Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, I sit down with Amy and Nancy Harrington, the dynamic sister duo behind The Passionistas Project . We dive into their journey from careers in entertainment to creating a global movement centered on sisterhood, inclusion, and empowerment. Critical conversations in a time where inclusion is on the chopping block threatening so many of our safe spaces.  The Ha...

In this episode, I engage in a deep conversation with Goli Kalkaran about the hidden power of quitting courageously. We explore how societal conditioning shapes our views on quitting, the journey from shame to empowerment, and the importance of reframing quitting as an opportunity for growth. Together, we discuss the stories we tell ourselves, the difference between clean and dirty pain, and the n...

In this episode of Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself , I chat with leadership coach and executive communications expert Karen Marinella-Hall about overcoming self-sabotage and stepping into your full potential. We explore the Positive Intelligence framework and how recognizing your internal “saboteurs” (like the Avoider or Stickler) can help you move past self-doubt and procrastination. Karen share...

In this episode, Minessa Konecky engages in a profound conversation with Julie DeLuca Collins about the complexities of multiracial identity, resilience in the face of adversity, and the journey of self-discovery. They explore the challenges of growing up in conflict zones, navigating immigration, and the importance of education and storytelling in shaping one's identity. Julie shares her exp...

In this episode of Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Jaime Heidel(she/her), author of What Did I Do Wrong?. Her groundbreaking book is a must-read for anyone looking to better understand and connect with the neurodivergent people in their lives. Jaime shared powerful insights on communication, unmasking, and the unique strengths neurodivergent individua...

Join us on this empowering episode of our podcast where we sit down with Maybe Burke, an acclaimed artist and educator deeply involved in advocating for transgender and non-binary communities. Maybe shares her journey through the arts and how it carved a path toward impactful activism. Dive into a thought-provoking discussion that explores the intersection of identity, representation, and the tran...

In Episode 88 of "Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself," Minessa Konecky sits down with workplace culture expert Robyn Garrett to dissect the oppressive dynamics often hidden within corporate environments. They explore the profound insights from Robyn's latest book, discussing strategies for employees and leaders alike to recognize and reform toxic workplace practices. Tune in for an en...

Join Minessa Konecky in this episode of "Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself," featuring an engaging conversation with Sherry Dindal, a viral content creator and a loud voice for Gen X. Known for her TikTok and Instagram handle, "The Real Slim Sherri," she discusses the brutal experience of unbecoming yourself to rediscover the joy of living in authenticity. In this candid talk, M...

Have you ever felt like you're living in a cycle of unhealed wounds and generational trauma? Our special guest Tracy Robin joins us to discuss how a holistic approach to healing can liberate us from such patterns. Her wisdom, drawn from the practices of yoga and self-study, offers a fresh perspective on confronting the deep-seated truths within ourselves and our lineage. Together, we examine...

Discover how Liz August, the virtual assistant with a trophy shelf, unveils the secrets behind a powerful user journey that's more than just skin deep for any business. We'll traverse the misconception that flashy websites and social media tweaks are the magic bullets for sales slumps. Instead, Liz and I dissect the transformative power of a meticulously structured customer journey—becau...

In this conversation, Sarah Jane Wellock discusses the importance of using different modalities to heal trauma and the power of listening to our bodies. She shares her experiences with various practices, such as the Living Blog and caress, which involve writing, movement, and self-stimulation. Sarah Jane emphasizes the need to lower our walls and barriers, trust our bodies, and release judgment. S...

Have you ever felt the weight of a 'suit-and-tie' expectation on your shoulders? Dr. Sheva Guy joins me to unravel the tightly stitched seams of traditional professionalism, revealing how this standard can serve as a tool of oppression, perpetuating systemic barriers like racism and classism. As we share our personal narratives – her journey through the expectations of an Eastern Europea...

Discover networking strategies that transform apprehension into achievement with Allison Guido, CEO of Almar Building and Remodeling, in a remarkable narration of her leap from the wings to center stage within the South Shore Women's Business Network. This episode isn't just about making connections; it's a deep dive into the psychology of networking, overcoming self-doubt, and the...

