Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

If you’ve ever felt like deleting every dating app, swearing off love, and resigning yourself to “maybe I’m just meant to be alone,” this episode is for you. Truly Eleanor shares her own hilarious (and slightly horrifying) story of the date that pushed her over the edge and how that rock-bottom moment became the turning point that changed everything. You’ll learn how to process frustration and dis...

If you’re a single woman over 40 who keeps attracting Mr. Unavailable on repeat, even though what you really want is a secure, lasting relationship, this episode is for you. In this conversation, we’re diving into unconscious self-sabotage in dating : the sneaky ways your mind and heart can work against your deepest desires without you even realizing it. If you’ve ever said “I’m ready for love!” b...

If you’re a single woman over 40 and tired of attracting Mr. Unavailable on repeat, this episode is for you. Dating after 40 doesn’t mean you’re doomed to heartbreak; you can break the cycle and finally create space for the love you deserve. In this episode of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast , I dive into why releasing old heartbreak is essential if you want to welcome Mr. Right with ope...

If you’re a single woman over 40 and feel like you keep repeating the same painful patterns in dating, this episode is for you. Many of the struggles we face in love don’t actually start in adulthood; they begin in childhood. Whether it’s growing up in a narcissistic family, feeling unseen, or learning to put everyone else’s needs first, those early experiences shape the way you show up in relatio...

Season 4 of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys is here and this time, we’re diving into the one thing most single women over 40 overlook on their way to finding Mr. Right: emotional healing. If you’ve ever felt like dating after 40 is just a loop of attracting unavailable guys, this episode will open your eyes to what’s really happening beneath the surface. Truly Eleanor shares her own journey, client...

Welcome to the Season 3 finale of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast ! In this episode, I’m doing something special by answering YOUR burning dating questions while highlighting the best moments from this season. From how to tell the difference between fear and intuition, to knowing when it’s time to pause your dating profile, to avoiding the endless messaging trap on dating apps, I’m covering...

If you're a single woman over 40 looking for lasting love and you're tired of following all the “rules” that leave you confused, burned out, and second-guessing yourself, this episode is your turning point. This week, Truly Eleanor introduces the concept of an Intuitive Dating Plan : what it is, why you desperately need one, and how it can completely change the way you date. You'll hea...

If you're a single woman over 40 who's exhausted by dating disappointments and tired of relying on logic that never leads to love, this episode is your game-changing invitation into a new way of attracting Mr. Right. In Part 3 of her manifestation series, Truly Eleanor shares three of her most powerful intuitive manifestation tools—EFT tapping, affirmations, and intentions—to help you alig...

If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for real, lasting love (not another confusing situationship or emotional rollercoaster), this episode is for you. You’re done chasing guys who can’t show up — and you’re ready to attract someone who actually gets you . In Part 2 of my manifestation series, I’m teaching you one of my most powerful tools to connect with your intuition and call in the love you...

If you’ve ever tried to “manifest love” and ended up more confused than connected, this episode is your breath of fresh air. As an intuitive love coach with 20+ years of deep inner work and coaching experience, I’m breaking down what manifestation really means — and how to use it in a grounded, heart-centered way to attract lasting love after 40. In part 1 of this brand-new series, you’ll learn ho...

If dating feels like a soul-sucking chore and you’re on the verge of swiping yourself into oblivion, this episode is exactly what you need. In part 3 of my series on avoiding dating burnout, I share how to move through confusion, self-doubt, and rejection without losing yourself — or your hope for finding love. As an intuitive love coach, I’m giving you practical tools to process the emotional ups...

Are you a single woman over 40 who’s feeling drained by dating, wondering if you should take yet another break—or if love just isn’t in the cards for you? Before you delete the apps, swear off dating forever, or retreat to your cozy corner with your favorite blanket and reruns of The Golden Girls , take a pause. When you’re dating from burnout, everything feels heavy and forced. But when you learn...

