Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

Well, this is it, folks! Adam and Cole deliver the final episode of Sorry For Asking, in which they reflect on the past four years of bringing you frank discussions and a diverse group of guests, the laughs and the stories, and the overall mission statement behind this project - to humanize and destigmatize your favorite adult content creators, and share the ins and outs, the whys and hows. We're...

And this time, Adam and Cole welcome the whirlwind that is the very studly Hayden Harding to the pod. Hayden jumped into the scene via a steady stream of scenes with the renowned Sean Cody studio, breaking expectations by bringing some meat and fuzz to the mix, as Sean Cody is usually known for its smooth boy next door aesthetic. He tells stories of growing up in Southern California in a very cons...

Make yourself decent and get the sling ready, folks, we’ve got company. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by their good friend James, known to the gay adult film world as the Inked Pig (sometimes as Jimmy Ink). James gives us a deep download of his upbringing in the Bronx growing up with macho Italian values and breaking free from them his own unique way. Sometimes being shamed is a perfec...

Welcome back, y’all! Just the boys again this time. Adam and Cole have a little catch up about what they’re up to as summer comes to a close, including creative endeavors, recent shoots, and upcoming travels, plans, and hopes for the fall. They also speak on some moments of folly that we all could learn from (you’re welcome!) Also, before resuming having guests, Adam and Cole try another hand at l...

In this episode, Adam and Cole go deep into their memory banks to give you the full experience by reliving the first time either of them did a studio scene. The assignment: Each of them will watch the other's scene, comment and review, and ask questions. What it was like, what happened, how it happened, and all surrounding circumstances. Simple, right? Of course, nothing is ever simple on set, esp...

Welcome back, listeners. We have a guest this week, so get ready for some chaos because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than Michael Boston! He’s won multiple awards, including the XBiz Gay Performer of the Year, and the Grabby for Best Butt, and Michael reminisces with the boys about winning the latter in the presence of his mother. He grew up Mormon in Utah, and shares what it was l...

Harrumph! Welcome to the summer grumps! In this episode, Adam and Cole do their best Waldorf and Statler as they catch up about recent things they’ve been up to in the heat of these summer days. Adam shares about his wild experience in Germany, from the techno stages of Whole Festival to Pride weekend at the legendary Berlin nightclub scene. Cole tells stories of a recent visitor at his home that...

We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all...

Right on the heels of a busy 4th of July weekend, Adam and Cole dive head first into a brand new studio set up for the podcast! It’s summer 2025, things are changing everywhere, and the boys have a one on one catch up about the various things this season that are keeping them on their toes. From improv shows to party venue pivots, upcoming trips and festivals, recent Pride festivities to reasons f...

Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zei...

On the eve of Cole’s birthday, Adam and Cole get together in this episode to chat about some shoots that didn’t go quite according to plan and what it takes to pivot when things get a little shaky. Especially if we are having problems with the money shot. Studios and performers all have their tricks to get a climax on camera, and the boys have some stories to tell, with surprisingly overlapping de...

Icon Alert! Adam and Cole are paid an in-studio visit by none other than the multiple award-winning Landon Conrad, for many of us, a blueprint of post-Y2K gay adult fantasies. With his Viking build, blue eyes, and always with the perfect hair, Landon made his mark in the industry effortlessly and tells us some stories of how he got there. We also get into what it’s like to have been part of the DV...

Feast your eyes and ears on this week’s guest, the very sexy and sultry Heath Halo! Heath joins Adam and Cole via Zoom to talk about his intention to make a quick mark in the industry, starting with a podcast that ended up turning into a profitably spicy social media presence, to becoming one of Falcon’s biggest stars. Having grown up around a heap of Texan masculinity and participating in a uniqu...

Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while...

We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and...

He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’...

This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in governm...

Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He a...

Aaaaand we’re back! Season 4 of Sorry For Asking begins with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor catching up over the best things about the holidays, how they navigated the week of the LA fires, Adam’s trip to Costa Rica, Cole’s multiple trips to Florida, some recent shoots, upcoming opportunities, and the hopes they share for the upcoming year. Adam has entered his reading glasses era while he continues h...

And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are tw...

Lube up more than your nethers this time, folks. Your brain, heart, and soul could each use a good yank, as evidenced by today’s conversation with OG YouTube sensation turned holistic adult content producer, Davey Wavey. Adam and Cole dive deep into Davey’s history, growing up Catholic in Rhode Island, and falling into the early days of YouTube video diaries going viral and making coin, ultimately...

After gushing about him at the end of our last episode, Adam and Cole give a warm in-studio welcome to the iconic emperor of trans masculine adult content and sexual healing, Viktor Belmont! In this hilarious and heady conversation, Viktor shares about his exceptionally unique experience of self-actualization, not only as a sexual healer and formidable adult content presence, but also as a trans m...

Hey folks, let’s catch up! Cole and Adam get together this week to discuss a busy end of summer schedule, including some recent scene work and seasonally-themed collaborations. They also get into some of their younger scene partners and ask questions about whether or not the younger generation of queer men may be desensitized to sex, given its overwhelming availability compared to twenty years ago...

After a couple false starts, Adam and Cole finally get the chance to sit down with the legendary Reese Rideout to hear his tale. What false starts, you ask? Tune in to hear the wild story about what took so long to get Reese on the pod. Reese shares vividly about his path to gay adult film legend status, in the early days of Randy Blue all the way to his current blend of sexy and funny easily seen...

Happy spooky season, listeners. To kick off the final stretch of season 3, Adam and Cole bring to the table just the dose of infectiously joyful, confident femme-dom energy in the form of iconic performer and producer, Siouxsie Q! Siouxsie is a captivating storyteller, sharing about growing up in the Bay Area and being drawn to the abundance of freak flags in San Francisco before starting out as a...