Ever felt trapped between being your true self and fitting into a professional mold? Miranda VonFricken joins us to shatter that mold, advocating for the power of personal branding that's as unique as you are. Our candid conversation with this LinkedIn luminary and entrepreneur will inspire you to infuse your career with authenticity. From managing the tightrope walk of corporate conformity t...

Have you ever felt the sting of being undervalued? Ashley Robyn, the acclaimed author of "Maybe We're All Diamonds," joins us to share her courageous tale of self-advocacy in the face of  injustice. We wade through the murky waters of workplace boundaries and the art of claiming your worth. Ashley's personal triumph over a slashed salary and increased workload, set against the...

Imagine mustering the courage to demand the salary you truly deserve—Dorothy Mashburn, the negotiation virtuoso, and I, Minessa Konecky, unravel the complexities behind this daunting task. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, empowering you to peel away the layers of societal conditioning and self-doubt that have long dictated our worth in the workplace. Together, we dissect the systemic...

Embracing the ebb and flow of life's relentless pace, bestselling author and speaker Nancy Medoff joins me, Minessa Konecky, for an insightful conversation that's sure to reframe your perception of resilience. You'll feel the tension ease from your shoulders as we navigate the landscape of self-care, sharing stories of how t he art of recovery is not just a counterbalance to burnout...

Where does fear reside, and how can we conquer it, especially in the pursuit of new opportunities? These are the questions we grapple with as we examine the unique experiences of women of color in the workplace, guided by the wisdom of our guest, Duly Orozco, a licensed mental health counselor. We delve into the power of relationships, the potential for greatness, and the challenges that inhibit u...

Ever wondered how to transform a setback into a force for change? Our latest conversation with Jen Maseda, the woman behind She's Local, is proof that passion can fuel reinvention. She's Local is all about creating hyperlocal experiences, fostering connections between women in the same communities through affordable and relevant conferences. Jen opens up about her own journey, turning jo...

Can retirement be the most exciting chapter in your life? Lisa, a business owner and retired Fidelity , thinks so and she's eager to tell you why. We kick off with a refreshing chat about retirement, shaking off the outdated notion that it signals the end of one's working or even living and experiential journey. Instead, Lisa provides valuable insights into how this phase can be a deligh...

Have you ever questioned your happiness? Ever felt as though, despite seemingly having it all, something was still missing? Join us and our open-hearted guest, Pascale Cook Fernandes, as we examine a heartfelt journey from the surface of perceived perfection to the depths of authentic self-discovery.    Pascale's experience as a stay-at-home mom with an idyllic lifestyle, yet experiencing a p...

Ever wondered how therapy could impact your day-to-day life, not just during the session, but long after? Our special guest, Sherri Damon, founder of Fly and a renowned psychotherapist, joins us to shed light on this critical aspect of therapeutic healing. We delve into her innovative Coper model, designed specifically to assist those combating eating disorders, and the transformative role of her...

Have you ever found yourself doubting your skills or talents, even when you're great at what you do? You're not alone. I had the privilege of sitting down with the incredible Beth Knaus, a brilliant editor, podcast host, speaker, and confident female entrepreneur who knows the struggle of self-doubt all too well. Beth has spent years intentionally building a foundation that allows her to...

In this week’s podcast, join me as I share my personal journey of building connections and creating a sense of community, even in the face of challenges like social anxiety, neurodivergence, and constant pain. Throughout my life, from moving countries to navigating various towns within Massachusetts, I've developed a unique system that allows me to thrive socially while respecting my own boun...

Ever feel like you're simply surviving, not thriving? Health consultant Tanesa Shears, who specializes in helping entrepreneurs, has a powerful answer to this predicament - biohacking for optimal performance. Our intimate chat unpacks how using wearable technology to fine-tune our brains & bodies can lead to improvements in our sleep, diet, and overall resilience to stress. Tanesa's...