Stethoscopes and Strollers

Hey doc! In this episode, I'm challenging the stereotypical image of who has household staff. I dive into: Why Physician moms deserve and need household help How outsourcing can be an investment in your wellbeing Affordable options for getting support A real-life example of how having help can reduce stress Key takeaways: Having household help doesn't make you elitist - it's about s...

Hey doc! In this episode, I'm diving into the importance of proper onboarding, whether it's for a nanny, au pair, or virtual assistant. I share: Why thorough onboarding is crucial for long-term success My personal experience onboarding a new virtual assistant The temptation to do things yourself vs. teaching others How investing time now leads to more freedom later Key takeaways: Compreh...

Hey doc! In this episode, I'm challenging you to rethink self-care. I dive into: Why medical care is a crucial form of self-care The importance of regular check-ups and addressing health concerns How to overcome guilt and prioritize your own health Why canceling patients for your own care is necessary and okay Key takeaways: You have one body - take care of it Your health is just as important...

Hey doc! Let’s talk about the "Supermom" trap, and my personal story about a time I refused help, even when it was readily available. In this episode, I share: Why refusing help can actually slow us down How the "Supermom" identity might be holding you back The freedom that comes with accepting help Some big takeaways: There's no prize for doing everything alone Accepting...

Hey doc! In this episode, I'm sharing a personal story about a bedtime incident with my son. It's a simple tale, but it packs a powerful message about: The importance of teaching kids to communicate effectively How we can empower our children to use their words The difference between responding to a baby's cries and a older child's needs Key takeaways: Encourage kids to use wor...

I am thrilled to have the amazing Dr. Nneka Unachukwu, or Dr. Una as many know her, as my guest on this brand-new episode of ✨Stethoscopes and Strollers✨! As the visionary founder of EntreMD and a dedicated mother of four, Dr. Una brings a wealth of insight and inspiration. In this episode, we dive into: Dr. Una's journey through high-risk pregnancy and early motherhood The importance of cr...

Hey doc, in this episode I'm opening up about my journey from burnout in corporate medicine to finding freedom through locum work. I share: • What it was really like working for a big corporate medicine group • My burnout experience and some tough thoughts I had • How business coaching opened my eyes to my true value as a Physician • Making the leap to locum work and learning to negotiate lik...

Hey doc, in this episode I'm challenging the idea of "experts" in motherhood. I dive into: Why everyone seems to be an "expert" when it comes to motherhood How to approach advice, including mine, as inspiration rather than absolute truth The real purpose behind bringing guests onto the podcast What to expect from upcoming interview episodes Key takeaways: You're the e...

Hey there, doc! Ready for a mindset shake-up? In this episode, I'm getting real about my own Instagram struggles and the powerful shift that's changing everything. We're diving into: • The sneaky power of "I am" statements (spoiler: they're shaping your reality!) • My journey from TikTok success to Instagram resistance (oh, the drama!) • Why positive self-talk feels s...

Welcome to another episode of ✨Stethoscopes and Strollers✨! Today, we're tackling a common hurdle in the au pair journey: partner resistance.  In this episode, we cover: • Why your partner might be hesitant about au pairs • Effective communication strategies to address objections • The importance of expressing your deep reasons for wanting an au pair • How an au pair can benefit your entire...

Welcome to a special National Breastfeeding Month episode of ✨Stethoscopes and Strollers✨! Today, we're diving into the complex relationship Physician moms have with breastfeeding. In this episode, we explore: • The unique pressure Physician moms face when it comes to breastfeeding • The role of perfectionism in our breastfeeding decisions • Acknowledging and supporting moms who choose not...

Hey doc! Welcome to another episode of ✨Stethoscopes and Strollers✨. Today, we're diving into the world of au pairs - a childcare solution that might just change your life. In this episode, we cover: • Why childcare is about more than just watching your kids • Common objections to hiring au pairs and why they shouldn't hold you back • The real cost of au pairs compared to other childca...

