Sophie-sticated Mom Podcast By Dr. Sophia Reed

I am going to tell you how to get a good job. As I mentioned in my how to master life after college blog, approximately 53% of college graduates are unemployed or working in a job that doesn’t require a bachelor’s degree ( source ).  Which means that there are a whole lot of college graduates that are underemployed or worst underemployed. I know that feeling, to get a good college degree and feel...

Are you tired of judgmental Christians always judging you or always having this whole attitude like they are superior or godlier than you? Church people who are judgmental Christians are becoming all too common and are giving Christians a bad name. Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2017/04/07/what-to-do-when-you-feel-judged-b...

I want to bust the misconception, that women were just meant to be wallflower. That women can lead and that there were many times that women had MORE faith than even the men.  Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2017/04/17/what-professional-women-can-learn-from-5-successful-women-of-the-bible/   Some women think that just becau...

Hello all of my beautiful confident ladies that are looking for some amazing first date tips for women.  You have come to the right place because I have you covered and I am not going to give you some crazy first date tips that tell you to lean 3/4 over the table, while tilting your head to the side, and batting your eyes once per half second so that you can exude optimal femininity and attractive...

  Some women think that just because a man is having sex with you even if he doesn’t claim you or treat you nice that you are some how winning.  You’re not and here’s why.  Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://youtu.be/7qF6KWO0Xdc My free ebook with these pieces and more that will teach you how to make a capsule wardrobe you can wear year round: http://ee...

In this post I am going to answer the "am I ready to get married question"? Because the fact of the matter is that a whole lot of women want to get married but if you were to enter into a marriage tomorrow you would be headed to a divorce a few months later?  Marriage is more than just wedding planning, table decorations, and planning a big party. Don't get so caught up on the idea...

In this post, I am going to give you everyday tips on how to sound smart and not just to sound smart but to actually be smart.  I am not about faking the funk and if you are going to present yourself a certain way then why not be that way for real. But don't worry I am not going to tell you to go do something unrealistic because I believe every day people, no matter who you are, can learn to...

Let's talk about deal breakers for a relationships, what they are, and why they are so incredibly important for you to use them. I want to start with the following scenario: You are dating a man for a couple of months and couple of months after that you get into a relationship with him, and then two years after that you are ready to settle down and get married all to find out that he does not...

Want to know how to build your brand or become an influencer but you still are working a full-time job? Then I am here to tell you. But you must keep in mind that you cannot believe the hype that you see on social media. That becoming an influencer is super easy and all you have to do is just take a few pictures on Instagram or start a blog and then voila tomorrow you are an instant success. Link...

Now I am fully aware that what I am about to say is more than likely going to really piss some of you off.  Women with low self esteem do not belong in relationships.  That is not to say you can never be in a relationship but until you work on your self-esteem you have no business being in one. Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.c...

If you are comparing yourself to others then today is the day that you decide to stop.  If there is anything I want to impress upon you in this post, it is that you should be happy to be you, and comparing yourself to others is actually a disrespect to yourself because you are saying that you are not enough. Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie...

Assumptions Women Make That Make Them Look Foolish AKA Cognitive Distortions  Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://youtu.be/OegLX1DUfqU   My free ebook with these pieces and more that will teach you how to make a capsule wardrobe you can wear year round: http://eepurl.com/gSn_a5 Shop All My Products: https://sophie-sticatedmom.myshopify.com/ Hire me as yo...

I am going to get into good questions to ask on the first date.  Knowing what questions to ask a guy on the first date is probably the MOST important tip I can give you. Mainly so that you do not end up wasting your time going on a second date or continuing to see someone for weeks, months, or even years only to find out that they are a complete psychopath or someone you do not want to be with. Li...

Let's talk about how to be successful in life. Because being successful in life is literally the exact thing you should be chasing, finding success according to your own standards is the purpose of life.  You only have one life so why not make the most of it. Do you really want to get to the end of your life only to realize that you spent it not doing anything much, stuck in poverty, wonderin...

Are you wondering what to do about an unplanned pregnancy then you have come to the right place. First off I want to tell you that I was where you once were. I was facing an unplanned pregnancy and I did not know what to do or how to feel. I was 23 years old and I was no where near ready to be someone's mother.  Which is why I want to talk to each and everyone of you to give you a different p...

In this post, I am going to give you some good old fashion Christian advice on dating.  If you are a Christian woman looking to date then, of course, there are some Christian dating boundaries that you need to stick to. And furthermore, if you are a Christian woman then I am pretty sure that it is your goal to find a good Christian man (AKA an equally yoked partner) to share your life with.   So w...

There is an art to answering prayers as far as God is concerned. We have a prayer answering God but God is not just gonna answer any and every prayer that you throw out there. And let me just tell you that God does answer our prayers even if the answer is no or one that we do not like.   Which is why I am going to tell you the art of God answering prayers so that you can stop waiting and start doi...

I am going to tell you the difference between assertive vs aggressive communication and behavior and give you an example of EXACTLY what you need to do to be assertive over being aggressive. Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2017/03/16/5-ways-to-stand-up-for-yourself-without-being-disrespectful/     My free ebook with these pi...

Do you feel like a failure?  Let me tell you that, the reasons why people fail to achieve their goals can vary but they typically fall into three categories, which I will talk about in this post. Sadly, when people fail, they have to come to the realization that most of the time they are playing a role in their own failure.  Many successful people have failed, got up, kept going, and are now succe...

As a single mom who has had to make the most of her time while having a million things to do, I want to teach you how to have a healthy work-life balance. when you feel over worked.  You could be a single mom, a busy woman, a workaholic, you may be working yourself to the bone, you may be working more than one job, you may be having trouble balancing work, your kids, or even your sanity. Link to o...

In this post, I am going to share with you the best Bible verses on parenting that I know will be useful to you as a parent.  And in true Sophia form I am going to keep it real with you as always, so be prepared.   As a parent, your main responsibility is to make sure you bring your child up in the right way so that they can become productive adults that you will be proud of and make sure that the...

In this post, I am going to tell you the best ways to get over a breakup.  They are easy steps to follow BUT of course, it is a breakup, and with your emotions into it, it can be hard. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/11/30/having-your-heart-broken-and-how-to-get-over-it/   My free ebook with these pieces and more that will teach you how...

The Daniel diet or the Daniel Fast, which one do you do and why? And most importantly, how can it benefit you?  If you are wondering this I am going to tell you the difference between both the Daniel diet and Daniel fast. Because dieting and fasting have two very different reasons for doing them. Dieting tends to stem from health-related reasons whereas a fast tends to stem from spiritual reasons....

As a Christian, there is no doubt that there is the importance of a name. I mean literally, God was naming and renaming people based on what He called them to be.  Once when I went to Church my pastor explained the importance of names in the Bible to me in a way that made so much sense. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2016/10/05/whats-in-a-na...

Blessed are the meek meaning and the meek shall inherit the Earth.  But why? I want to start by saying,  if you can figure out how to be meek then God pretty much assures you that you will be blessed. In case this is your first time seeing or hearing this verse then I suggest you read Matthew 5:5 to get the full context. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-stica...