Stoicess' Secret

You’ve been at the current job for some time and are looking forward to that next pay raise. Recently, the boss piled more work on your plate, so you think to yourself, “It’s time I talk to the boss.” So you approach your boss and tell them you are ready for a raise since you’ve been able to handle all this new work. The boss smiles and says ..... Listen to the Stoicess' words for her guidanc...

When getting ready for a first date, you’re likely thinking of a few good conversation starters. To gain a better understanding of someone so that you can decide whether it makes sense to invest in the relationship, you should ask your date about faith.  The Stoicess shares questions you should ask. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

It was a tough breakup. A lot of hurt feelings, tears – two lives torn apart forever. However, as time passes, reality begins to set in. The evenings are lonely; no one cares to call.  Life is boring.  And then the Ex texts you asking for a second chance. Listen carefully to the Stoicess' cautious words on the matter. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

In today’s world, a million things are fighting for our attention at any given moment. It can be easy to lose our connection with the Lord. The Stoicess shares Christian meditation techniques to keep you anchored. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

You’re finally over your Ex.  Your heart has mended.  You’re on your new path in life.  You’re focusing on that brighter future.  That is until you see your best friend intertwined in a romantic posture with your ex. Listen to the Stoicess' advice as she shares her thoughts. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

It is often hard to believe that God cares when we are going through tough times. We may feel like He has abandoned us or that He doesn’t care about the details of our lives. However, the Bible is full of verses that show just how much God loves us. Reading these scriptures helps remind us that we are never alone and that He is always with us. Listen to my podcast as I share His words. https://sto...

It’s Park Day! Your special day with your partner in the relaxing outdoors. You’ve been waiting for this all week. However, when you meet your partner at the park, your partner barely notices your arrival. They’re glued to that cell phone and ignoring you completely. Listen to the Stoicess’ words to address this disturbing event.

The Bible says we shouldn’t just be hearers of the word but to be doers. That’s why as Christians, we must learn how to apply the Bible in our daily lives. With this in mind, let me share with you two crucial methods that help me get my wonderful day back on the right track. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

It’s a topic of tremendous importance to you regarding your child which you have partial, but not complete, control. You’re ready to stand your ground and go to the limit to have your way against your partner. Whatever your partner has to say is of minimal importance to you on this topic. "It’s my way or the highway" in your mind. Hear the Stoicess' advice on this sticky topic! http...

Bible study is one of the primary spiritual disciplines of a serious Christian.  For me, I believe my daily pattern of systematic Bible study using my S-T-O-I-C method has accomplished three significant gains in my life. Let me share with you what I have experienced. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

They’re talking about you again. It’s that coworker trying to undermine you. Their chatter used to be behind your back, but it’s becoming bolder …..almost as if they’re standing in front of your face.  The Stoicess has some advice for you to consider. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

What a wonderful marriage you have. The marriage is going swimmingly — at least until you discover your spouse no longer believes in God. As time has passed, they now tell you they have “lost the faith”.  Hear the Stoicess' advice on this difficult subject. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

A text comes across the group chat congratulating your coworker for a wonderful job done on the front-office report—a report that had been assigned to you as the team lead for completion next week. There’s a link to the report in the text and when opening the link, your blood boils. The report is practically word-for-word of your words. Listen to the Stoicess' words on how to handle this awkw...

Do you have a friend, family member, or colleague who’s a new believer? You must be excited to see them start their new chapter with Christ. The Stoicess suggests you welcome them to the Christian faith with a nice gift to help them stay connected to God. Listen to the Stoiciess'' thoughts. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

“Happy New Year!”…. we shout as the Time Square Ball drops. My New Year’s resolution is set!  I’m going to get that new Mercedes, lose 10 pounds, and exercise twice a week …. and I’ll start next week. For most of us, our intentions start out well but fade quickly as the days unfold.  Maybe it’s “easier said than done” as the adage goes or maybe others in our lives—our partners, colleagues, bosses,...

Ever get caught in a mental conundrum – that irritating situation driving you absolutely insane? Even worse, when going through such a situation, do you sometimes forget to whom you should turn for help?  Listen to the Stoicess' words for how she draws on God’s strength and power. And you can too! https://stoicmatchmaker.com

Honk, honk. “Get out of my way!”, the person screams at you while passing in the emergency lane. “You’re holding up the line”, another says while typing on their cell phone and not realizing you’ve finished your sale at the checkout counter.  Listen to the Stoicess' insight on how to keep your sanity during such events. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

As Christians, we are commanded to live a life of love and service. However, we do some things that are not in line with this calling. Listen to my podcast where I reveal three bad habits I find Christians struggle with and need to overcome so they can do better in following Christ’s example. The Stoicess https://stoicmatchmaker.com/

Ah, the in-laws on the holidays. So much fun. Where else can you find all the judgmental stares, passive-aggressive mumbles, and active aggressive arguments all wrapped up in one big bundle of stress?   You need to listen to the Stoicess' words to overcome this challenge! https://stoicmatchmaker.com

During tough times when others are testing our mettle, having God’s word anchored in our minds gives us tremendous strength to hold our ground mentally, remain calm, and be in control – a fortress whose walls are impassable. However, memorizing scripture can be a challenge.  The Stoicess shares her Secret on how to keep God's word in your mind when "under pressure". https://stoicmat...

“Will you marry me?” the question pops. Your heart begins to flutter. Excitement overtakes your mind. And then the statement… “You’ll wear my name forever.” Immediately, the excitement ends.  You say, “But I like my name”.  The response? “You must take my name if you want to marry me.” The Stoicess has some advice you need to hear! https://stoicmatchmaker.com

I find it normally takes some effort, openness, time, and trial-and-error to find “my people”. “Friends come and go, but a true friend is there to see you grow,” as the saying goes. Let the Stoicess share some tips on where you can find true Christian friends. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

Not knowing whether your partner is going to stay or leave messes with your mind.  You feel worthless. Not good enough. Loneliness and depression follow.  Listen to the Stoicess' words for guidance on how to handle this. https://stoicmatchmaker.com

If you’re like me, you value the close friendship you have with a few people in your church congregation highly. The congregation is a fantastic meeting location to connect with them, grow in your faith, and serve another.  But what happens when you move to a new town and have to start finding a friend in a new congregation?  Listen to the Stoicess for some sound advice! https://stoicmatchmaker.co...

Ever been in a relationship where your partner announced they didn’t want to go back to work? They just decide one day they’ve had enough, and it all falls on you? If yes, listen to the Stoicess' guidance to get your relationship back on track. https://stoicmatchmaker.com