Are you a single woman over 40 who’s exhausted by dating, ready to give up, or tempted to let "divine timing" take the wheel? Before you throw in the towel (or adopt another cat), tune in. In this episode, we’re kicking off a brand-new 3-part series on using your intuition to avoid dating burnout —because finding love shouldn’t feel like an emotional marathon. Dating burnout is real—and...

If you're a single woman over 40 who's done with the dating games and tired of chasing unavailable guys, then you’re gonna want to stick around. We're diving into how to tap into your intuition, and trust me, it’s not just for psychics and crystal ball gazers! I’ll share my own journey, from being a total hot mess to finding true love, and we’ll even do some chill exercises to help sha...

For the Gen X Woman Who's Ready for Real Love You’re a single woman over 40, you're done chasing emotionally unavailable guys, and you're finally ready to tune into your intuition to find true love. But wait—how do you know it’s your intuition guiding you… and not just your fear in disguise? I’m your host, Truly Eleanor—intuitive love coach, Gen X spiritual guide. I found my Mr. Right...

Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast with Truly Eleanor If you're a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, and you're ready to learn the most underrated skill to save time and heartache, you're in the right place. In this episode, as an intuitive love coach, I'm sharing how to access your intuition to find love.  As an intuitive love coach (and a fellow Gen X’er who’s been th...

Welcome to Season 3 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast! I’m Truly Eleanor, your intuitive dating coach, and if you’ve ever felt like you keep dating the same guy in a different body or second-guess yourself constantly—this episode is so for you. We’re kicking off this season with the most powerful, overlooked, and misunderstood tool in your dating toolbox: your intuition . If you've...

I can’t believe we’re already here. It’s the season two finale! This journey has been incredible, and I’m so grateful you’ve come along for the ride. Whether you’ve been listening since episode one or just found the podcast recently, I wanted to wrap up the season by answering your burning dating questions. Because if you're a single woman over 40 looking for your Mr. Right and you’re tired of was...

If you're a single woman over 40 and you're serious about finding a real, emotionally available partner — this one's for you. In this episode, I'm sharing the most important first date DON'Ts to help you stop wasting time and start getting clear on what actually moves you closer to love. These are the same patterns I had to break to find my own Mr. Right (yes, it happened in my...

Hey there! If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, you’re in the right place. In this episode, I’m sharing essential first date dos that will help you get closer to meeting the love of your life. With over 15 years of experience as an intuitive dating coach—and having found my own Mr. Right in my 40s—I know firsthand what works and what wastes your time. Let’s dive into part one of...

If you’re a woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, this episode is for you. I’m wrapping up my three-part series on the best dating advice for women over 40, and today we’re diving into the hidden fears, anxieties, and habits that might be holding you back from the love you deserve. As an intuitive dating coach, I’ve worked with countless women (and done this work myself), and I know how powerful it...

If you're a single woman over 40 looking for love and tired of wasting time on the wrong people, you're in the right place. In this episode, I’m diving into Part 2 of my best dating advice to help you take intentional, aligned action in your dating life. Last time, we talked about the internal preparation—getting clear on your desires, expectations, and mindset. Today, we’re getting practi...

Welcome to Part 1 of a three-part series Best Dating Advice for Women 40+ where I’m breaking down how to meet high-quality guys and avoid the ones who aren’t worth your time. But before we jump into strategies, we have to start with the most important thing—your mindset. Dating isn’t just about signing up for an app and hoping for the best. It’s about preparing yourself mentally, emotionally, and...

Hey there! If you're a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right and tired of wasting your time on unavailable guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I'm breaking down what red flags really mean, how to recognize them, and—most importantly—how to stop chasing the wrong men. My goal is to empower you with practical dating strategies so you can date with intention and co...

Hey there! If you're a single woman over 40 looking for love and tired of wasting time on the wrong guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I'm diving into the green flags you should look for in dating—those signs that help you recognize Mr. Right when he's right in front of you. While red flags are important, today is all about focusing on the positives, so you can...