Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right and you’re ready to hear how to actually meet him—without the games and frustration—then you’re in the right place. In this episode, part three of my series Three Ways to Meet Mr. Right After 40 , we’re tackling the dreaded world of online dating. Between fake profiles, married men, and time wasters, it’s easy to feel like online dating is mor...

If you're a single woman over 40 and ready to meet Mr. Right, you're in the right place! This is Part 2 of my 3-part series on the best ways to meet him this year—not five years from now, not in some vague future, but now. Today, we’re diving into social and singles events, a strategy that I know works. Why Singles Events? I get a lot of pushback when I bring this up, and I totally get it—...

Welcome to part one of my three-part series on how to meet Mr. Right after 40! If you're already rolling your eyes at the thought of meeting someone through friends and family, I totally get it. But hear me out—this episode is all about shifting your mindset, breaking past limiting beliefs, and opening yourself up to opportunities that may be closer than you think. What You'll Learn in Thi...

If you’re a single woman over 40 struggling to find Mr. Right because you’re drawn to unavailable guys, this episode is for you. I’m kicking off Season 2 with practical tips on how to meet Mr. Right now—without falling for divine feminine gimmicks or self-abandoning to fit into someone else’s mold. Here’s what I cover in this episode: Why the mindset of "waiting for the perfect time" to...

Hey there, welcome to the season one finale! I can’t believe we’re already here—what a journey it’s been. First, I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for tuning in and walking this path with me. Your Shero’s journey inspires everything I share here. In this episode, I’ve got two big things for you: A Holiday Survival Guide tailored for single women navigating the holiday season. A s...

Welcome to the show! If you're over 40 and finding yourself chasing unavailable guys while searching for Mr. Right, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the final part of my three-part series on the Let Love In framework. This is the exact process that transformed my love life from “hot mess express” to happily married in my 40s—and it’s the same framework I’ve been teaching as a dating coach...

Welcome to today’s episode! If you’re a single woman dating after 40 and struggling to find Mr. Right, you’re in the right place. We’re diving into the second step of my proven Let Love In framework: the LOVE pillar. This pillar is all about shifting your dating experience from chasing fantasies to embracing your truth and attracting real, lasting love. What Is the LOVE Pillar? The LOVE pillar is...

Hey there, welcome to episode 9! If you’re navigating the dating world after 40 and feeling like you’re stuck in a cycle of unavailable guys and repeating patterns, this episode is for you. I’m diving deep into the first pillar of my Let Love In framework: Letting go of the past . I get it—letting go can feel daunting, even impossible. But trust me, it’s the key to breaking free from dating the sa...

If you’re dating after 40 and tired of chasing unavailable partners or following bad advice, this episode is for you! I’m sharing the framework I’ve used as a dating coach (and in my own life) to go from a "hot mess express" to married to the love of my life in my 40s. You'll learn how to stop chasing love and start letting it in with my three-pillar approach: Let, Love, and In. In e...

Hey there! Welcome to episode 7 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast. This is Part 3 of our series, The Worst Dating Advice for Women Over 40, and let me tell you, this one gets a little spicy! We're diving into some of the most toxic, unhelpful dating advice out there and flipping it on its head. Spoiler: If you've ever felt like you needed a PhD in "understanding men" t...

Welcome to episode 6 and part two of this juicy three-part series where I'm diving deep (and yes, it’s getting a little controversial!) into some of the worst dating advice floating around for women over 40. Today, I'm taking on the concept of "divine feminine energy" and why this advice, while alluring, might be the very thing holding you back. In this episode, I’ll share some p...

Hey, welcome back! I'm so glad you're here. In episode 5 and first in a three-part series where I’m diving into the worst dating advice out there for women over 40—yes, we’re going there! Today, we're peeling back the layers on some of the most misguided advice that's circulating around, why it's so damaging, and what to do instead. Spoiler: this advice isn't just ineffective; it actually pulls us...

If you’re a single woman dating over 40 and feeling like guys keep ghosting you for reasons you just can't understand—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down the top three dating mistakes I see as a love coach and the underlying limiting beliefs that keep you stuck. Let’s get real about what’s holding you back from finding a truly devoted relationship with Mr. Right. Here’s what I cover in...

Hey, friends! I’m so excited you’re here for episode 3 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast because we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to my heart—what I call "Pinch Me Love." You know that feeling when a relationship feels so good, so fulfilling, that you almost have to pinch yourself to believe it's real? Well, we’re going to explore that today, and I can't...

Welcome to the very first episode of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys! If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right but often find yourself dating the wrong guys, you’re in the right place! Join me your host, Truly Eleanor, as I share my journey from struggling with relationships to finding the love of my life. In this inaugural episode, I open up about my own “Shero’s love journey,” discus...

Hey, friends! Get cozy and grab your favorite drink, because today, I'm sharing my deeply personal love story—the "Shero's Journey." This is my path of self-discovery, healing, and finding the love I had been searching for my entire life. In this episode I am going to talk about the moment I decided that had to do things differently if I wanted a different result, what led up to...

Are you a single woman over 40 and over your non-existent love life? Do you struggle to find lasting love with the right guy because you are drawn to unavailable guys, despite knowing deep down you are sabotaging yourself? Hey, I’m Truly Eleanor, your host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. I’m an Intuitive Love Coach who found Mr. Right in my 40s after breaking my pattern of attracting...