Hey doc, let's talk about what YOU want. Yeah, you! When was the last time you actually thought about what you want in life?  In this episode, I'm challenging you to reconnect with your deepest desires and dreams. I know, I know - you're thinking, "Dr. Toya, I barely have time to pee, let alone dream!" But hear me out. We dive into: • Why knowing what you want is crucial (...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In this episode, I discuss the importance of taking the win when it’s presented to you. Often, we can overthink our partner’s responses and miss out on the positive moments. Let’s dive into why embracing a yes, even if it’s not enthusiastic, can make a huge difference in our relationships and mental health. Episode Highlights: - Setting the Stage: Pict...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In this episode, I’m tackling the widely accepted notion that poor sleep is an unavoidable part of early motherhood. Drawing on my experience as a newly minted Perinatal Mental Health Certified OBGYN, I'll explore the significant impact of sleep deprivation on maternal mental health, including its role as a risk factor for perinatal mood and anxie...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In this episode, I'm opening up about my personal battle with sleep issues and the journey I took to find restful sleep again. As a physician and a mom, I've faced the ups and downs of sleep deprivation, and I want to share my story to help you navigate your own sleep challenges. Episode Highlights: - Stress and Sleep: How high-stress periods...

Hey doc! 🌟 Today, I’ve got a delightful and spontaneous date story to share with you. My husband and I had a fun, unexpected outing that reminded me of the importance of making intentional choices to maintain intimacy and connection, especially during the hectic years of raising young kids. Episode Highlights: 1. Surprise Date Day:     - Bad Boys Ride or Die released today! My husband planned to...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In this episode, I dive into the movie "Everything, Everywhere, All at Once" and share my thoughts on its deeper themes, especially the relationship dynamics between Evelyn and her husband. Here are the highlights: Episode Highlights: - Movie Recap: A brief overview of the plot and key characters, focusing on Evelyn, her husband, their laundr...

Hey everyone, welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! Today is a special Juneteenth episode, and I'm so excited to share it with you. Here’s what we cover: Episode Highlights: - Juneteenth Overview: Celebrating Juneteenth, now a federal holiday, marking the day enslaved people in Texas learned they were free on June 19, 1865. - Personal Story: Sharing a moment with my South African Au P...

Hey everyone, welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In today’s episode, I’m sharing how Juneteenth has played a significant role in helping me build a supportive community here in Northern California. Here’s what we cover: Episode Highlights: - Juneteenth and Community: Reflecting on the importance of Juneteenth and how it has helped me create a community since moving to California after r...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In this special Father's Day episode, I honor my husband and the father of my children. Here’s a look at what we cover: Episode Highlights: - Manifestation Realized: Reflecting on how I manifested my husband, a first-generation Trinidadian, and how he surpassed all my expectations. - Parenting Together: How my husband inspired me to want boys and...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*. In this episode, I share my journey toward obtaining my Perinatal Mental Health Certification (PMH-C) and discuss the Nine Steps to Wellness from Postpartum Support International. These steps are integral to my coaching practice for physician moms in the early years of motherhood. Episode Highlights: - Pursuing PMH-C: I’m preparing for my Perinatal Men...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*. Today, we dive into an essential aspect of a physician mom's life: childcare. Often overlooked as part of your "village," reliable childcare isn't just helpful—it's a transformative element that returns time, rest, and peace of mind to your life. In This Episode: - Understanding Childcare Options: I explore the critical role of...

Welcome back to Stethoscopes and Strollers ! In this episode, we discuss how to effectively use credit card points for flying in childcare help. If you're a physician mom this strategy can be a game-changer. Episode Highlights: The Power of Points: Learn how to maximize your credit card points for flights, hotels, and more, with a special shout-out to Devon Gimbel’s "Point Me to First Cl...

Welcome back to *Stethoscopes and Strollers*! In this episode, we discuss a viral video of a Brazilian marathon runner who ran past her kids to win a race. The video has sparked many discussions, and today, we're exploring how to find inspiration in such moments. Episode Highlights: - Viral Video Breakdown: A marathon runner’s husband pushes their kids into her path right before the finish li...