Stoicess' Secret

Why is sin like a besetting thorn in my side? It’s clearly something I wrestle with God over, and it’s a constant battle for me to try to keep it under control.  If you’re like me, you know that we shouldn’t “do the sin”, but we can’t seem to help ourselves.  Listen to the Stoicess' podcast as she addresses this difficult situation. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

“I can’t take this anymore!” they say. “I need the money but not the agony that comes along with it.” “How do I get out of this mess.” As you hear your friend’s cries, you wonder if you should just give them money or “that shoulder to cry on” instead. Listen to the Stoicess' secret for some insight. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

My partner makes me feel guilty if they don’t get what they want; what should I do? There’s an old proverb that goes like this… “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” It’s a child’s expression said in order to show that a person cannot be hurt by unpleasant things said to them. But is it true? The Stoicess has some advice you just might want to hear about for these u...

Seeing your child being emotionally abused by another is very disheartening. You’ve always protected them, they are your child, and you don’t want any harm done to them. It’s easy to focus solely on the bad partner and what your action will be to handle them directly. Listen to the Stoicess' words on how to address this delicate situation. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

It’s true. God uses foolish things and people of low estate to confound the wise and even saves people through “the foolishness of preaching” (also in verse 21).  But why? Read on to hear the Stoicess' thoughts on this topic. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

It’s exciting! It’s unbelievable!  He’s finally changed! I knew he had it in him. That’s why I chose him before because I knew he had the talent, and I could help him become something great. Yes, we broke up, but now he’s back. He’s got his head on straight and wants my help in a business venture I always looked forward to.  Should I jump on board and accept the offer? Listen to the Stoicess'...

Sometimes life takes a wrong turn for us and for one reason or another, we may find ourselves distancing ourselves from our church family. There can be many reasons for this and many resulting emotions, but in the end, the most important thing is to return to our family and friends who are waiting for us at church.  Hears the Stoicess' words as she tackles this predicament. https://stoicmatch...

Are you looking to pray for the first time and are wondering how you can get started? Perhaps you’re worried about something and have decided to give prayer a chance. Know that it’s never too late to start praying. Also, it’s not something to struggle over to make it work well. Listen to the Stoicess words for tips on how to get started. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

The job’s on your mind as you leave the office. It’s late, you’re exhausted… your mind is spinning. Your plate’s piled high and you’ve been warned not to mess up again. The deadline for the report is noon tomorrow and the boss says it’s on YOU to make this happen.    At home, the misery of the day continues. You’re flying around the house to get things quickly done so you can focus on that report....

Do you ever feel like your prayers go unanswered? You’re not alone.  Prayer is a powerful tool, but it can be challenging to know how to start a prayer life as well as make it more consistent.  Let the Stoicess share with you three keys she has found that can create a powerful prayer life so you can make the most of your time when talking to God. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

You’ve heard the old saying. The one that goes “No man is an island” which tells us everyone needs help now and then. However, I take its meaning a step forward and say the wisdom of others is always needed to step correctly. I’ve found that their wisdom can provide me with constant counsel no matter the size of the decision I am facing.  Listen to my podcast to learn the three types of individual...

The alarm is buzzing, but you feel like you just went to bed.  It’s dark out, getting colder each day, and the drive to the office is exhausting.  And then there’s the work once you’ve arrived.  You’re so behind.  The boss keeps piling on the work and you’re at least a week behind on the assignment due tomorrow.  You’re tired. You’re cooked. You’re done.  Hear the Stoicess' advice on this unc...

It’s our first date! What are we going to talk about? What should I say to the person? What should I ask about them? Hear the Stoicess' words of advice for that wonderful first date! https://stoicmatchmaker.com

If you think about it, a first date is more important than most people think: how well this goes will determine whether a second date is still in the cards. Most people go out for coffee or watch a movie.  However, if you want some great first-date ideas, listen to the Stoicess as she shares a few unique ones that she's found are worth giving a try. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

Whether it’s called backsliding, wandering, or sin, it happens when a person has not been walking with God. The last time we trusted God, we fell away.  Now we have no idea how to return. The Holy Spirit nuzzles us, but we sit idle not knowing the next step to take.  “Is there a way for us to return to God once we’ve fallen away,” you ask?” “Where do I turn after all the lost time and what I’ve do...

The church bells are ringing. The auditorium is full. All eyes in the pews are looking backwards to the church door entrance—they’re waiting to see… YOU! And as you stand outside those doors waiting for your cue, it hits you…. Am I sure about this? Does he really love me? Or is it for looks, benefits, money, status, or duty? Those church door jitters….  It’s like all those fun thoughts previously...

If you’re like me, I’m sure you know at least one person who is seemingly unshakeable. They’re the one who always has a smile on their face, no matter what life throws their way. You may even find yourself pondering how they do it.  My response? The answer is simple; they have a “sold out” heart for God. Listen to the Stoicess' secret on how to keep your heart in God. https://stoicmatchmaker....

The signs your crush likes you can be a difficult thing to decipher. However, there are some signs that indicate they like you too. It is essential to know these signs to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings on either side of the equation.  Listen to the Stoicess as she shares four signs that she has noticed over the years indicating that a crush really likes you. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Believers sometimes express periods of their life where they don’t feel connected to God. Perhaps, they may have had times in their lives when they felt closer to God than they currently do.  Listen to the Stoicess' words on how to reconnect through prayer. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Many Christians have unrealistic expectations for their relationships, which can lead to disappointment and heartache. This particularly applies to dating. The dating journey is like navigating uncharted waters. However, by focusing on your expectations, it simplifies the journey immensely. Listen to the Stoicess' tips to help you “keep it real”. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

There are many reasons people come together. Each relationship is unique. The foundation of a healthy relationship is the desire to reach the same goals and agree on the direction in which the relationship should take.  The majority of healthy relationships also share some unique principles. Knowing these principles will make your relationship enjoyable, fulfilling, and exciting. Listen to the Sto...

The moment you find out that your significant other betrayed your trust with someone else, it can feel like a complete erosion of everything you knew about them. You can feel hurt, confused, and utterly lost. However, after that initial betrayal, you might feel as though you still want to trust them again. You want to make your relationship whole again. But can you? Hear the Stoicess' advice...

When I was younger, I felt intimidated by prayer. However, as I searched the scriptures, I found that there is simplicity in prayer as much as there is privilege. I realized that prayer is simply talking to God.  Listen to the Stoicess' podcast to learn how she spends more time with God. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Our obligations pull us in many different directions over the course of a week. As a Christian, it can be difficult to find the time to pray if we aren’t innately focused, and even more difficult is how to establish a quiet time to pray with our partner. Listen to the Stoicess as she gives sound insight into this issue. www.stoicmatchmaker.com

Everyone gets nervous about dates. Let’s say that you have gathered up the courage to ask someone to join you for coffee. You want it to be a date… a real date… the romantic type, but would the person you asked consider it that? Listen to the Stoicess' advice on the matter. www.stoicmatchmaker.com