort zone, I come in and start my Talk with an unusual request.  I have everyone stand up and form a big circle. Then I invite them, one at a time, to step into the middle of this circle an...

I'm in Los Angeles at the beginning of my Improv exploration. During an advanced class I'm taking, I go out on stage to do my scene. As I'm sitting there, painting my nails in this scene, my scene partner comes in and starts suddenly lighting fireworks and firecrackers all around me. I go on painting my nails, not reacting to the situation. The instructor stops the scene right there and says, "Kym...

It's 2012. My software company is working with one of the largest advertising agencies in the world. They have tremendous expertise they can share with their clients. They're so large, though, that they're completely siloed and can't easily share this organizational knowledge quickly. The agency's chief strategic and chief technology officers have a vision to unite their worldwide employees so the...

I'm preparing for my 5th-level Black Belt test. As part of the test, we have to create and perform a series of movements - with or without weapons - to show the Grandmaster and test board that we're capable at this level.  Oh, and it has to be 100% unique and created from scratch. So this is high-stakes stuff. I know I need to come up with something that I've never done before. Ideas start coming...

It's 2016. I'm putting on a high-stakes speaking and storytelling workshop. One of the attendees "Shawn" is the CEO of a tech company, and he's not buying the idea of using storytelling to raise money and land deals. I say to him, "Give me two days. But you've got to play all in. Are you in?"  Despite his skepticism that anything will drastically change for him, he reluctantly agrees.  When the wo...

We're sitting around a fire pit at my Master's Circle retreat for speakers, looking out at the ocean as the sun is setting. One of our Mastermind members asks: "Kymberlee, what comes before the story?" He continues to elaborate: "Let's say I'm doing a Keynote. Do I walk on stage and immediately start telling the story, or is there something I say before I start the story?" There are a few impactfu...

I've just finished speaking at a live event when one of the attendees approaches me and asks: "Was your whole story about the moped accident true?" "Yes," I reply. "All of it?" he asks incredulously. "Everything you did to get back on the softball mound as a pitcher? The part about using martial arts to get your balance back? And you completely lost your sense of taste and smell?" I affirm that ye...

It's 1999. I'm attending Pepperdine University for my MBA program when I ask myself, "What else can I do?" I decide to learn computer programming at UCLA. In my first class there, I'm sitting in a room filled with other students and realize two things: First, I'm one of only three female students in a class of over 40 people. And second, I love everything about this training and want to learn more...

I'm on the last day of a five-day, 12-hour daily intensive Improv class at The Annoyance Theatre . Our instructor comes in and has us count off by threes. Once that's done, he instructs us to find everyone else with the same number. Then he tells us: "Whoever's in your group, you all are now an Improv team. And you're going to perform tonight live on the main stage for a public audience." I'm thin...

It's circa 2010 and I'm running the software company I co-founded with my husband Mark. One of our clients is among the largest advertising agencies in the world and they're preparing a big pitch for Nike. The stakes couldn't be higher for them to win this business. Since our software creates communities and includes a customized matching engine, the Chief Strategy Officer uses it to search for al...

It's 2018. I'm working with a Syrian-born American filmmaker named Sam to get him ready to hit the TEDx stage. We're forming the foundation of his Talk--his idea worth spreading--when I ask him, "Why was making this particular film so important to you?" And he responds, "It's imperative to amplify the voices of what Syrians are going through. Their voices are muted right now and giving voice to th...

I'm a sixth grader with a dream: I want to be Student Body President. So I get to work on dazzling my fellow students, relentlessly preparing and rehearsing every word of my speech for days and days, night after night… even into the early mornings. And then, the big day arrives. It's time to give my speech! I'm sitting onstage with two other candidates. Both of them deliver their speeches to huge...

I'm walking off the stage after giving a Keynote at a Southern California university. A few of the audience members make their way over to me.  "Kymberlee," one of them says, "Your presentation was so captivating! I was glued to your every word." I worked very hard on this particular Talk, so getting this feedback feels amazing! And as I'm driving away from the event, I start thinking about what e...

I'm invited to a very high-level martial arts seminar to provide communications training to the attendees. These attendees are not your average martial artists, however: they train governments and militaries all over the world. And they've all traveled here for this event. Tommy, the person running the event, starts the morning by having everyone gather around him. He reaches into his duffel bag,...

I'm at a TED event when Sarah Silverman takes the stage. She launches into her comedy set and as she gets going, I notice something interesting. A couple of jokes in, some people in the audience are already laughing hysterically. But others are fidgeting and looking uncomfortable with some of her content. My husband Mark turns to me and says, "Stand-up comedy is hard." I agree and whisper back, "Y...

I'm at an Improv class doing a scene with a partner when the instructor stops us. He says to me, "When you think about your character you just acted out, what was their point of view? What was their philosophy?" I'm thinking, "Philosophy?! This is Improv! I barely know my character's name, let alone what my character's philosophy is." I tell him that I have no idea. And then he gives me a piece of...

With each podcast episode we release, I send an email out with a story to highlight it. My favorite part of these emails is the "PS" where I can spotlight news, make announcements, or ask you a question. So I'm working on the email last week and thinking about what I can put in the PS.  And I get the idea to ask about what you'd like to see in a future episode. The only question is... will anybody...

It's 2003. I'm at my very first TED event and I'm in the computer industry. Over a period of five days, I'm not hearing typical presentations on one subject matter. Instead, I am listening to Talks about nanotechnology, robotics, cancer cure research, and a variety of other topics that I never would have had access to otherwise. At first I'm thinking that these Talks are way over my head. Yet soon...

I'm meeting with one of my clients. And she says to me, "Kymberlee, every time I ask you, 'How are you doing?' you always say, 'I'm amazing.' How is that possible, and how can I do it too?" It's simple. I tell her, "I've designed my life around everything I love to do." I love speaking, and I know that the best ones are great storytellers. I've gone from not knowing where to start with a story to...

It's 2006. TEDx announces that they're holding the first-ever TEDx University. They invite all of us who are attendees to submit a description of what we want to share and teach the group. And a handful will be selected to do Talks. At this point, I'm not a speaker; I'm still in the technology industry. Still, I know exactly what I want to do. I want to teach the other attendees something that mak...