Soul Cafe

In this episode we talk about restoring hope and love, based on Torah sources from the book "In Good Hands" We reintroduce the antidotes to the four horsemen, from Gottman's work and share the antidotes to these common unhealthy andchallenging behaviours in a marriage. We discuss various ways to start difficult discussions and how to generate fondness, and connection instead of conflict. We learn...

In this episode we discuss how to move past a regrettable episode in dealing with a challenge in marriage. We talk about taking responsibility and how to describe your reality to your spouse in a way that will be best received. Triggers can cause a spouse to flood with emotion and what is needed to feel validatd and acknowledged. We talk about accepting apologies and processing events, what is nee...

In this episode we learn about three most delicious words in a marriage, bringing more peace to our homes through asking check-in questions of our partner, being noticed and seen, repair bids, friendly conflict, and bringing the relationship into truth. We look at the Sound Relationship House from the Gottman Institute and other techniques to manage conflict.  The improtance of feeling seen a...

In this episode we discuss various tools for growth, gratitude, compassion and acceptance of circumstances. When we acknowledge that things are not able to change at the moment, we can self-regulate and have compassion for ourself and our spouse. This can bring us to a place of peace, when we give up the need to control and accept what is. Learning how to pivot to a better place and accept what is...

In this episode we discuss various tools for growth when things may get challenging in a marriage. What to do when a complaint is made, how to handle it and how to de-escalate an argument. We learn about collaborative arguments/interactions, reflective listening and triggers. We learn about the power of our words and the energy we create. We learn about what we can and can't control, and get pract...

In this engaging episode Shterna is interviewed by Vera Kessler from " America's Top Rebbetzins " about Shalom Bayis (peace in the home), explaining that peace is the harmony of two opposites.  When a husband and wife have peace with each other, they bring many blessings into the home, including an abundance of money. Peace is the vessel that holds G-d's blessings. It is very important to pra...

In this podcast we discuss various tools to increase the marital harmony in our homes and give down to earth, techniques and tips to increase the peace and happiness in our homes. Husbands and wives will benefit from implementing the tried and true tips from various authors on this topic, incorporating Torah values. This week's episode is dedicated to my dear father, R' SBG in honour of his 73rd b...

In this episode, Mrs. Sarah Blau interviews Shternie Althaus on her best practices for instilling Jewish values into our children. In this candid interview, Shternie gives practical ideas for enhancing your relationship with your children, and making your relationships deeper and more meaningful

In this candid Interview we talk with Judge Ruchie Freier, the first Chassidic woman to be elected as a Civil Court Judge, and Rabbi Justice Marcus Solomon, a judge of the Supreme Court of Western Australia. We learn about what justice in the modern world looks like through the eyes of two Chassidic judges and how both judges juggle their busy and meaningful lives. This is an eye-opening account p...

Mr Robert Kremnizer is a lawyer, author, lecturer and artist. He gives the audience practical advice to find true meaning and joy in our lives through the lens of Chassidus. He wrote "The Ladder Up, "The Lawyer and the Mystic" and "Conversations with Zaidy" about finding true faith in G-d. His recent book is called "Australian Encounters", which includes firsthand stories of the Lubavitcher Rebbe.

Rabbi Judge Marcus Solomon opens up about his incredible appointment as a justice in the Supreme Court of Australia. As an accomplished solicitor in Perth and a dedicated Rabbi and family man, Rabbi Solomon shares his unique vision for the future of Jewish education in Australia and beyond. Sharing personal stories of his compassion for those in our communities who are often left behind and his ge...

In this episode, we interview Rabbi Yaakov Lieder, master educator and lecturer for over 40 years. Rabbi Lieder gives us a myriad of tips and strategies for attaining a closer and deeper bond with our children and teenagers. Rabbi Lieder has authored the book "14 Kids No Theories". He can be reached at jfc.org.au, where you can find more parenting tips. This episode is sponsored by anonymous donor...

In this episode, veteran Kallah teacher and educator for over 50 years, Mrs. Miriam Althaus, shares beautiful Torah vignettes and important tips for enhancing the marriage relationship and communication. Mrs. Althaus offers a rare glimpse into Orthodox life in Melbourne, Australia in the 50s and 60s and how a pivotal seminary year in Israel and a grand audience with the Lubavitcher Rebbe changed t...

In this episode we interview Mrs. Nikki Kinstlinger, a former fashion editorial stylist and digital creator at Cosmopolitan, Cleo, Dolly, and Shop till You Drop magazines. Now observant mom of three, Nikki gives us an honest-to-goodness talk about mothering, career and feeling spiritually connected all while being true to your innate talents and tools.

In this episode we interview Mr Ron Engelman, senior Krav Maga instructor for the IDF and Founder of KMDI in Australia, an Israeli Martial Art. Ron explains how our mental health is directly affected by our physical state of being and how physical movement can improve our mental health, confidence, resilience and lifestyle. With personal stories and anecdotes, Ron takes us on a journey of self-dis...

In this episode we interview Hadassa Naparstek, Mindset Mentor and doula, who gives us valuable insights into building confidence and boundaries for better mental health and deeper relationships. Dassi strongly believes that becoming "conscious" allows us to exercise choice and respond better to stimuli. Dassi utilizes her vast experience and first-hand knowledge to enhance our understanding of th...

In this episode we interview Timmy Rubin, veteran Mikvah lady for 29 years and women's prison chaplain in Melbourne, Australia. TImmy gives us incredible tips and ideas for finding true connection in marriage and how to really bond with one another. She also gives true insight into the beautiful Mikvah experience and how powerful attending the Mikvah is, for women of all levels of Jewish observanc...

In this episode we interview Candice Meisels, Publicist, Mom of five and Founder of CANDICE PR. Candice shares her incredible adoption story and gives us real tips on resilience. Thriving as mothers & career women in challenging times, can be enhanced through sharing our knowledge, love and tools, positively impacting others.

In this episode we interview Chana Levin (Deitz) BSc Psych (Hons) MPsych (Forensic) who helps high risk and disadvantaged youth and young adults, many of whom have a history of complex trauma. She gives us various tips and strategies to connect with teens and young adults who are struggling with trauma or abuse.

In this episode we discuss Mental Health and Wellbeing Strategies for teens & young adults with Rabbi Menny Overlander, Director of Aliya Youth, in Melbourne, Australia

In this episode we interview Kalman Rubin, noted psychotherapist and clinical counsellor specializing in family law mediation in Melbourne, Australia. Kalman gives us a unique perspective on how to deepen our relationships with our spouse and children, finding meaning in challenging times and how to face challenges with courage and optimism based on the teachings of Chassidus.

In this episode we discuss the importance of looking after ourselves and our mental health, through self care, so we can support each other, with renowned counsellor, Charmaine Roth from Sydney, Australia

In this episode we interview Rene Mill, a popular Clinical Psychologist from Sydney Australia, about her weekly Emett groups and theories within core Emett beliefs. Rene shares some important tips which resonate with CBT and Torah thought, for our daily life.

In this episode we discuss various techniques to reach our children and parent meaningfully with the myriad of challenges facing parents today. Based on the works of Shimon Russel, Rabbi L. Keleman & Rabbi Yossi Jacobson

In this episode we discuss various strategies of improving communication in the Digital age, where distractions abound. Couples will appreciate more meaningful communication.