Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

We’ve got royalty in the house this time, folks. Content creator, gogo star, and recent contestant on OutTV’s ‘Go Go for the Gold,’ King Dwarf is our special guest this week. In this episode, he joins Adam and Cole in the studio to talk about his experience growing up with dwarfism, the moment he realized he was packin’ some serious heat in his underwear, and all the steps toward international sta...

The boys catch up over their latest happenings and cover a random array of topics, successes, blunders, new kinks, old kinks, and other reasons to share regarding the this-and-that relevant to the life of a gay adult content creator, especially as the summer ramps up and things start to get BUSY. Join in our little conversation, sorry in advance! Presented by Fleshbot Become a supporter of this po...

This week the boys welcome special guest, Mr Pam! Arguably the best-known cis female director of gay male porn, Mr Pam shares her journey to becoming one of the most beloved creative personalities in the industry. From her beginnings in the Bay Area squeaking into the biz almost by accident as an editor, to her creative director position with Michael Lucas, to spending eight years as the lead dire...

This week, Adam and Cole welcome trans performer, activist, and sex goddess, Küper, who shares their very unique perspective having grown up in a repressed environment while straddling the non-binary spectrum, becoming a sex worker and adult film performer in their male form, and eventually coming out as trans at the turn of the pandemic era. They also speak about being an outspoken presence in th...

This week, Adam and Cole catch up about the very busy beginning of summer happenings, work and otherwise, focusing specifically on the ins and outs of shooting studio porn. Sometimes it’s fun, sometimes it’s difficult, sometimes it’s grueling, and sometimes it’s hilarious - the boys share stories of their recent brushes with studio work and compare it to the very different experience of filming fo...

Get your ears ready. This week, Adam and Cole welcome prolific porn stud Derek Kage, who shares candidly about his journey to adult film work, from his mental health struggles early on to finding his footing in the industry and working for all the hottest studios. He also reveals the reason for his name, tells some very funny stories, and delivers it all with arguably the sexiest voice in gay porn...

For nearly ten years, UK sensation Josh Moore has climbed the ranks from novice “demon twink” with Michael Lucas to Falcon Exclusive porn king with over half a million Twitter followers. In this episode, Adam and Cole get the low down on Moore’s beginnings in the industry, his current lifestyle in London, and how being a performer has affected his social and sex lives. They also recount the times...

This week, the boys fall deep into a discussion about general dating rituals and how life as erotic content creators has affected their own dating habits. What came first, the chicken or the egg? Has the evolution of their dating habits led to life in the adult film world, or has being adult film stars had an influence on the way they date? Is dating easier or harder? What does ‘dating’ even entai...

Our first health segment! Have you ever wondered about penises? Like… what’s really up with penises? Adam and Cole get very lucky this week when they receive a visit from Los Angeles based urologist and CEO/co-founder of Popstar Labs, Dr Josh Gonzalez. In this episode, the boys get real deep with Dr Gonzalez, who shares his extensive knowledge about penile health, anatomy, enhancement and obsessio...

Strap in, folks. Our special guest this week is the prince of naughty and nice, the sexy and talented Devin Franco. Devin shares with Adam and Cole about his religious upbringing in rural New Mexico, takes them on a tour of the porn that inspired his journey, including an enlightened take on the ins and outs of fisting and bondage, and tells stories about his path from popular performer to budding...

In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up over the latest adventures in the world of content creation, including Cole’s 20-man excursion to the desert, which prompts the boys to discuss something very important - preparation! Yes everyone, it’s the douching episode. There’s no one way to do it, everybody does it, and we all have stories. How it works, when it doesn’t, and all the nitty and (hopefull...

This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by dom top superstar Wade Wolfgar, who gives the boys a glimpse into the many elements that have helped him compose his brand. From growing up in Calgary, to the winding road toward sex work and adult films, to his very unique delivery in his videos, to his propensity for older men; all of this rounds out to a frank discussion about the power dynamics that...

In this episode, Adam and Cole welcome decorated gay porn veteran Steve Cruz, who shares with us the twists and turns of his unique journey in the world of gay adult films. Starting out at the top as a star performer at Raging Stallion Studios, Cruz spent over four years in front of the camera before making the permanent switch to behind, becoming one of Falcon Media’s most prolific directors. He...

Welcome back to Sorry for Asking! In the season 2 premiere, Adam and Cole get used to the new and improved setup, provided by their partnership with Fleshbot x Cybersocket, while they catch up about the recent holiday season and share steamy stories from their recent sexy filming opportunities (including a shared group scene, in which Adam had a very exciting new experience). They also go in-depth...

In the final episode of season 1, Cole and Adam share their wisdom, insights, and experiences with the body dysmorphia that often plagues performers in the gay adult industry, as well as the gay community at large. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor-...

For the penultimate episode of season 1, Adam and Cole welcome actor and comedian Drew Droege to discuss a wide range of Hollywood’s film and television offerings that depict the evolving gay experience, sexual and otherwise.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-...

Our Thanksgiving Episode!  Adam and Cole discuss a delicious buffet of topics, including queer party culture, double penetration, Adam’s recent travels and Cole’s upcoming directorial enterprise, and link them all back to the spirit of giving (and receiving).  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sor...

Adam and Cole welcome porn performer and Falcon Exclusive Andre Donovan, who shares the evolution of his sexual tastes and performer journey over eight years in the industry, and discusses his perspective on the importance of diversity, representation, and visibility for POC performers in gay porn and beyond.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of...

You know what doesn’t get talked about enough? Gay butt sex! The boys have an in-depth conversation about the ins and outs and the joys and woes of anal intercourse, on and off camera. Sorry in advance, Mom. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--577349...

This week the boys nab an exclusive interview with James Larusso, formerly known as gay porn star Tommy Defendi, who shares the extreme highs and deep lows of his very unique journey as a ‘heteroflexible’ performer, which started at the age of 18.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-askin...

Adam and Cole dive deep into the psychology, anatomy , and occasional help from science that it takes to keep their equipment stiff and ready in order to ensure a smooth day at work.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support .

This week, the boys welcome the LA nightlife guru, who shares his experience bringing sex positivity and a sense of humor to his very unique parties, which feature vintage porn, sexy gogo boys, and a safe space for LGBTQ folks to get their freak on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-aski...

Cole and Adam welcome prolific porn personality, Joel Someone, to share his experiences as the self-proclaimed ‘Maggie Gyllenhaal of gay porn,’ from working with every independent run studio to winning this year’s GayVN award for Best Bisexual performer.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-fo...

Cole and Adam catch up on recent events, including their respective travels and breakups, and the traumatic incident that required surgery for Cole.  They also examine what it’s like to date while being part of the adult industry.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi...

Adam and Cole are joined by Raging Stallion exclusive performer Drew Valentino, who answers questions about performing, his beginnings in the industry, and, of course, his propensity for pits. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support .