Stoicess' Secret

An old friend; toxic, but fun. You never knew what you were going to get with them. Should you say hi? Listen to where the Stoicess stands on the matter in this intriguing podcast. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

How can we help others cope with a problem without becoming too affected by it ourselves? The Stoicess dives into what's involved when we reach out to help in this week's podcast.  https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

It’s your dream. It’s the talent God blessed you with. It’s your calling in life.  However, where you are now is not going to get you…. from the “here” to the “there”. So what's the issue? You've got to move way far from home. The Stoicess considers this topic and tells you what to focus on most in this week's podcast.  https://stoicmatchmaker.com

A real beauty in anyone’s eyes. A true gem indeed. Polished, straight lines, eye-catching, and gleams with beauty. Some things in life are truly irreplaceable. How do you face the uncertainty of losing what you love most?  Hear The Stoicess' secret for successfully navigating these murky thoughts. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/ 

You’ve been together several years, but you just heard a rumor that something happened with your partner in the way distant past, years before you met.    You want details and you want them now.  You hastily confront your partner with what little evidence you heard. They’re silent. You push hard for details and they walk away as you shout, “We’re not done with this yet. I have a right to know!”  T...

It was a tough divorce. A lot of fighting from both sides. Mom went out on her own. Dad went into a deep depression. As time passed, you found yourself caught in the middle as one parent continually put the other down when talking with you. It’s as if you’re being told to choose sides between the two.  https://stoicmatchmaker.com/  #christianmarriage #marriage #proverbs #relationshipgoals #relatio...

It’s date night! Our time together….. or is it? What once was a time that made your heart zing has become a mere event, almost a chore. Listen to The Stoicess' advice in addressing your relationship's "dry spell"! https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Family troubles come in all shapes and sizes. What if your ex treats your grown son like a child? Should you step in?  Listen to The Stoicess' Secret for some earthy advice. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

We all know that growing in your connection to God is important. Listening to the Bible, reading the Bible, Christian meditation and PRAYER can jumpstart your journey of growth. Listen to The Stoicess' advice on how to use Prayer-- It really can help! https://stoicmatchmaker.com/meditation-registration/  

You hear the worst possible news from your friend: your romantic partner is cheating on you. What's your next move? That's the topic the Stoicess covers in this week's podcast. Stoicess' Secret:  To accuse one of cheating is to render the verdict for the relationship before the trial has begun. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Breakups can be hurtful, but we can't allow ourselves to hold resentment. Let The Stoicess guide you through this touchy topic in her weekly podcast. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/   #dating #love #relationships #onlinedating #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #single #relationship

Ever not feel good where you are physically?   We are a society of eyes – everything is looks these days. Well, life got hectic and you forgot to take time to focus on yourself because of caring for others.  You’re feeling bad enough on your own, and then your partner makes the unwelcomed comment that puts you over the edge. Listen to The Stoicess' Secret on how to reframe your mind.  https:/...

Your first date together. How wonderful! The excitement is in the air.  You’re about to make lasting memories.    But where do go on our first outing?  Listen to The Stoicess' advice on how to make the event most memorable.   https://stoicmatchmaker.com/  

So you feel an attachment for someone who doesn't know you exist. Do you make a pass at them out of the blue? Or maybe comment that you notice they're not wearing an “ownership ring”.  Stop being a Creeper! Listen to The Stoicess' advice on how to increase your chances for success.  https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Aren’t you the lucky one! You didn’t pay much attention to them in the earlier years.   But time passed… nature took its course…  and the little duckling has turned into a beautiful swan. And what a beautiful swan they are. The only problem is they are your best friend’s sibling. Listen to The Stoicess' advice on how to deal with this sticky situation. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Congratulations! The two of you have had several dates so the newness of the relationship is wearing off. The comfort level is rising and the questions asked are becoming bolder. Your date asks, “How successful do you want to be in life?” It’s one of those deep questions that would catch most off guard. How do you respond? Listen to The Stoicess' secret for some mature advice on the matter. h...

Have a problem with overthinking? Do you overthink things to death? Suffer from the what ifs…. "What if this, what if that" to the point of anxiety? Hear some words from The Stoicess to help soothe your mind.  https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

What happened to my confidence? When I was young, I had confidence in living carefree by not worrying what others think. I just did what I did. But as I got older, my confidence has waned. Listen to The Stoicess' podcast for some confidence building. https://stoicmatchmaker.com/  

"We will always be together", were the words shared between us.   "We will never be torn apart no matter what. Our shared faith in God will keep us together ….  forever." But times change.   One of you will be going away for a good bit of time whether it be for the job, college, military, mission work, or the peace corps.  Thousands of miles apart with few communication times …...

It can be frustrating dealing with a negative Nancy, a critical Carl, or even a whinny Willismae ……especially if that person is someone you interact with multiple times every day.  It’s very draining…. like they’re just trying to pull you down with them. Listen to The Stoicess as she shares her insight on the issue.   https://stoicmatchmaker.com/  

You’ve been dating a new person and think you’ve finally found someone who is really “in to” you. However, you’re noticing a change of late. They say you failed to do something to help them...shame on you. Then they twist your words …and they’re pretty good at it. If they’re unhappy, they’ll bring in others to accuse you. You start questioning yourself… losing self esteem. They’ve gotten into your...

You’re spending some quality time with your partner… Everything is going well until you ask your partner how their best friend is doing. When answering, they mention their best friend treats them better than you do. “Excuse me?” you say…  as you take the defense. They respond, “We never have problems in our relationship….you and I always seem to be arguing about something”. Listen to The Stoicess&...

You were spending a wonderful day with your partner, that is until your partner excused themselves for a moment and on their return sees you talking with another… a potential suitor--- as your partner calls them along with the statement, “I can’t ever leave you alone…. you’re always looking for someone else”. And the stand-off begins.  You’re caught off-guard… and that wonderful day quickly turns...

Ever been interrupted? You’re telling a story or commenting on an idea shared by another.  But the microphone is quickly snatched from you --- that intervener --- that interrupter --- who butts right in, cuts you off, and takes center stage. It’s as if you don’t exist, have nothing worth saying, or lack common sense. Before taking "an eye for an eye" as the adage goes listen to The Stoic...

Ever watch others trying to win someone—that prize everyone wants?    They chatter constantly like a squawking bird … trying to keep the Prize’s attention by being longer and louder than others. And that poor soul being twirled around—the Prize —has the look of a child watching an Alice in Wonderland adventure.  How do I have a chance of winning the Prize with such fierce competition? Listen to Th...